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Why are so many men struggling with dating, relationships, loneliness, and insecurity?

In this episode of The Cliteral Truth, we take on the “male loneliness epidemic” and ask a harder question: What happens when women no longer need men for money, transportation, protection, social status—or even sexual fulfillment?

From the bizarre history of men panicking over women riding bicycles to modern arguments about body count, jealousy, "masculinity", sexual insecurity, control, and women’s independence, we explore a common thread: when insecurity shows up, do you work on yourself—or try to control someone else?

Our argument is simple: you cannot force someone to want you. You cannot manipulate someone into genuinely choosing you. And you cannot solve insecurity by limiting someone else’s freedom.

If men want better relationships with women, the answer isn’t becoming more controlling. It’s becoming more emotionally available, more secure, more self-aware—and more worth choosing.

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We’ve been told that after a man orgasms, he’s done—his body needs a “refractory period” before he can get hard, get aroused, or orgasm again.

But is that actually true?

A lot of "experts" contend that it is, but the data is weak, and our lived experience contradicts that.

In this episode, we take on the male refractory period, multiple orgasms for men, and the difference between what we’ve been taught about male sexual response and what men may actually be capable of experiencing.

Turns out, the science isn’t nearly as settled as you might think.

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Why are we so obsessed with finding someone with a “low body count”? Maybe sexual experience isn’t baggage—maybe it’s practice.

In this episode, we challenge the body-count double standard for men and women and make the case that experience can mean better communication, greater sexual confidence, more self-awareness, and yes… better sex. You practice to get good at almost everything else. Why would sex be the exception?

Let’s retire the purity scorecard and talk about what actually makes someone a great sexual partner.

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In part 2 of our Sexual Slang series, we’re breaking down even more of the terms, phrases, and slang you hear in dating, hookup culture, relationships, porn, and everyday conversations about sex.

Some you probably know. Some you think you know. And some will make you wonder who the hell came up with this shit.

No judgment. No awkward sex-ed teacher. Just real talk about what people actually mean when they say this stuff.

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A next-level woman doesn’t need a man to lead her, rescue her, provide her identity, or tell her what she’s capable of.

She can take care of herself. She makes her own decisions. She knows her value. And being strong and independent doesn’t mean she doesn’t want a man—it means she gets to be a hell of a lot more selective about which man she chooses.

In this episode, we’re talking about women, independence, outdated gender roles, relationship standards, and why a next-level woman doesn’t shrink herself to make a man comfortable. She wants a partner. And she sure as hell isn’t settling for anything less than a next-level man.

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Ever heard a sexual term and thought, Wait…what does that mean? Same.

In this class of our sexual slang series, we’re bringing you the words, phrases, and slang people throw around when talking about sex and dating—and telling you what the hell they actually mean.

From blowjobs, fellatio, and cunnilingus to MILFs, cougars, body count, fetishes, NSA, scissoring, pegging, polyamory, ENM, swinging, and a whole bunch of other terms you may have heard, used, misunderstood, or been too afraid to Google—we’re breaking down the definitions, origins, and sometimes hilarious logic behind the language of sex.

No judgment. No pearl clutching. Just two curious people asking the questions you might be wondering yourself.

Come learn some shit with us.

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Nudity isn’t inherently sexual, and treating it that way is a problem.

In this episode, we break down the difference between nudity and sexuality, why so many of us automatically sexualize naked bodies, and how culture, context, attraction, jealousy, and shame shape what we see.

Can you experience or observe nudity, read the context accurately, and let the people involved—not your automatic reaction—determine whether it’s sexual?

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We made it to 100 episodes! 🎉

To celebrate, we each independently picked our 10 favorite episodes of The Cliteral Truth—the conversations about sex, dating, relationships, intimacy, attraction, communication, and love that have stuck with us the most.

And somehow, out of 99 episodes to choose from, we didn’t pick a single one in common. Apparently, after all this time, we’re still two very different people. 😂

So, if you’re new to The Cliteral Truth and wondering where to start—or you’ve been with us for all 100 and want to revisit our faves—this episode is our personal Top 20 of The Cliteral Truth.

Come celebrate 100 episodes with us. ❤️