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  • Sugar Daddies, Sugar Babies and the New Normal of Profit-Based Dating
    2025/07/09
    In a candid and revealing interview, actress and model Margo Graff, the self-proclaimed "queen of receiving," shatters common misconceptions surrounding the sugar baby lifestyle in Los Angeles.
    The 33-year old receives upwards of $16,000 to $17,000 a month in allowances and lavish gifts (including a horse for her birthday), reframes profit-based dating not as a power imbalance, but as a path to empowerment and a "soft life" on her own terms. She boldly states, "I am a Maserati. I cost a lot to maintain," emphasizing her value and her unapologetic embrace of luxury.

    Graff's perspective challenges the stereotype of the financially dependent sugar baby with "daddy issues." Raised by a strong, providing father, she was instilled with an appreciation for traditional gender roles, influencing her desire for a partner who can provide and protect.
    Despite working five jobs and owning multiple properties and trust funds, Graff finds that even her significant income isn't enough to cover the exorbitant cost of living in Los Angeles. For her, the sugar baby label is a strategic means to fund her ambitious lifestyle and achieve her entrepreneurial goals.

    A significant portion of her personal investment has been directed towards her acting career. She explains, "I’ve put so much money into my acting career, thinking it would pay it back to me."
    This suggests a professional history within the entertainment industry where she has invested both time and financial resources, indicating a serious commitment to her craft. This experience likely contributes to her self-assured demeanor and her ability to articulate her worth in the demanding Los Angeles environment.

    Graff's approach to finding "sugar daddies" is as deliberate as a job application, with a minimum net worth requirement of $10 million. She seeks connections in upscale venues and on dedicated websites, emphasizing that sexual encounters are not an immediate expectation. For Graff, the true "superpower" lies in the "art of receiving" and her ability to uplift and champion her partners, making them feel like "superheroes" while she herself operates as "Superwoman."

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    55 分
  • Ashley Madison's Revealing Survey on Passion and Secrecy with Paul Keable
    2025/07/03
    www.ashleymadison.comKOP welcomes Ashley Madison's Chief Strategy Officer, Paul Keable, to peel back the layers of the controversial dating platform. Keable shed light on Ashley Madison's unique credit-based system, which, unlike traditional subscriptions, empowers users (especially men) to be more discerning and avoids the "spray and prey" messaging often seen on other apps. He attributed the platform's two-decade longevity to its unapologetically clear mission: "Life is short, have an affair." This directness attracts highly intentional daters and, surprisingly, fosters more authentic interactions due to a focus on specific needs rather than a "happily ever after" façade.

    We look into the evolving landscape of relationships, noting the rise of disclosed non-monogamy, particularly among Gen Z. Keable revealed that roughly 20% of Ashley Madison users are openly in such arrangements, indicating a significant shift in societal norms.

    We also explored the psychological underpinnings of why people use Ashley Madison, with Keable citing research showing that women often seek to fulfill intimate needs unmet in their primary relationships, while men look for emotional validation. The discussion didn't shy away from modern dating's pitfalls, including problematic male behaviors like unsolicited messages and the increasing demand from women for respect and effort.

    Finally, Keable highlighted Ashley Madison's commitment to safety and authenticity through its new ID verification initiative, emphasizing that its enduring appeal lies in its consistent delivery of discreet, authentic connections for its 90 million-strong community.


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    48 分
  • Bonnie Blue and Andrew Tate on The Fall of Masculinity and Feminism Today
    2025/06/25
    The Self-Proclaimed "End Result of Feminism" Bonnie Blue meet the King of Masculinity Andrew Tate in a salacious and surprisingly humorous interview on the "Disruptors" podcast.
    Controversial internet personalities Andrew Tate and Bonnie Blue came together to discuss the current state of masculinity and femininity in the age of social media. The self-proclaimed "Top G" and the former OnlyFans star engaged in a dialogue that was both provocative and, at times, unexpectedly respectful.

    The interview's most memorable moment came when Tate, known for his traditionalist views on gender roles, lauded Blue as "the perfect end result of feminism." He argued that the societal shift towards female independence has dismantled the traditional family unit and that Blue, in her unapologetic embrace of her sexuality and career, is the embodiment of this new reality. Tate expressed "a lot of respect" for her honesty, contrasting her with women he claims are hypocritical about their pasts.Blue, for her part, flipped the script on her critics, proudly declaring herself a clear example of female empowerment. She challenged the notion that her actions are a step backward for women, instead framing her career as a bold display of agency and choice.

    While the conversation touched on serious cultural shifts and the impact of online discourse, it was laced with the kind of over-the-top bravado and self-aware humor that has made both figures internet sensations. Tate maintained that he would never want his own daughter to follow a similar path, a comment he delivered with a wry quip that he "never said my daughter was her own person." Ultimately, the interview was a fascinating (and at times, deeply cringe-worthy) look into a world where traditional gender roles have been twisted, exaggerated, and redefined by the unforgiving lens of social media.

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  • Materialists and The Ideal Mate Illusion in Modern Matchmaking
    2025/06/19
    The new film Materialists, starring Dakota Johnson as a high-end matchmaker named Lucy, delves into the transactional and often delusional world of modern dating, particularly as experienced by her wealthy clients in New York City. While the movie aims to offer a sharp, even cynical, look at the pursuit of love, its portrayal of matchmaking and the expectations of potential mates has sparked strong reactions from real-life matchmakers.The core of the film's narrative, and a point of contention for many real matchmakers, lies in the delusion of the potential mates.
    Lucy's clients are often characterized by their highly specific, almost superficial, checklists for an ideal partner – focusing on attributes like height, net worth, and a perfect "image." This "build a bear" approach, as one matchmaker describes it, sets unrealistic expectations, leading clients to chase an unattainable ideal rather than seeking genuine connection. The film highlights how individuals, driven by the curated realities of social media and a culture of commodification, believe they can simply "recreate" a perfect partner.
    This delusion is not confined to the fictional world of Materialists but resonates deeply with everyday dating life. In a landscape saturated with dating apps and curated online profiles, individuals often fall into the trap of viewing potential partners as a collection of desirable traits rather than complex individuals. This "materialistic" approach to love, where people are "objectified" and "commodified," as writer-director Celine Song herself notes, fosters a superficial pursuit that often leads to disappointment and a struggle to find true compatibility.
    While some aspects of Lucy's dedication to her clients and her post-date follow-ups are recognized as realistic, real matchmakers largely critique Materialists for its unrealistic depiction of their profession. They point out that true matchmaking involves far more than simply fulfilling a checklist; it requires deep emotional intelligence, building trust, and often challenging clients' preconceived notions to help them find meaningful relationships.
    The film's emphasis on dramatic, ethically questionable scenarios (like stalking or the mishandling of client safety) further deviates from the professional standards and community-driven nature of the actual matchmaking industry.
    Ultimately, Materialists serves as a cinematic reflection on the often-delusional pursuit of the "perfect" partner in contemporary dating, highlighting the gap between idealized expectations and the messy, human reality of finding love.

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    24 分
  • OnlyFans Virgins Over Vamps: Sophie Rain and Bonnie Blue. Simp-licious or Seductive?
    2025/06/11
    The OnlyFans battlefield has never been hotter—or more twisted. In a world where simping fuels empires and sex appeal is a weapon, two of the platform’s most provocative queens are locked in a feud that’s as personal as it is performative. Sophie Rain, the baby-faced billionaire fantasy, and Bonnie Blue, the leather-clad dominatrix of digital depravity, are more than rivals—they’re cultural foils exposing the dirty underbelly of influencer erotica and the hypocrisy baked into the platforms that made them famous.

    Sophie Rain, barely out of her teens, has mastered the art of being softcore and sacrosanct all at once. Marketed as a "virgin" archetype with pouty innocence and just enough coquettish confidence to leave simps thirsting for more, she’s cashed in big—to the tune of $6 million from a single obsessed benefactor (The Tab). Her brand is built on the illusion of accessibility—she's almost yours, but never quite. Her age, her softness, her "girl next door" energy? It’s a curated fantasy, designed to let lonely men feel like they’re protecting her, even as they’re bankrolling her into stardom.

    But enter Bonnie Blue: the villain in leather heels, who doesn’t whisper—she bites. Known for her aggressively dominant persona, Bonnie doesn’t play sweet. She plays cruel. But recent headlines shattered even that illusion, exposing a darker truth. In a searing exposé (The Tab), multiple women accused Blue of mental torment and cyberstalking, alleging she unleashed her fanbase like attack dogs on anyone who dared question her power. The dominatrix, it seems, likes to play psychological games even off-screen—blurring the lines between performance and predation.
    That’s when Sophie Rain pounced. In a scathing viral interview with Complex (read here), Rain publicly eviscerated Blue, calling her a menace and a disgrace to the OnlyFans community. But here’s the kicker: while Rain denounces Bonnie’s cruelty, she weaponizes her own version of manipulation—selling a sanitized, submissive brand of sexuality that thrives on infantilization and male obsession. One plays predator, the other plays prey—but both profit from the same cycle of parasocial seduction.

    It’s a tale of two temptresses in a digital coliseum, both exploiting men’s lust and loneliness to climb the algorithm. Bonnie gives you pain and punishment; Sophie gives you purity and the promise of a DM. But strip away the branding, and both are running the same game—one just does it with bows and blush, the other with whips and war paint.

    This isn’t just a catfight—it’s a cultural reckoning. The “virgin vs vamp” dynamic is playing out in real time, fueled by simps, stans, and a society obsessed with fetishizing women as either saints or sinners. As Sophie and Bonnie tear each other down, what’s really being exposed is the twisted morality of the platforms and the audience that reward performance over principle.

    In the end, OnlyFans isn't just about selling sex—it's about selling roles. And in the clash between innocence and intimidation, it’s the audience who pays to keep the drama—and the dollars—flowing.

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    36 分
  • OnlyFans Turns Sex Into Sport or Tinder Targets Short Kings
    2025/06/04
    OnlyFans influencers Bonnie Blue, Annie Knight and Lily Phillips are pushing the boundaries of online adult content with controversial “competitive sex” challenges, boasting about sleeping with hundreds of men in a matter of hours.
    While some participants claim empowerment and financial gain, experts warn of the severe physical, mental, and emotional toll these stunts can bring — including trauma, objectification, and long-term relationship difficulties. Critics say the trend reflects a dangerous shift in how online validation is pursued, turning intimacy into spectacle.
    Meanwhile, Tinder sparked a separate online firestorm by introducing a height filter in its Premium Discovery settings, prompting backlash over body shaming and discrimination — particularly from shorter men.
    As both platforms reshape digital sexuality, critics argue they’re fueling a crisis of self-worth rooted in extremes and superficial metrics.
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    37 分
  • Likes, Matches, Letdowns and Social Media Strain on a Woman’s Love Life
    2025/05/28
    According to an article from *Cosmopolitan*, doomscrolling—endlessly consuming negative content on social media—can erode hope in dating by amplifying fears of rejection, betrayal, or failure. This behavior fosters a pessimistic outlook, making women feel more guarded and less open to authentic connections. Social media platforms and dating apps, while designed to connect people, often exacerbate these challenges.

    For instance, a 2021 *Guardian* article notes that online dating can leave women feeling less happy, less likely to find long-term partners, and more vulnerable to negative experiences, such as sexual violence.

    Similarly, a 2023 *New York Post* study highlights that couples who meet through dating apps often report lower relationship satisfaction and stability, partly due to societal stigma around online-formed relationships.

    Additionally, a Reddit discussion suggests that the overwhelming volume of matches on dating apps can distort women’s perceptions, creating unrealistic expectations or decision fatigue.

    Research from *PsyPost* (2024) offers a counterpoint, indicating that couples who openly discuss their online-initiated relationships may experience better outcomes, suggesting communication as a potential remedy.

    However, the broader psychological toll is significant: a 2024 *Therapist.com* study links dating app use to higher levels of anxiety, depression, and emotional distress.

    Dating advice for women navigating this space includes setting boundaries on app usage, prioritizing in-person interactions, and critically evaluating online content to avoid internalizing negative narratives.

    By fostering self-awareness and focusing on intentional dating practices, women can counteract the hope-diminishing effects of social media and dating apps, cultivating optimism for meaningful relationships.

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    33 分
  • Psychological Evidence Behind Tattoos and Trauma
    2025/05/21
    Tattoos have long been intertwined with culture, identity, and rebellion—but in recent years, they've also become the subject of deeper psychological inquiry, especially in relation to trauma. While initial reports highlighted that many trauma survivors turn to tattoos as a "coping mechanism" or "form of expression," feedback has made it clear: we need to go deeper.Rather than settling on surface-level generalizations, we should explore the psychological mechanisms that may drive tattoo acquisition post-trauma. One plausible hypothesis is that tattoos serve as a form of self-verification—a way to regain a sense of coherence and control over identity after it has been destabilized by trauma. For some, the permanence of ink provides a counterpoint to the impermanence of safety, love, or self-worth they've previously experienced.Another possible explanation lies in embodied cognition. Research suggests that physical alterations to the body can alter internal emotional states. For trauma survivors, tattooing—especially in areas associated with prior harm or vulnerability—may serve as a tactile form of emotional reprocessing. The pain of the needle itself may also invoke a cathartic release, aligning with studies on pain offset relief, which demonstrate how controlled physical pain can produce short-term emotional regulation.Of course, there's a key distinction to be made between correlation and causation. While studies, including one cited from Germany, have found higher incidences of childhood trauma among those with tattoos, this does not mean that tattoos are a direct result of trauma. Rather, they may reflect a broader set of behavioral patterns—risk-taking, identity exploration, or social signaling—that become more pronounced in individuals with unresolved psychological wounds.Additionally, tattoos may function as narrative anchors. Survivors of trauma often struggle to construct coherent life stories. Tattoos—especially those with symbolic or mythological resonance like Medusa—can help externalize these narratives, acting as visual milestones in one’s journey toward healing or transformation.That said, it’s crucial not to paint all tattooed individuals with a single psychological brush. Many people, including those who have never experienced trauma, are drawn to tattoos for cultural, aesthetic, or even spiritual reasons. Some celebrate the ritual of body modification as a form of belonging to tribal or ancestral traditions, while others simply enjoy the art.The cultural divide is real. Critics still associate tattoos with promiscuity, rebellion, or poor decision-making—sometimes in overtly misogynistic terms, as seen in comments labeling tattooed women as having a “high body count” or “self-identifying 304s.” These reactions say more about societal biases than the inked individuals themselves.Meanwhile, tattoo enthusiasts—many of whom have been getting inked since adolescence—often view the practice as a lifelong journey of self-discovery and connection. As one heavily tattooed commenter reflected, “One day I kind of asked myself, why did I start doing this?” That introspective question reveals the deeper layers behind a seemingly simple act.In the end, tattoos are not inherently trauma-linked—but for some, they become a canvas where pain, power, and purpose intersect. Whether you're drawn to the ink for healing, heritage, or purely for art, understanding the psychological undercurrents invites a more empathetic—and scientifically rigorous—conversation.Contact KOP for professional podcast production, imaging, and web design services at http://www.kingofpodcasts.comSupport KOP by subscribing to his YouTube channel and search for King Of PodcastsFollow KOP on X or TikTok or LinkedIn @kingofpodcastsFind KOP’s other programs, Podcasters Row… and the Wrestling is Real Wrestling Podcast and The Broadcasters Podcast at http://www.kingofpodcasts.comBuy KOP a Coffee https://buymeacoffee.com/kingofpodcastsDrop KOP a PayPal https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=3TAB983ZQPNVLDrop KOP a CashApp https://cash.app/$kingofallpodcastsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/depraved-and-debaucherous--5267208/support.
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    32 分