As leaders, it’s tempting to rush into what’s next without pausing to reflect on what God has already done. But strong leadership requires wisdom — and wisdom grows through intentional reflection.

In this episode, we look back on 2025 through the lens of leadership, personal growth, and spiritual discernment. You’ll learn how to evaluate your year without guilt, pressure, or comparison — and how to step forward with clarity and confidence.

We walk through five questions every strong leader should ask:

• What were my biggest wins?

• What drained my energy?

• What do I want to repeat?

• What should I let go of?

• What are my priorities?

This episode will help you slow down, gain wisdom, and align your next steps with God’s plan — before you set goals or make new commitments.

If you’re ready to lead with intention, clarity, and peace as you move forward, this episode is for you.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates.

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• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

In today’s episode, we’re talking about how personal growth transforms your clarity, confidence, and leadership capacity. If you feel called to more — to rise up, lead like Jesus, and make an intentional impact — this conversation will show you why your growth matters and how to take your next step.

You’ll learn:

• Why strong leaders commit to personal growth

• How personal growth renews your mind (Romans 12:2)

• How clarity leads to better time management and stronger influence

• How confidence grows as you practice new thought patterns

• How your leadership capacity expands as you grow

• Four practical ways to start growing today

• How to lead more intentionally and step boldly into God’s plan for your life

If you’re ready for clarity, confidence, and spiritual growth that strengthens your leadership, this episode is for you.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

Far too many Christian women were spoken to in ways that planted lies about who they are and what they’re capable of. Maybe someone told you, “You’re too difficult,” “You’re the problem,” or “You made me act that way.” These words derail clarity, weaken confidence, and distract you from God’s plan for your life and leadership.

In this episode, Pam helps you break free from the lies you believed and step into intentional, God-centered leadership so you can rise up, live called to more, and lead like Jesus with strength, focus, and courage.

Unhealthy people project their brokenness, but strong leaders learn to filter lies through truth. Discover how to gain clarity, protect your focus, and build a leadership foundation rooted in God’s Word.

You were created with purpose and intention. When you understand your God-given value, you lead with confidence, manage your time with intention, and stop shrinking back from the impact God is calling you to make.

God has called you to more. Learn how to rise up, renew your mindset, reject limiting beliefs, and walk boldly into God’s plan with intentionality and spiritual clarity.

Lies create confusion… but truth creates clarity. Lies drain energy… but truth fuels intentional action. Lies keep you stuck… but truth empowers you to lead like Jesus and step into the life you were created for.

If you want to grow as a leader, strengthen your influence, and pursue God’s plan with confidence, this episode will equip you with biblical truth to silence the lies and lead with purpose.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

Does connecting with others come easy, or is it hard for you?

Did you know that if you grow your ability to connect, you will grow your leadership capacity? Leaders must be able to connect or they will stunt the growth of their leadership potential.

If connecting is hard for you - it can get easier. Over time, it came even become natural for you to boost your ability to form a connection. Pam will share 5 tips to help you decrease the awkwardness, form a connection quickly, and fulfill God's plan for you. None of us are called to isolate, we are called to do life in community and that requires connection.

As we learn to connect, we will grow relationships. As we grow relationships, we will have the opportunity to make an impact in the lives of others. Connection is required to establish trust and respect. This opens up the door for us to have influence in the lives of those around us.

Be sure to join the private FB page and connect with Pam.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

Confidence is not out of reach. You can be confident as you lead others. Matter of fact, you can walk in Confident Christian Influence everyday and choose to be intentional about making an impact in the lives of others.

In this episode Pam talks about 3 decisions you can make to boost your confidence quickly. These decisions are not difficult, but it is very important that you decide to do these 3 things. You will be so glad you did.

Pam has also added a new resource - the Identity Sheet - you will want to grab. Hop over to her Resource Library - click here - type in your email and then have instant access to some very helpful resources.

Visit the Marketplace on Pam's website to order her book and her Truth Journal. Pam's clients say the Truth Journal is a game changer. And it makes a great gift and stocking stuffer. Grab yours here.

Oh, and here is the link to Pam's favorite Bible.

Okay friend - remember you have worth and value, God has a plan and a purpose for you, and you have gifts God wants to use. Today is a good day to decide you will no longer compare yourself to others, be intimidated, and no longer be confined by your comfort zone.

Be a confident leader who leads others well and makes a difference in their life.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, Pam shares a practical, faith-forward guide to dealing with difficult people using the L.E.A.D. framework and the example of Jesus’ authority under control. You’ll learn how to lead like Jesus when tensions rise, protect your peace with healthy boundaries, and respond with clarity and self-control instead of reacting from frustration. We walk through L.E.A.D. — Lean In, Elevate Perspective, Accept Responsibility, Do the Right Things for the Right Reasons—to help you lean into God's word and instruction, consider the opportunity you have to impact the difficult persons and others, to respond appropriately, and do what God would have you to do. You’ll practice calm authority as your leadership strengthens relationships, reduces conflict, and builds trust at work, in ministry, and at home.

Pam covers the worth and value we all have, Biblical principles that must be upheld, and how to set healthy boundaries and detach from the drama while staying kind. If you’re ready to transform difficult interactions into opportunities for clarity, confidence, and influence, this episode gives you the tools to lead strong with grace and truth.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

You are going to love this episode.

Get ready to identify the very excuse(s) you use to stop you short of Rising Up, Leading, and Impacting others at work, in your community, and at home. While it is easy to shrink back, it is more challenging to be bold and choose to be intentional to lead well. This is why so many never step into their God-given calling to grow into the leader they were created to become.

Don't let this be you. You can lean in and learn what you need to lead. You can elevate your perspective and recognize this is not about you, but about the lives you can impact. Accept the responsibility to lead and do it afraid and choose to be uncomfortable until your no longer are. Lastly, do the right thing for the right reason - to impact the lives of those around you.

Today, we need Confident Christian Influence more than ever before. It all begins with a simple yes and a willing heart to be obedient.

Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com

In Episode 199 of Confident Christian Influence, Pam teaches a practical Christian leadership mindset framework to help you control your thoughts and transform your actions. If you’re battling overthinking, anxiety, perfectionism, or negative self-talk, this episode shows you how to identify faulty thoughts, stop the thought spiral, and replace lies with truth so you can lead with clarity, confidence, and self-control at work and at home.

You’ll learn to spot your limiting thoughts, run a quick thought audit that separates facts from assumptions, and use a simple pattern interrupt to break mental momentum.

Pam walks you through building a personalized Truth Bank—three to five statements that target your most frequent lies—and pairing each truth with a concrete action step. This Notice • Neutralize • Replace process equips you to quiet internal noise, strengthen emotional intelligence, and create consistent leadership behaviors that align with your calling.

Download the Truth Bank & the Thought Framework Worksheet - HERE, take the Leadership Type Quiz, and book a 60-minute Clarity Call to practice real scenarios and elevate your faith-at-work influence.

Scripture anchor: 2 Corinthians 10:5.

Resources & Links:

• • Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here.
  • Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link]

  • L.E.A.D. booklet [link]

  • Truth Journal [link]

  • 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]

  • Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com