This episode is so relevant to many. Often we want to host or have guests over but, we feel limited in our home size or resources. Bethany Ariahadi gives some of her insight and heart around why she does what she does, and how she has made some shifts to her own thinking when it came to feeling limited. There is a lot to learn and receive with her words here. She is great at creating warm, and welcoming spaces and atmospheres, and this is should be foundational to why we do what we do. She also points out, that bringing herself is what's important, not trying to be someone else or create a home or space that doesn't represent her.

So, consider for yourself, what could you do with what you have? Who are you, and what is most important when it comes to letting people into your life? Are you a cook or baker? Then cook or bake for them! Do you enjoy a good movie and a glass of wine or beer? Then have someone over to share in the experience! Do you like to do cookouts (grilling/bbq's) then think about who you can invest a little bit of time with, and share in this passion of yours! Your friends, neighbors and even those not in your inner circle will get to experience YOU, and that allows for deeper connections. The point is you don't have to go overboard or be elaborate when it comes to hosting, or sharing your personal space with another person, the point is to share yourself and create a place they will be comfortable and welcome.

In this episode Larissa and Bethany share a restaurant they experienced while Larissa did a quick, surprise visit to the Portland/Vancouver area. They both very much enjoyed the location and overall experience of the Waterfront Taphouse in Vancouver, Wa. It sits right on the Columbia River waterfront in a newer developed area of town. Visiting the Vancouver Waterfront is worth the visit and for a great lunch date or evening meal check out https://thewaterfronttaphouse.com/

Know anyone needing personal or professional cleaners? Bethany Ariahadi has begun a business in the Newberg, Oregon area and is wonderful for your cleaning needs if you have a vacation rental or just need that weekly or monthly quality cleaner. She will take pride in your space and help it feel clean, wonderful and inviting!

Check her website and Instagram out!

https://www.instagram.com/lavishedhomes/

https://www.lavishedhomes.com

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