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In this episode, we sit down with former professional tennis player James McGee for a conversation about life inside elite sport and what comes after it.

James shares his journey from growing up in Dublin as Ireland’s top junior player, to competing for over a decade on the ATP Tour and appearing in 14 Grand Slam events. Beyond the milestones, he speaks honestly about the less visible realities of professional tennis: long stretches away from home, financial pressure, injury, and the psychological weight of chasing a dream in a sport where success is narrowly defined.

The conversation explores how injury forced James to confront identity beyond performance, how studying psychology shaped his understanding of himself and others, and what it means to transition out of professional sport when competition has been central to your sense of self for most of your life.

We also discuss James’s current work mentoring underserved youth through the Inspiring Children Foundation, and how the lessons learned through elite sport now inform his approach to leadership, mental health, and long-term development.

This episode is a thoughtful look at ambition, resilience, and what it means to build a meaningful life beyond results.

James McGee is a former professional tennis player from Castleknock, Dublin 15, Ireland. He began playing tennis at the age of seven at Castleknock Lawn Tennis Club, where he developed a lifelong passion for the sport and spent his formative years training daily.
As a junior, McGee rose to become the No. 1 ranked player in Ireland and captured the national Under-16 title at Fitzwilliam Lawn Tennis Club. While attending Belvedere College, he won the school championships multiple years in a row, before relocating to Barcelona to pursue his professional tennis career.

An early injury setback sidelined him for nearly two years. He later moved to the United States to compete at the collegiate level, playing two seasons for North Carolina State University while majoring in psychology, leading the team to its first-ever NCAA Elite Eight appearance. McGee spent over a decade competing on the ITF, ATP Challenger, and ATP World Tour circuits, reaching a career-high ATP singles ranking of world No. 146 in 2015 and serving as Ireland’s top-ranked player for six years.

He represented Ireland 15 times in Davis Cup competition and competed in 14 Grand Slam events, qualifying for the main draw of the 2014 US Open. His tour-level wins include victories over Frances Tiafoe, Tommy Paul, and Denis Shapovalov. Following injuries that ultimately led to his retirement, James transitioned into youth mentorship and now serves as Director of the TEAM BRYAN program and the NO QUIT Tennis Academy at the Inspiring Children Foundation in Las Vegas, supporting underserved youth through a holistic approach to development.

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What does it really mean to support athletes as whole humans?

In this episode, we’re joined by Will Lee, Registered Clinical Counsellor and Mental Performance Consultant, for a deep and grounded conversation about mental health, identity, culture, and performance. Together, we explore what often goes unseen in sport: the emotional load athletes carry, the pressure to perform, and the long-term impact of how mental health is addressed (or ignored).

Will brings a rare blend of clinical experience and performance work, drawing from his decade of work in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside, his role in high-performance sport environments, and his lived experience as a first-generation Taiwanese-Canadian. We talk about the difference between mental toughness and emotional suppression, why identity and culture matter in performance spaces, and how parents, coaches, and organizations can create environments that are both high-performing and human. This episode is a powerful reminder that sustainable performance doesn’t come from pushing harder, it comes from understanding deeper.

About Will: "I am Registered Clinical Counsellor, Mental Performance Consultant and founder of Strive Counselling. At Strive, I serve as clinical supervisor and director to a wonderful intimate team of registered counsellors, where we help diverse clients address an equally diverse range of challenges - relationships, identity, mental health, trauma, addiction, to name a few. My clinical roots began over the span of a decade in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside, where I learned to foster my sense of empathy and compassion for marginalized groups and humanity. As a proud first generation Taiwanese-Canadian, I am also passionate about fostering cultural humility in my practice, and to learn about the story of your culture and its connections with identity and wellness.

Currently, I am a member of the Mental Health Network under the Canadian Centre for Mental Health and Sport; a nationally-led organization comprised of highly-skilled mental health professionals from across Canada. My current notable organizations that I am privileged to be a part of in my role as a mental performance consultant includes The Richmond Olympic Oval (High Performance Program) and FightStory; a non-profit organization advocating for combat sport athletes' mental health and wellness.

When I’m not seeing clients, I enjoy an active lifestyle predominantly occupied by practicing martial arts, including Muay Thai, and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. I also enjoy creative expression through playing the violin with my music group, and I seek tranquility in tending to my freshwater aquariums. I am a proud father of 3 enthusiastic girls, and husband to an unconditionally supportive wife."

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What do you do when your athlete feels set up to fail?

In this episode, Jordan and Mariel unpack a real post from a hockey mom whose 9-year-old son is stuck on a struggling team and use it as a powerful entry point into one of the most important mindset tools in sport: controllables.

Together, they break down the five controllables every athlete (and parent) can focus on when outcomes, coaches, team dynamics, or politics feel out of reach: effort, attitude, self-talk, preparation, and focus.

This conversation is equal parts honest, practical, and reassuring with real stories from youth sports, elite athletics, and parenting. If you’ve ever felt frustrated watching your child struggle in a situation they can’t control, this episode will help you shift from helplessness to empowerment, and from pressure to perspective.

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What happens when the thing you’ve built your identity around suddenly feels uncertain or is taken away altogether?

In this episode, Olympian Andrea Wieland joins the conversation to speak honestly about the psychological side of competitive sport that athletes rarely get prepared for: getting cut, feeling overlooked, questioning your worth, and learning how to keep going when confidence takes a hit. Andrea shares her lived experience navigating high-pressure environments, setbacks, and moments where external validation disappeared, forcing her to confront who she was beyond performance.

Together, the conversation explores how athletes can rebuild self-trust after disappointment, why resilience isn’t about toughness but adaptability, and how reframing setbacks can become a turning point rather than a breaking point. This episode is a reminder that sport doesn’t just test physical ability, it tests identity, mindset, and emotional regulation.

Whether you’re an athlete facing rejection, a parent supporting a child through tough moments, or a coach trying to guide someone through uncertainty, this episode offers grounded insight into how growth actually happens when things don’t go according to plan.

Dr. Andrea Wieland is an Olympian, performance psychologist, Founder of Winning Systems Psychology, PC, and former DI national and league championship coach who has guided thousands, from elite athletes to business leaders, toward lasting confidence and transformational performance. Having held leadership roles at institutions such as the University of Pennsylvania, IMG Academy, Sensei-Porcupine Creek, and the United States Air Force Academy, she fuses deep systems thinking with powerful self-mastery strategies. Andrea challenges performers to own their identities, redefine success beyond results, and become forces for good in every arena they enter. Her work invites us all to lead with purpose, play with heart, and contribute with courage on the field, in the family, and across humanity.

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From the outside, Adrien Plavsic had everything young athletes dream of: a long NHL career, Olympic success, and years competing at the highest levels of professional hockey. But internally, his experience was very different. In this episode, Adrien opens up about what it was really like to live in constant survival mode while performing at an elite level.

He shares how fear quietly drove his training, games, and even recovery, keeping his nervous system stuck on high alert. Despite appearing confident and composed, Adrien describes feeling trapped in his own head, disconnected from the moments he had worked his entire life to reach. Sleepless nights, racing thoughts, and an inability to truly relax turned the dream into something that felt more like a nightmare.

Together, this conversation explores the difference between performing from fear versus performing from presence, why so many driven athletes miss their peak experiences, and how over-control can actually block learning, growth, and freedom. Adrien reflects on his journey of rewiring his mind and nervous system, redefining his relationship with pressure, mistakes, self-awareness and why learning how to be, not just do, is essential for sustainable excellence.

This episode is a powerful listen for athletes, parents, and coaches who want more than just results who want performance that feels grounded, free, and fully alive.

Adrien Plavsic is a former NHL player who spent eight seasons with the St. Louis Blues, Vancouver Canucks, Tampa Bay Lightning, and Anaheim Mighty Ducks. A second-round draft pick in 1988, he won an Olympic silver medal with Team Canada in 1992 and later played many years in Switzerland’s top professional league. Today, he works as a Certified Mental Performance Coach, helping athletes regulate their nervous systems, reconnect with presence, and build lives rooted in freedom, excellence, and meaning.

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Getting cut is one of the rawest, most emotional moments in youth sports and for many families, tryout season feels more like heartbreak season. In this Q&A episode, Mariel and Jordan break down what really happens to an athlete’s confidence, identity, and motivation when they don’t make the team, and why a parent’s reaction in the first 10 minutes can shape everything that comes next.

They share their own stories of being cut, the shame, the tears, and the turning points, while unpacking how to help young athletes process disappointment without spiraling into victim mentality. Instead of blaming coaches or shielding kids from discomfort, the episode digs into how to validate the pain and redirect it into growth, emotional regulation, and a clearer understanding of what being an athlete truly requires.

This episode reframes being cut as an essential part of the athlete journey: a moment that can ignite self-awareness, leadership, accountability, and resilience when handled with the right mindset at home. Whether your child is devastated, angry, embarrassed, or ready to quit altogether, this conversation gives you the tools to anchor them, support them, and help them find their next step with confidence.

If your athlete was recently cut or if tryouts are looming, this is the episode you’ll want to hear together.

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Dr. Claire joins the podcast for a powerful conversation that every parent, coach, and athlete needs to hear. With a background in neuroscience, physiology, and youth mental health, she breaks down what’s actually happening inside the bodies and brains of young athletes and why so many are struggling with burnout, fatigue, chronic stress, and emotional overwhelm.

Throughout the episode, Dr. Claire explains how sleep, screen exposure, stress hormones, and daily nervous system health play a larger role in performance than most people realize. She shares why kids today are showing up more dysregulated, more exhausted, and more anxious than previous generations and how that directly impacts their ability to focus, recover, perform, and adapt to sport.

This conversation goes well beyond “mental toughness.” Dr. Claire offers a clear, compassionate look at how modern stress loads are shaping athlete development, why traditional coaching methods often fall short, and what adults need to understand about the brain-body connection if we want kids to succeed long-term.

If you’ve ever wondered why your athlete can’t sleep, can’t calm down, can’t recover, or can’t seem to feel confident consistently, this episode gives you the science and the solutions in a way that finally makes it all make sense.

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In this conversation, Daria Albers opens a window into what true high-level performance really requires. A world-class mental performance coach and former professional fighter, Daria works globally with UFC athletes, Special Operations Forces, and top-tier performers across sport and business. Her approach blends psychology, mindfulness, nervous system training, and embodied awareness into a style of coaching that is as grounded as it is transformative.

Drawing from backgrounds in physical therapy, psychology, MBSR, MBCT, and systemic theory, Daria has built a powerful mental training system that helps people stay calm under pressure, sharpen their focus, and untangle the patterns that hold them back. Her work is rooted in values, responsibility, and presence, offering athletes a way to come back to themselves instead of constantly chasing outcomes or relying on forced “mental toughness.”

Throughout the episode, Daria reflects on her own evolution from fighter to coach, a journey marked by discipline, humility, and a deep commitment to understanding the mind. She talks about the emotional and spiritual layers of performance, the importance of inner alignment, and why real confidence comes from awareness rather than suppression. Her perspective challenges the traditional model of pushing harder and instead invites athletes to train with clarity, curiosity, and heart.

This conversation is for anyone who has ever felt stuck, burnt out, overtrained, or disconnected from the passion that once fueled them. Daria’s insights offer a new way forward that integrates science with humanity and teaches athletes to perform from a place of internal strength, not external pressure.

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