In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, Pam breaks down some communication skills that help leaders speak with clarity, compassion, and confidence. You’ll learn how to be clear and concise, practice active listening, and lead with emotional intelligence so your team feels seen, safe, and supported.

Pam shows how to give constructive feedback, foster transparency and trust, adapt your style to different personalities, and encourage dialogue that elevates wisdom. She also covers nonverbal communication, choosing the right medium for sensitive topics, and staying fully present—online and in person.

This is a practical guide to advancing your leadership impact with grace and truth.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

Are you intentional about your influence? You are influencing others. The question is what kind of influence do you have on others and how does it impact their life? What are you modeling for others?

Today let's dive into...

• What is influence?
• Why do I need influence?
• Do I have influence?

And a couple bonuses...

• How do I become intentional with my influence?
• What can God do with my obedience?

This is a great episode to keep on repeat. You have to remember that this is what is important. This is what matters. Let's stop wasting our time on so many things that simply do not matter, so we can focus on what does.

1. Our relationship with Jesus matters.

2. Our Christian influence matters because we may be the only Jesus someone ever sees.

Rise up. Lead like Jesus. Follow Him. Lead others to Him. Influence them for the Kingdom and make impact in their lives. And all God's people said, AMEN!

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

In this episode: Pam shows why margin isn’t a luxury—it’s the backbone of Christian leadership. You’ll learn how to create intentional white space in your schedule and soul so you can lead with clarity, confidence, and better time management.

You’ll learn

• What margin really is and why leaders can’t thrive without it.
• How margin clarifies calling and reduces decision fatigue (Psalm 46:10).
• Practical buffers and rhythms that improve time management (Ephesians 5:15–16).
• How to sayno without guilt so your yes is stronger (Galatians 1:10).
• Why Sabbath and solitude are strategic, not optional (Mark 6:31; Luke 5:16).

• Resources & Links:

  • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

Confidence isn’t a personality trait—it’s the byproduct of a firm foundation, a fixed focus, and a faithful stance. Listen to today's episode to grow your confidence and lead stronger. Others are waiting on you to lead.

What you’ll learn

• How to have a firm foundation so your confidence isn’t shaken by opinions or outcomes (Matt 7:24–25).
• A simple focus routine to align your leadership with Jesus in real time (Heb 12:2).
• How to pre-decide your stance so doing the right thing becomes your default (1 Cor 16:13; Gal 6:9-10).

Try this this week

1. Foundation Check (AM): Write: God is __. In Christ I am __. Today matters most when I __.
2. Focus Cue (before key moments): Breathe—Pray—Verse—One behavior to imitate.
3. Stance Plan (Sun night): List 2 boundaries + 1 brave yes; rehearse your script.

Resources mentioned

• Resources & Links:

  • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

Scriptures Matthew 7:24–25; Psalm 18:2; 1 Corinthians 3:11; Hebrews 12:2; 2 Corinthians 3:18; Philippians 2:5; 1 Corinthians 16:13; Micah 6:8; Galatians 6:9–10; Romans 12:9–21.

CTA If this helped, think how insightful a 1:1 Coaching Session with Pam would be for you. Visit pampegram.com/coaching to schedule a 15 minute call to ask questions about coaching or schedule a coaching call and get started growing your confidence.

You want to rise up. You are ready to become the leader you are called to become. You are trying to figure it out, but it is much harder than it should be.

Listen to today's episode and be inspired to make a few decisions that will help you experience clarity and answer the call to lead. Let's lean in and lead like Jesus. Pause and ask yourself - WWJDIHWM?

You are called to lead and you need clarity on the next steps.

Resources & Links:

• Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
• Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

• L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

• Truth Journal [link]

• 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

• Related episodes: “Episode 183: Do you feel Stuck? Stop Making Excuses and Start Walking in Purpose."

Need support? Schedule your Leadership Coaching Session → https://www.pampegram.com/coaching

Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now.

Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.

Welcome friend!

It's time. It's time for you to become the leader you were created to become and do what you are called to do. God is inviting you to intentional leadership where you answer the call to lead and let Him use you to impact the lives of those around you.

On this episode Pam shares 4 steps you can take no matter where God has placed you, no matter what circumstance you face and no matter what your gifts may be. You will want to listen to this episode over and over again and download the booklet, Created to Lead, to help you understand these steps in a way that you can apply them.

Resources & Links:

• Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
• Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

• L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

• Truth Journal [link]

• 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

• Related episodes: “Episode 183: Do you feel Stuck? Stop Making Excuses and Start Walking in Purpose."

Need support? Schedule your Leadership Coaching Session → https://www.pampegram.com/coaching

Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now.

Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.

Summary: Strength returns when our Heart, Head, Hands, and Habits are submitted to Jesus. In this episode, Pam walks through each “H” with Scripture and simple practices you can use immediately.

Scriptures: Philippians 2:3; Psalm 1:1-3

Resources & Links:

• Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
• Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

• L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

• Truth Journal [link]

• 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

• Related episodes: “Episode 183: Do you feel Stuck? Stop Making Excuses and Start Walking in Purpose."

Need support? Schedule your Leadership Coaching Session → https://www.pampegram.com/coaching

Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now.

Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.

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As we walk through an extremely difficult time, we have watched leaders fail and leave devastation in their wake. How can we know better and do better? We must commit to be strong leaders who don't go soft, let pride get in the way, or listen to the influence of anyone who's perspective does not line up with Scripture.

Listen to Pam share her heart and STRONG Leadership Principles. It's not easy to do what is right, but we are called to a higher standard. God sets the standard and we should desire to honor Him.

To learn more about what Pam is walking through - listen to the District Attorney speak about the case. He was interviewed on The Local Yokel podcast and starts talking about the case at 54 minutes. (warning graphic details). Listen here.

Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.

Need support? Schedule your Leadership Coaching Session → https://www.pampegram.com/coaching

Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now.

Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.

This episode includes information about the #LindseyWhiteside case and the illegal sentence #JudgeAndyHoworth gave.

Lindsey Whiteside

Judge Andy Howorth