How long should you really wait before having sex with somebody you’re dating? 30 days? 60 days? Until you know they’re serious? Or does waiting actually tell you NOTHING about whether someone is going to stay?

This episode of Peas in the Pod Live gets WILD, hilarious, uncomfortable, and surprisingly deep as the crew debates sex, dating, relationships, consistency, body count, attraction, commitment, and whether withholding sex actually adds value to a relationship.

The conversation starts with some VERY unfiltered adult talk before turning into a serious debate about one of dating’s biggest questions:

Does making someone wait for sex make them value you more?

The crew goes back and forth on whether a man can genuinely like a woman without sex being involved, whether consistency proves someone’s intentions, why some people go back to familiar partners, and what happens when you wait weeks or months only to discover the chemistry isn’t there.

IN THIS EPISODE:
• How long should you wait to have sex?
• Does waiting actually make someone take you more seriously?
• Can someone be consistent for months and still disappear after sex?
• Does sexual compatibility matter before committing?
• Why do people return to familiar partners?
• Does having a “hoe phase” affect dating later?
• Are men and women approaching casual sex differently?
• What does it really mean when someone says they “like” you?
• Does withholding sex add value—or is it simply a personal boundary?
• Can great chemistry turn into a bad relationship?
• And why does this crew NEVER know when to stop talking?

This is Peas in the Pod Live at its most unfiltered—real people, real opinions, relationship debates, and absolutely ZERO shortage of controversy.

QUESTION FOR THE COMMENTS:
How long should somebody wait before having sex with a person they're dating—and does waiting actually change the outcome of the relationship?

Drop your answer in the comments. We already KNOW this one is going to start an argument!

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TBH

TBD

Relationships, double standards, dating, sex, money, and loyalty — this conversation goes ALL the way there.

In this episode, J with the Inkk and the crew have one of those conversations where nothing is off limits. From the double standards between men and women to dating, cheating, commitment, birthday expectations, money, sex, and knowing when it's time to let somebody go, this episode gets hilarious, controversial, and brutally honest.

We debate whether men and women are held to different standards when it comes to sex and relationships, why some people stay emotionally attached to people who aren't committed to them, and whether walking away is sometimes the healthiest—and simplest—answer.

We also get into some VERY explicit conversations about sexual chemistry, foreplay, sexual expectations, what makes someone a good partner in the bedroom, and the things people expect when they're dating or hooking up.

But underneath all the jokes is a bigger conversation about relationships, self-worth, effort, reciprocity, communication, and knowing what you're willing to accept from another person.

In this episode:

• Are men and women judged differently for their sexual behavior?
• Why do people get emotionally attached to someone who isn't committed?
• Is it really “tricking” when money is involved in dating?
• Should your partner match the energy you give them?
• How much should birthdays and gifts matter in a relationship?
• When should you stop chasing someone who isn't reciprocating?
• Can sexual chemistry determine whether someone gets a second date?
• When is it time to stop trying to save a relationship?
• Why do some people have a hard time letting go?
• And, of course, J has some VERY strong opinions about all of it.

QUESTION FOR THE COMMENTS:
What's one relationship double standard between men and women that you think needs to end?

Drop your answer below—we want to hear your perspective.

Don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE if you enjoyed the conversation.

#Relationships #Dating #RelationshipTal

PEAS IN THE PODCAST IS BACK!

This episode gets WILD! The crew dives into some of the most entertaining and controversial conversations about modern dating, relationships, attraction, intimacy, and the things people are sometimes too afraid to talk about.

From sex toys and bedroom preferences to kinks, lingerie, threesomes, polygamy, attraction, communication, and what makes a sexual connection actually work, this conversation goes in every direction.

We also get into the difference between physical attraction and emotional connection, why communication matters in intimacy, whether everyone deserves the same effort, and the age-old question: What makes somebody a great partner in the bedroom?

Expect plenty of laughs, disagreements, unexpected opinions, and absolutely NO filter.

WHAT DO YOU THINK?
Do sex toys enhance intimacy or create problems?
Does everyone deserve the same effort in a relationship?
Can physical chemistry exist without an emotional connection?
And how important is communication when it comes to intimacy?

Drop your thoughts in the comments!

⚠️ DISCLAIMER: This episode contains mature conversations, adult language, and discussions intended for a mature audience.

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Hosts: Jayy WitDaInkk & Yaya

Jayy & Yaya debate what actually makes sex good, why some people stay for the "good good," the little things couples stop doing, and the relationship advice your homegirls probably don't want you to hear.

Then... the vibes take a turn as they open up about grief, healing, and paying tribute to their friend, Long Live Savvy. ❤️️

Laugh with us. Argue with us. Judge us if you want... but don't act like you weren't thinking the same thing.

Drop your hottest take in the comments:
What's keeping more people in relationships... love or good sex?

This week, the crew tackles the hard-hitting questions nobody asked for: Why do people hate on big people who are living their best lives? Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? Would you rather have money with no love or love with no money? And how long is TOO long when it comes to bedroom Olympics?

Jayy gives an unfiltered masterclass on dating, relationships, trust issues, foreplay, being emotionally unavailable with confidence, and why some people need to mind the business that pays them. Meanwhile, YaYa tries her best to keep the conversation on track, only to watch it take a sharp left turn into chaos, toxicity, and laughter every single time.

From relationship double standards and talking-stage vacations to cheating debates, future predictions, and choosing between passion and trust, this episode is packed with wild opinions, hilarious stories, and enough red flags to decorate a football field.

If you're easily offended, this episode probably isn't for you. If you enjoy toxic honesty, unfiltered conversations, and laughing at relationship nonsense, grab a drink and join the madness.

⚠️ Side effects may include: arguing with your significant other, texting your ex, questioning your standards, and laughing harder than you should.

Men’s Mental Health Month lasted about 30 seconds before Jayy turned it into a relationship civil war.

This episode got REAL toxic, REAL fast:

Is paying rent tricking?
Should women swallow or split the bill?
Rent vs. vacations — which one counts more?
Does money buy happiness?
Are group chats ruining relationships?

Jayy was on demon time, Gaby was fighting for her life, and Yaya was stirring the pot with a smile.

Nobody won. Everybody got offended. And somehow we still never got back to men's mental health.

️ P’s In A Pod Podcast — where the opinions are toxic, the laughs are free, and the debates never end.