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  • 3132: How Can a Couples Therapist Help Me Navigate the Decision of Divorce? by Sara Stanizai of Prospect Therapy on Hard Conversations

    3132: How Can a Couples Therapist Help Me Navigate the Decision of Divorce? by Sara Stanizai of Prospect Therapy on Hard Conversations
    2026/09/06
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    11 分
  • 3131: Build Healthy Habits For Kids With a Feeding Schedule by Crystal Karges on Positive Parenting

    3131: Build Healthy Habits For Kids With a Feeding Schedule by Crystal Karges on Positive Parenting
    2026/09/06
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3131: Crystal Karges explains why a consistent meal and snack schedule does more for a child's eating than the food on the plate. She walks through four reasons routine helps: it builds a positive feeding relationship, it signals that eating matters, it lets kids tune in to their own hunger and fullness, and it creates more chances to serve a variety of foods. She is careful to note that a schedule is a guideline rather than a rule, which is what makes it practical parenting advice for real family life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.crystalkarges.com/blog/this-is-why-you-need-a-meal-schedule-to-raise-healthy-eaters Quotes to ponder: "As much as we may hate to admit it, kids actually do better with structure." "Consistent routines create structure and predictability, which is important for building healthy habits for kids." "Establishing a routine with eating, such as with a meal schedule, helps a child trust that food is consistently available." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 分
  • 3130: Do You Want Your Partner To Treat You Like Royalty? by Evan Marc Katz on Lasting Love

    3130: Do You Want Your Partner To Treat You Like Royalty? by Evan Marc Katz on Lasting Love
    2026/09/05
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3130: Evan Marc Katz makes the case that the generosity people hope to receive from a partner usually has to be spent first. He points out how easy it is to catalog every criticism you have received while forgetting the small digs you hand out, and why positive reinforcement brings out a better version of the person you are with. It is straightforward relationship advice on how acceptance, not correction, builds lasting love. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/understanding-men/do-you-want-your-partner-to-treat-you-like-royalty Quotes to ponder: "Treat your partner like royalty every single day." "Positive reinforcement makes a man feel great about himself AND about you." "Want to be treated like a princess? Start treating your men like kings." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    9 分
  • 3129: Want Your Child to Talk to You? Become a Brilliant Listener! by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Listening Better

    3129: Want Your Child to Talk to You? Become a Brilliant Listener! by Dr. Laura Markham of Peaceful Parent Happy Kids on Listening Better
    2026/09/04
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3129: Dr. Laura Markham explains that getting a child to open up has almost nothing to do with the right question and everything to do with how you listen. She walks through twelve habits, from putting the phone away and trading questions for gentle openers, to matching your reaction to their mood and keeping your own worry out of the room. It is parenting advice for becoming the person your child brings the hard things to. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.peacefulparenthappykids.com/read/brilliant-listener Quotes to ponder: "The most important skill in talking with anyone, including children, is listening." "What your child needs from you is your full attention and empathy." "Empathy is mirroring whatever she's already showing you." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    12 分
  • 3128: Is Your Child Selfish? 4 Simple Ways To Turn Your Kid Around by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply on Positive Parenting

    3128: Is Your Child Selfish? 4 Simple Ways To Turn Your Kid Around by Adina Soclof of Parenting Simply on Positive Parenting
    2026/09/03
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3128: Adina Soclof explains that children who seem selfish are usually just doing what their age allows, since seeing an adult's point of view is a skill they have not developed yet. She offers four ways to teach it without coming down hard: empathizing with their feelings, saying what you need before the moment arrives, describing your situation plainly, and modeling compassion for others. It is practical positive parenting for raising a child who notices what everyone else is carrying. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://parentingsimply.com/is-your-child-selfish-4-simple-ways-to-turn-your-kid-around/ Quotes to ponder: "It is helpful to know that kids do not want to misbehave they are usually just acting normally for their age." "Empathizing with kids and respecting their negative feelings is truly the best way to teach our kids to see our perspective." "Naming their feelings helps kids to become emotionally literate and comfortable with their wide range of emotions." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 分
  • 3127: The Marriage Diaries: Surprise! I Was a Lousy Wife by Mary Carver on Marriage Expectations

    3127: The Marriage Diaries: Surprise! I Was a Lousy Wife by Mary Carver on Marriage Expectations
    2026/09/02
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3127: Mary Carver shares what she learned after nearly thirteen years of the same fights brought her marriage to a breaking point. She describes carrying a long checklist of what a good husband should do while never once asking what kind of wife she was being, and how quietly that scorekeeping turned into contention. It is a candid look at how examining your own expectations can reopen a marriage that felt finished. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://declutteryourlife.co/the-marriage-diaries-surprise-i-was-a-lousy-wife/ Quotes to ponder: "With so much energy poured into my good husband checklist, of course I didn't waste time thinking about what kind of wife I was." "Everything was about what I wanted, how it made me feel and what I thought I deserved." "It was only after counseling and a lot of soul-searching that I realized my expectations, combined with my insistence on being right and having rights, were ruining my chance at a happy marriage." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    9 分
  • 3126: Why Couples Shouldn't Do Couples Therapy (Says the Couples Therapist) by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Conflict Repair

    3126: Why Couples Shouldn't Do Couples Therapy (Says the Couples Therapist) by Dr. Kelly Flanagan on Conflict Repair
    2026/09/01
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3126: Dr. Kelly Flanagan explains why so many couples arrive at marital therapy locked in the same fight every week, and why the real opponent is shame rather than the person across the room. He describes how a criticism squeezes an already saturated heart until shame leaks out as attack, and how naming that feeling out loud stops the cycle in a way no amount of arguing can. It is honest marriage advice about turning inward first so the relationship has room to change. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drkellyflanagan.com/why-couples-shouldnt-do-couples-therapy-says-the-couples-therapist/ Quotes to ponder: "Our hearts are like a sponge for shame, and most of us are pretty saturated with it by the time we meet our lifelong companion." "You don't fight for your Saturday night by fighting with your spouse. You fight for your Saturday night by fighting with yourself." "Until we can be gentle with ourselves, we can't be gentle to anyone else." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    11 分
  • 3125: 10 Questions Happy Couples Are Constantly Asking One Another by Anita Chlipala with Gottman on Lasting Love

    3125: 10 Questions Happy Couples Are Constantly Asking One Another by Anita Chlipala with Gottman on Lasting Love
    2026/08/31
    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 3125: Anita Chlipala explains how couples drift from loving talk into logistical talk without noticing, and offers ten open-ended questions that reopen the conversation, covering childhood memories, unmet needs, private worries, unfulfilled dreams, and physical intimacy. She notes that the couples who stay connected are simply deliberate about it, setting aside twenty distraction-free minutes and letting themselves be vulnerable rather than staging grand gestures. It is small, repeatable relationship advice for keeping a marriage close over the long run. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/10-questions-happy-couples-constantly-asking-one-another/ Quotes to ponder: "Too many couples become emotionally disconnected and they never saw it coming." "Let yourself be vulnerable. It's a pathway to intimacy and it helps you build and maintain trust." "Intimacy suffers when people stay focused on the things that aren't going well or take the good things for granted." Optimal Relationships Daily is a daily relationship advice podcast where we narrate the best articles on healthy relationships, dating, marriage, and parenting, read to you by a professional narrator so you can strengthen your closest connections a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    10 分