In this episode, I reflect on the importance of personal accountability and how easy it can be to point fingers at others rather than owning up to our actions. I start with the classic Einstein quote about insanity—doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results—and share stories from my own life where accountability (or lack thereof) played a big role, from customers blaming my company for their missed subscriptions to personal habits I’ve needed to change.

I talk about childhood lessons my dad taught me about fairness, and how comparison can steal our joy. I discuss how excuses like “nobody ever told me” or “that’s just how I am” keep us stuck, and I get real about my messy house, bad eating habits, and struggles with weight. I share about moments when I ignored obvious red flags in relationships and recount how ignoring good counsel can lead to costly failures—like filing bankruptcy in my 20s and bombing a tough college class because I didn’t pay attention.

I dive into Scripture, highlighting Galatians 6, Philippians 2, and Ezekiel 18, to remind myself (and listeners) that we reap what we sow, that change is possible, and that we are responsible for our own actions—not our parents, not anyone else.

There’s a story about my ex-wife and how firm consequences helped her kids grow into successful adults—I even witnessed her smash a video game as promised! I’m reminded that real change takes effort, sometimes painful choices, and a willingness to listen, learn, and act.

Finally, I encourage anyone feeling stuck in their current story—whether with their job, family, or faith—to “read the syllabus” (the Bible) and try something different. I share that this episode really speaks to my own need for self-discipline and accountability.

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As I record this, it's the week of Thanksgiving, so I wanted to take some time to talk about why giving thanks is so important—not just spiritually (it's biblical!), but also physically and mentally. If you're feeling like there’s nothing to be thankful for, maybe you’re just not looking in the right places.

I dive into 1 Thessalonians 5:18 and talk about how giving thanks applies to all circumstances, not just when we feel like it. I discuss how our brains are naturally wired for negativity and how envy, comparison, pride, and resentment can get in the way of gratitude. It takes practice to be grateful!

I reflect on everyday things we overlook, like having the internet at our fingertips, a warm furnace, a roof over our heads, food choices, and even our freedom to worship. I share a nostalgic story about the excitement of getting a new album growing up, and how music has changed with the advent of streaming—it’s so easy to take these things for granted.

There's also a lesson from Luke 17 about the 10 men with leprosy and how only one returned to thank Jesus. It makes me wonder: Are we sometimes taking God for granted because He’s always there?

I also talk about the physical and mental health benefits of gratitude—lower blood pressure, better sleep, fewer symptoms of depression and anxiety, and more satisfaction in life. To help you build a habit, I suggest trying a Five Minute Journal or jotting down three things you're grateful for each day.

Tim Tebow John 3:16 Story

I share a story involving Tim Tebow and some remarkable “coincidences” surrounding John 3:16, reminding us that God is always working, even if we don't see it. I also recount a personal experience of almost hitting a deer and realizing that sometimes, the small inconveniences (like filling up tires in the rain) might just be blessings in disguise.

The Benefits of Gratitude

Finally, I discuss how gratitude helped me cope with grief, and how it's hard to feel grateful and bitter at the same time. I encourage you to practice gratitude, especially if you're struggling during the holidays.

Mentioned: The 5 Minute Journal From Intelligent Change (affiliate)

If you find this episode helpful or know someone who could use a lift, point them to feedingmyfaith.com/95. I appreciate everyone who listens and sends feedback. If you're celebrating Thanksgiving, I hope you have a wonderful holiday. If not, enjoy your Thursday!

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Hey, it's Dave Jackson, and in this episode, I'm diving deep into something that's affecting all of us—how our brains are wired for quick gratification, and how that plays out in everything from social media scrolling to food, gambling, and more.

I start things off by talking about the science behind our brains—the dopamine “wanting chemical” that's responsible for why we keep endlessly scrolling on apps like Facebook or TikTok, and why we binge on things that give us instant gratification. I share my own struggles with Facebook shorts and set limits on myself to avoid that endless late-night rabbit hole.

We also get into how our choices—especially when it comes to food—are being manipulated. Food companies have learned how to mess with our hunger and satisfaction hormones to keep us eating more, and this has contributed to skyrocketing childhood obesity rates. It’s no wonder it’s hard to stop at just one chip!

Then I walk through how things like TikTok and other gamified experiences are rewiring our brains, leaving us less motivated and unsatisfied with real life because it doesn't offer that “instant fix.” I talk about the dangers facing our kids, especially with early online exposure to things like pornography and addictive social media platforms.

Gambling is everywhere now—I share some jaw-dropping ways companies are targeting young people with new predictive markets and game mechanics that make it super easy to get hooked. I give examples, like apps where kids spend millions gambling with virtual coins, and how companies even lure people back in after they've quit.

Throughout the episode, I tie these modern struggles back to biblical wisdom—like the parable of the talents in Matthew, and Solomon's advice from Proverbs—reminding all of us that there’s a difference between quick gratification and lasting satisfaction. I share how taking pride in small, real-life accomplishments builds character and genuine satisfaction, unlike these surface-level dopamine hits.

I wrap up by encouraging you (and myself) to make better choices—one at a time—and focus on what truly brings satisfaction. Tune in for some real talk about the subtle traps in our culture and how we can use faith to navigate them.

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