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  • 3129: Want Your Child to Talk to You? Become a Brilliant Listener! by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Listening Better

    3129: Want Your Child to Talk to You? Become a Brilliant Listener! by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Listening Better
    2026/09/04
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3129: Dr. Laura Markham explains that getting a child to open up has almost nothing to do with the right question and everything to do with how you listen. She walks through twelve habits, from putting the phone away and trading questions for gentle openers, to matching your reaction to their mood and keeping your own worry out of the room. It is parenting advice for becoming the person your child brings the hard things to. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.peacefulparenthappykids.com/read/brilliant-listener Quotes to ponder: "The most important skill in talking with anyone, including children, is listening." "What your child needs from you is your full attention and empathy." "Empathy is mirroring whatever she's already showing you." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    12 分
  • 3128: Is Your Child Selfish? 4 Simple Ways To Turn Your Kid Around by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply on Positive Parenting

    3128: Is Your Child Selfish? 4 Simple Ways To Turn Your Kid Around by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply on Positive Parenting
    2026/09/03
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3128: Adina Soclof explains that children who seem selfish are usually just doing what their age allows, since seeing an adult's point of view is a skill they have not developed yet. She offers four ways to teach it without coming down hard: empathizing with their feelings, saying what you need before the moment arrives, describing your situation plainly, and modeling compassion for others. It is practical positive parenting for raising a child who notices what everyone else is carrying. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/is-your-child-selfish-4-simple-ways-to-turn-your-kid-around/ Quotes to ponder: "It is helpful to know that kids do not want to misbehave they are usually just acting normally for their age." "Empathizing with kids and respecting their negative feelings is truly the best way to teach our kids to see our perspective." "Naming their feelings helps kids to become emotionally literate and comfortable with their wide range of emotions." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 分
  • 3127: The Marriage Diaries: Surprise! I Was a Lousy Wife by Mary Carver on Marriage Expectations

    3127: The Marriage Diaries: Surprise! I Was a Lousy Wife by Mary Carver on Marriage Expectations
    2026/09/02
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3127: Mary Carver shares what she learned after nearly thirteen years of the same fights brought her marriage to a breaking point. She describes carrying a long checklist of what a good husband should do while never once asking what kind of wife she was being, and how quietly that scorekeeping turned into contention. It is a candid look at how examining your own expectations can reopen a marriage that felt finished. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://declutteryourlife.co/the-marriage-diaries-surprise-i-was-a-lousy-wife/ Quotes to ponder: "With so much energy poured into my good husband checklist, of course I didn't waste time thinking about what kind of wife I was." "Everything was about what I wanted, how it made me feel and what I thought I deserved." "It was only after counseling and a lot of soul-searching that I realized my expectations, combined with my insistence on being right and having rights, were ruining my chance at a happy marriage." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    9 分
  • 3126: Why Couples Shouldn't Do Couples Therapy (Says the Couples Therapist) by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Conflict Repair

    3126: Why Couples Shouldn't Do Couples Therapy (Says the Couples Therapist) by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Conflict Repair
    2026/09/01
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3126: Dr. Kelly Flanagan explains why so many couples arrive at marital therapy locked in the same fight every week, and why the real opponent is shame rather than the person across the room. He describes how a criticism squeezes an already saturated heart until shame leaks out as attack, and how naming that feeling out loud stops the cycle in a way no amount of arguing can. It is honest marriage advice about turning inward first so the relationship has room to change. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/why-couples-shouldnt-do-couples-therapy-says-the-couples-therapist/ Quotes to ponder: "Our hearts are like a sponge for shame, and most of us are pretty saturated with it by the time we meet our lifelong companion." "You don't fight for your Saturday night by fighting with your spouse. You fight for your Saturday night by fighting with yourself." "Until we can be gentle with ourselves, we can't be gentle to anyone else." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    11 分
  • 3125: 10 Questions Happy Couples Are Constantly Asking One Another by Anita Chlipala with Gottman on Lasting Love

    3125: 10 Questions Happy Couples Are Constantly Asking One Another by Anita Chlipala with Gottman on Lasting Love
    2026/08/31
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3125: Anita Chlipala explains how couples drift from loving talk into logistical talk without noticing, and offers ten open-ended questions that reopen the conversation, covering childhood memories, unmet needs, private worries, unfulfilled dreams, and physical intimacy. She notes that the couples who stay connected are simply deliberate about it, setting aside twenty distraction-free minutes and letting themselves be vulnerable rather than staging grand gestures. It is small, repeatable relationship advice for keeping a marriage close over the long run. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/10-questions-happy-couples-constantly-asking-one-another/ Quotes to ponder: "Too many couples become emotionally disconnected and they never saw it coming." "Let yourself be vulnerable. It's a pathway to intimacy and it helps you build and maintain trust." "Intimacy suffers when people stay focused on the things that aren't going well or take the good things for granted." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 分
  • 3124: [Part 2] Productivity Tips for Working Moms - How to Get Things Done! by Julianna Poplin of The Simplicity Habit on Quality Time

    3124: [Part 2] Productivity Tips for Working Moms - How to Get Things Done! by Julianna Poplin of The Simplicity Habit on Quality Time
    2026/08/30
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3124: Julianna Poplin continues with the practical half: rank the day by what is most important and time sensitive, then do the worst task first so nothing hangs over the rest of it. She explains how make-ahead meals hand back an entire evening during the week, and how a written list, a paper planner, or a bullet journal gets every obligation out of your head and into one place. The payoff is not just a shorter to-do list, it is focused, unhurried quality time with the family. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.thesimplicityhabit.com/productivity-tips-working-moms/ Quotes to ponder: "Make it a priority to give your kids focused attention each day." "By making your meals for the week on the weekend, you can spend valuable time each evening with your kids or tackling something else on your to-do list." "Reading all the productivity tips for working moms in the world won't change your situation." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 分
  • 3123: [Part 1] Productivity Tips for Working Moms - How to Get Things Done! by Julianna Poplin of The Simplicity Habit on Maternal Wellness

    3123: [Part 1] Productivity Tips for Working Moms - How to Get Things Done! by Julianna Poplin of The Simplicity Habit on Maternal Wellness
    2026/08/29
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3123: Julianna Poplin shares how the working moms who seem to have it together actually manage it: living intentionally, asking for help, keeping one family calendar, and accepting a certain amount of chaos rather than fighting it. She explains why getting organized makes a real difference to how happy and relaxed a mom feels, then turns to mom guilt and the unrealistic standards behind it. This first part closes on protecting a little morning time for yourself, because self care is what makes everything else possible. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.thesimplicityhabit.com/productivity-tips-working-moms/ Quotes to ponder: "As a working mom, it can feel like you're being pulled in a million directions at once." "Stop beating yourself up and feeling guilty about the things you AREN'T doing." "You can't take care of others or your to-do list if you're physically and emotionally exhausted." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 分
  • 3122: Am I a "Good Enough" Parent? by Dr. Jack Stoltzfus of Parents Letting Go on Parenting Young Adults

    3122: Am I a "Good Enough" Parent? by Dr. Jack Stoltzfus of Parents Letting Go on Parenting Young Adults
    2026/08/28
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3122: Dr. Jack Stoltzfus explains why chasing perfect parenting produces guilt in parents and perfectionism in kids, and why psychoanalyst Donald Winnicott's idea of the good enough parent is a healthier standard. He describes how the pressure shows up again when young adults choose careers, values, or lifestyles their parents did not expect, and argues that parents cannot control their young adults but can still influence them by shifting from caretaking to encouraging independence. He closes with a parent report card for measuring parenting against love, consistency, apology, and letting go. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentslettinggo.com/am-i-a-good-enough-parent/ Quotes to ponder: "Striving for perfection or even excellence is a recipe for a life of guilt." "Don't strive for perfection in your parenting because your kids will also believe they must be perfect." "Forgive ourselves for not being perfect parents and forgive our kids for decisions or actions we don't support." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    11 分