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  • Laurence Fox is The Respondent...
    2022/11/17

    To watch this episode and other past episodes, please visit Greg Ellis’ YouTube channel.

    Join our Community: https://community.therespondent.com/ 

    Listeners can find Laurence Fox on Twitter: https://twitter.com/LozzaFox and his website: https://www.laurencefox.co.uk/.  

    Laurence Fox is an actor, musician, and political commentator. He co-founded and is the leader of The Reclaim Party and The Bad Law Project.


    In this episode, we chat about Laurence’s experience with the family court system, the current battle he is in for custody of his sons, being guilty until proven more guilty, the devaluation of fatherhood in our current culture, and much more.

    “Tomorrow we have to just pray that  the judge returns the kids to the situation they've lived in for six and a half years, and I need to get their mom and me, so I'm not saying that I'm better and she's worse. I'm just saying you need to get me, her, and our kids around a table so that we can talk about each other's problems and we can find a way through, in a way which is not impeccably hostile.” - Laurence Fox

     

    Show Notes: 

    • [0:00] Intro
    • [1:30] Greg welcomes Laurence back to the show
    • [2:10] Laurence talks about family law situation
    • [5:45] Potential medical intervention with child
    • [7:10] Laurence’s cell phone incident with his son
    • [10:10] Laurence’s ex-wife files a complaint with social services
    • [12:05] Laurence has not seen his kids in weeks and has tried to contact his ex-wife with no response
    • [14:10] Feeling like he has no options 
    • [16:25] Greg talks about his own experiences with being separated from his children
    • [20:10] Parents must be able to discipline their children + children needing their fathers
    • [22:30] Being guilty until proven more guilty + doing what’s best for the children
    • [29:30] Laurence tells story about his oldest son
    • [30:40] Not being allowed to discuss these issues publicly 
    • [32:45] Walking away and trying to make peace  
    • [39:40] Laurence asks Greg: “What do you wish you’d done when you were in my place?”
    • [41:30] Telling the truth and being afraid of offending people
    • [43:10] Parental alienation 
    • [46:30] How victimhood culture is connected with this
    • [48:40] How do you re-establish your relationship with your child once it’s undermined by a court?
    • [52:20] Family court system incentives and devaluation of fatherhood 
    • [57:00] Domestic violence being charged in a criminal court
    • [58:40] Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard
    • [59:05] “Believe all women”
    • [1:01:30] Laurence talks about his upcoming court hearings and the importance of mediation 
    • [1:04:10] Greg wraps up the show

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  • Winston Marshall is The Respondent...
    2022/10/27

    To watch this episode and other past episodes, please visit Greg Ellis’ YouTube channel.

    Join our Community: https://community.therespondent.com/ 

    Listeners can find Winston on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MrWinMarshall 

    Winston’s podcast Marshall Matters: https://www.spectator.co.uk/podcasts/marshall-matters 

    Winston Marshall is a musician and was one of the founding members of Mumford and Sons. In 2021, he departed from the band, amidst controversy, and wrote about his decision here: https://mrwinstonmarshall.medium.com/why-im-leaving-mumford-sons-e6e731bbc255 

    Winston is also the host of the new podcast "Marshall Matters", in partnership with Spectator Magazine, focusing on the state of the arts and creative industries. Guests will join Winston as they discuss the taboos and the obstacles of freedom of expression that artists meet today.


    In this episode, we chat about Winston’s decision to leave Mumford & Sons, cancel culture, standing up to the mob, music, the MeToo movement, and much more!

    “…particularly after I published the letter when I quit, I got thousands of messages. It's very moving when you get messages from people who say that they feel trapped or they feel that they can't say what they think or that if they say what they think they're going to lose their job or lose something from all walks of life. Now I can afford to quit, right? I've made money. I'll be alright but a lot of people can't afford to quit. If they lose their job, they can't pay rent or they can't pay their mortgage, they've got kids, there's so much that they're juggling… when you challenge some of these big ideas, you become a pariah, you become untouchable, you become a bad guy.”


    Show Notes: 

    • [1:40] Greg welcomes Winton to the show.   
    • [3:20] Winston talks about leaving Mumford & Sons and facing the Twitter mob.
    • [5:40] Manchester United, Liverpool, and the community found in sports. 
    • [10:40] Greg and Winston discuss their starts in the music/entertainment business. 
    • [17:00] Being a self-taught musician.   
    • [20:10] Winston’s apology and the Twitter reaction. 
    • [27:00] Fear of speaking out against the mob and trying to have more open discussions.
    • [30:10] Greg talks about his own experiences with cancel culture.
    • [33:00] Book, reading, and the power of language.  
    • [37:30] Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard trial.
    • [47:20] The MeToo movement’s response to Amber Heard.
    • [53:40] Eve Barlow.
    • [55:40] Debating ideas and having nuanced conversations.
    • [59:10] Where does Winston find meaning?
    • [1:02:40] What is the most meaningful moment of your life?
    • [1:06:50] Where do you go to find peace?
    • [1:09:50] If you could write your own epitaph, what would you want it to say?
    • [1:11:10] Greg wraps up the show.
    • Thanks for listening to another episode! If you’re loving the show and want to help grow the show, please head over to Itunes and leave a rating and review! How to Leave an Apple Podcast Review: First, Open the podcast app on your iPhone, Mac, or iPad. Then, hit the “Search” tab at the bottom right-hand corner of the page and search for The Respondent. Select the podcast, scroll down to find the subheading “Ratings & Reviews”. and select “Write a Review.” Next, select the number of stars you’d like to leave. Please choose 5 stars! Using the text box which says “Title,” write a title for your review. Then in the text box, write the review itself. The review can be up to 300 words long, but doesn’t need to be much more than: “Love the show! Thanks!” or Once you’re done select “Send” in the upper right-hand corner.


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  • Janice Fiamengo is the Respondent...
    2022/10/12
    To watch this episode and other past episodes, please visit Greg Ellis’ YouTube channel.Join our Community: https://community.therespondent.com/ Listeners can find Janice Fiamengo on: Twitter: https://twitter.com/JaniceFiamengoSubstack: https://fiamengofile.substack.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6DVPc51R5HJl8tlNASZKfA/videosJanice Fiamengo retired in 2019 from her position as Professor of English at the University of Ottawa, Canada, and now lives in Vancouver with her husband, David Solway. She is a men's advocate and critic of feminism. She had a long-running YouTube series called The Fiamengo File that received a permanent ban from YouTube, and she has recently begun The Fiamengo File 2.0 about the history of feminism in order to demonstrate that feminism was never about equality. In this episode, we chat about the history of feminism, the differential treatment of men and women under the law, the Me Too movement, and much more!“All feminists say they're interested in is the social and political equality of men and women, but that isn't the case at all. When one looks at what feminists advocate equality doesn't seem to be a part of the issue at all. There are so many areas in our society where men are not doing well and we don't hear feminists speaking about those issues with concern and we don't see feminists advocating for those issues.” - Janice FiamengoTop Takeaways:Feminism was founded on principles that advocate for the moral inferiority of men, disparging men, and trying to remove them from all forms of power.Life throughout history was extremely difficult for both women and men, but the focus always seems to be on women.Men are imprisoned and punished much more harshly for the same crimes that women commit.Feminism seeks to undermine the family unit.Show Notes: [1:40] Greg welcomes guest Janice Fiamengo.[1:50] Why did Janice get involved in men’s advocacy?[6:00] What is feminism?[9:50] Feminists reasons for why there are more men in prison.[13:00] History of feminism. [25:00] The misconception that in the past women were considered the “property” of men and the many responsibilities men have had throughout history.[28:10] Differential treatment under the law between men and women.[34:10] The complexity behind the issue of women’s right to vote. [36:10] Different types/brands of feminism and the label of being a “feminist”. [41:00] The Me Too movement.[44:40] The death of chivalry.[47:10] Men’s sense of attachment to women.[49:50] How feminism demeans and attacks the family unit and how it removes any agency or ownership of women’s circumstances.[54:00] Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard trial and the current culture of being “guilty until proven innocent”.[1:03:40] Where do you find meaning?  [1:04:40] What has been the most meaningful moment of your life?[1:06:50] Where do you go to find peace?[1:08:00] If you could write your own epitaph, what would you want it to say?[1:10:10] If you had one wish, what would it be?[1:11:00] Where you can find Janice.[1:15:00] Greg wraps up the show.Thanks for listening to another episode! If you’re loving the show and want to help grow the show, please head over to Itunes and leave a rating and review! How to Leave an Apple Podcast Review: First, Open the podcast app on your iPhone, Mac, or iPad. Then, hit the “Search” tab at the bottom right-hand corner of the page and search for The Respondent. Select the podcast, scroll down to find the subheading “Ratings & Reviews”. and select “Write a Review.” Next, select the number of stars you’d like to leave. Please choose 5 stars! Using the text box which says “Title,” write a title for your review. Then in the text box, write the review itself. The review can be up to 300 words long, but doesn’t need to be much more than: “Love the show! Thanks!” or Once you’re done select “Send” in the upper right-hand corner.
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  • Sophia Myles is the Respondent...
    2022/09/16

    To watch this episode and other past episodes, please visit Greg Ellis’ YouTube channel.

    Join our Community: https://community.therespondent.com/ 

    Listeners can find Sophia Myles on Twitter at: https://twitter.com/SophiaMyles 

    Sophia Myles is an English actress best known for her roles in Doctor Who, Thunderbirds, Tristan & Isolde, and Underworld.


    In this episode, we chat about acting, the Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard trial, filming awkward love scenes, the Me Too movement, cancel culture, and much more!

    “I think what people fail to realize is that, as actors, or somebody like Johnny Depp has the capacity to be the brightest and most powerful light you've ever seen on screen. But, it's almost as if there's a sort of lack of understanding that we still are exactly the same as everyone else. And we still have the same human problems. We have the same personal issues, that run alongside that, and there's a lot of pressure, especially if you've made a name for yourself, like he had, in such sort of iconic, well, you know, that he's magical, right. And the minute that stuff might be going wrong for him personally, people are so quick to judge and almost don't allow him the right to be a human because they've got this fixed idea in their head of “that is who that person is.” - Sophia Myles 

    Top Takeaways:

    • Famous actors and actresses are just like everyone else. They face the same struggles and deal with the same difficulties, the only difference is they have to do it with an audience.
    • We must regain some kind of equilibrium in regards to the Me Too movement.  
    • People should be presumed innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until proven innocent.

    Show Notes: 

    • [0:00] Greg welcomes Sophia to the show!  
    • [0:30] Not watching as much television/movies anymore and how working in the business has demystified things
    • [2:50] Sophia’s work in A Very British Scandal and Paul Bettany
    • [5:20] Johnny Depp
    • [9:00] Tracey Jacobs (Depp’s agent), powerful Hollywood talent agencies, and the movie making process
    • [14:10] Famous actors are just like everyone else and dealing with mental health
    • [19:10] Sophia talks about meeting Johnny and playing his wife in the movie From Hell
    • [21:50] Greg talks about filming Beowulf and working with Sir Anthony Hopkins
    • [24:40] The awkwardness of filming love scenes
    • [29:00] Sophia on her public support for Johnny Depp 
    • [31:30] Me Too and Cancel Culture
    • [34:30] The cancellation of actor Noel Clarke, being guilty until proven innocent, and the need for evidence
    • [41:20] How do we get back to a balance in regards to the way men and women treat each other?
    • [45:40] Reactions to Amber Heard and the Johnny Depp case setting a new precedent
    • [50:20] The necessity and benefits of reforming family law
    • [56:10] Where does Sophia find meaning?
    • [57:00] What’s the most meaningful moment of your life?
    • [57:30] Where do you go to find peace?
    • [58:50] What do you do for fun?
    • [59:20] If you could write your own epitaph, what would you want it to say?
    • [59:50] If you had one wish,  what would it be?
    • [1:02:50] Who does Sophia think will win the Johnny Depp/Amber Heard case?
    • [1:05:50] Greg wraps up the show


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  • Coleman Hughes is the Respondent...
    2022/09/07
    To watch this episode and other past episodes, please visit Greg Ellis’ YouTube channel.Join our Community: https://community.therespondent.com/ Listeners can find Coleman Hughes at his website: https://colemanhughes.org/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/coldxmanYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ColemanHughesOfficialColeman Hughes is a writer, podcaster and opinion columnist who specializes in issues related to race, public policy and applied ethics. Coleman’s writing has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, National Review, Quillette, The City Journal and The Spectator. In this episode, Coleman and I chat about his music, his open letter to Ibram X. Kendi, Critical Race Theory, the Will Smith Oscar incident, and much more! “I grew up with my grandparents showing me the names of our ancestors that were left in the wills of slave masters because they were considered property. And so I felt I intuitively understood the depth and gravity and moral horror of American slavery. Yet, I never at any point felt that the white people around me were implicated in that crime indirectly or directly. I don't think that that's actually a difficult mental feat to separate those two attitudes. I think that people are being encouraged to connect them, so that if you say white people today don't have anything to do with slavery. You're heard to be saying slavery wasn't a huge deal. And, those are two separate things.”  Top Takeaways:White Americans, broadly liberal, feel some level of guilt about slavery and the quality of life of black people in this country, and they believe the best way to help them is to buy into the concepts of anti-racism and the teachings of people like Ibram X. Kendi and Robin DiAngelo.Critical Race Theory (CRT) is too complicated to be taught to children in school. What’s being taught that’s called CRTis a watered down version of it, that boils down to kids being made highly conscious of their racial and identities, injecting meaning into it, and labeling white kids as “guilty oppressors”.The best way to combat racism is to nurture and protect racial innocence.When people attack “whiteness” they do it under the guise that they are attacking a “power structure” and not “white people” per se, but if you were to attack “blackness” people in almost all cases would take that as an attack on black people.Show Notes: [0:00] Greg welcomes Coleman to the show  [0:40] Juilliard, Music, and dropping out[3:00] Coleman’s gap year after leaving Julliard[4:40] Coleman’s music writing process [7:10] Which musicians have inspired Coleman?[9:00] Coleman’s open letter to Ibram X. Kendi and his challenge to debate him  (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kMAYJUMpStY&ab_channel=ColemanHughes)[16:10] Robin DiAngelo, her book White Fragility, and “white women's tears”[21:10] Why does Coleman think DiAngelo’s book has been so successful?[24:30] Intersectionality and Postmodernism [25:50] Critical Race Theory[33:00] “Whiteness” and collective guilt [38:40] People’s fear of speaking out against the current “mainstream” opinion on race issues[40:00] Will Smith Oscar incident and his marriage to Jada Pinkett Smith (clips of the Red Table talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qOTe0_Z0vlc&ab_channel=CelebCrush) [46:30] Celebrity couple “arrangements”[50:50] Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard trial[1:00:40] Jussie Smollett[1:01:50] Where does Coleman find meaning?[1:02:40] What’s the most meaningful moment of your life?[1:03:30] Where do you go to find peace?[1:04:20] What piece of advice would you give your 12 year old self?[1:04:40] If you could write your own epitaph, what would you want it to say?[1:05:00] If you had one wish, what would it be?  [1:05:20] Greg wraps up the show
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  • Lauren Chen is the Respondent...
    2022/09/01

    Lauren Chen is a political and social commentator on YouTube. She has worked with Blaze TV, and used the pseudonym “The Roaming Millennial” on some of her early work. She reviews and creates content primarily in the political spectrum and recently started branching into other media avenues with her channel Mediaholic and different alt-tech platforms.

    In this episode, we chat about Lauren’s imminent motherhood, entertainment becoming more woke, celebrity divorces, custody battles, radical feminism, and much more!

    “I think it's because largely people are losing confidence and interest in Hollywood. They're not offering up the best products anymore and there are alternatives out there as people are finding out. And it's not just with films and series, it's also with things like games and music and so unless Hollywood, they get their stuff together, I think we're gonna be seeing Western media become a lot less prominent and we're gonna be seeing, K-pop continue to rise as well as Korean dramas, Japanese dramas. And it's gonna be a huge change from the previous, I guess, supremacy of the Western movies and TV shows where there's something like Game of Thrones, where the world is tuning in. It might not be like that in the future.” 

    Top Takeaways:

    • Hollywood is becoming increasingly disconnected from its audience and what they want to see.
    • Companies like Disney pretend to be woke, but bow to the wills of their international clients if it means monetary gain.
    • We have prenups for marriages that solve the solutions for money in case of divorce, but we have nothing in place to protect children from divorce.
    • Schools have shifted from teaching children about sex from a purely biological standpoint to an increased focus on sexuality and gender.

    Show Notes: 

    • [0:00] Greg welcomes Lauren to the show  
    • [0:10] Lauren talks about her pregnancy and becoming a mom for the first time
    • [2:00] Lauren talks about her new channel Mediaholic (https://www.youtube.com/c/Mediaholic) 
    • [4:00] The injection of politics, quotas, and diversity into entertainment and pop culture
    • [9:20] Audiences getting tired of being lectured and “get woke go broke”
    • [12:10] The hypocrisy of companies being “woke” in the West, but bowing to the wills of China and the Middle East
    • [13:00] The decline in quality and accessibility of movies and television for larger audiences
    • [16:10] Johnny Depp v. Amber Heard trial and the consequences of the Me Too movement
    • [21:30] Radical feminism and the acceptance of “man hating”
    • [22:40] Celebrities going through messy divorces, custody battles, and finding solutions to custody disputes
    • [30:20] Will Smith Oscars incident and Hollywood privilege  
    • [40:00] Chris Rock’s joke being “texturist” and the joke about Jada’s hair being made to be political
    • [43:05] Asian and Jewish hate crimes being mostly ignored by mainstream media
    • [45:00] CRT and sex being taught to children in school and the Florida bill
    • [50:30] Where does Lauren find meaning?
    • [51:50] What’s the most meaningful moment of your life?
    • [52:40] Where do you go to find peace?
    • [53:30] What are your hobbies?
    • [53:40] If you could write your own epitaph, what would you want it to say?
    • [54:10] If you had one wish, what would it be?
    • [54:30] Picking baby names 
    • [58:20] Greg wraps up the show
    • Thanks for listening to another episode! If you’re loving the show and want to help grow the show, please head over to iTunes and leave a rating and review! How to Leave an Apple Podcast Review: First, Open the podcast app on your iPhone, Mac, or iPad. Then, hit the “Search” tab at the bottom right-hand corner of the page and search for MetFlex and Chill. Select the podcast, scroll down to find the subheading “Ratings & Reviews”. and select “Write a Review.” Next, select the number of stars you’d like to leave. Please choose 5 stars! Using the text box which says “Title,” write a title for your review. Then in the text box, write the review itself. The review can be up to 300 words long, but doesn’t need to be much more than: “Love the show! Thanks!” or Once you’re done select “Send” in the upper right-hand corner.


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  • Wilfred Reilly is the Respondent...
    2022/08/24

    Wilfred Reilly is an Associate Professor of Political Science at Kentucky State University and the author of the books Taboo: 10 Facts You Can't Talk About, Hate Crime Hoax, and The $50,000,000 Question. His research interests include international relations and the prevention of war, contemporary American race relations, and the use of modern quantitative methods to test “sacred cow” theories such as the existence of widespread white privilege.

    In this episode, we chat about Wilfred’s books Taboo: 10 Facts [You Can’t Talk About], Hate Crime Hoax: How the Left is Selling a Fake Race War, Black Lives Matter, family law, privilege, identity politics, the Will Smith Oscar incident, and much more!

    “For the past four generations in the USA, I think many in the upper class have realized that a very useful technique for controlling the anger that used to burn as brightly against the rich here as anywhere else is focusing people onto kind of ancillary bullshit. That would be my sincere answer. 

    • Wilfred Reilly on Identity Politics 


    Top Takeaways:

    • The current “black elite” campaign for the idea that lynching is not an out of fashion practice.
    • The majority of people killed in police shootings in the United States are not black.
    • Many issues that are seen as inherently “American” are actually global issues, i.e fatherlessness.
    • Privilege does exist in society, but it takes many different forms, such as: attractiveness, IQ, social class, sex, etc.

    Show Notes: 

    • [0:00] Intro
    • [0:22] Wilfred’s background 
    • [3:00] Charities and their dark sides
    • [7:40] Wilfred’s time working as an executive 
    • [8:40] Transition to becoming a college professor
    • [12:00] The left’s labeling of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, and Jussie Smolett incidents  as “modern day lynching’s”
    • [15:40] Wilfred’s book Taboo
    • [17:00] Black Lives Matter, where all the money went, and it’s ties to transgender advocacy organizations
    • [22:10] Police shooting and killings
    • [24:50] Family Law and Fatherlesness 
    • [27:40] Wilfred’s thoughts on the family legal system
    • [31:30] Issues seen as “American” that are actually global
    • [35:10] Are some of these familial problems fixable?
    • [37:05] Child support
    • [45:00] Privilege 
    • [47:10] America’s obsession with identity politics
    • [53:20] Joe Biden, Kamala Harris, and the majority of our leaders being geriatric 
    • [55:40] Will Smith’s Oscar incident
    • [59:20] Question: Where does Wilfred find meaning?
    • [1:03:35] Question: What is the most meaningful moment of your life?
    • [1:04:30] Question: Where do you go to find peace?
    • [1:05:30] Question: If you could write your own epitaph, what would you want it to say?
    • [1:06:00] Question: If you had one wish, what would it be?
    • [1:07:10] Greg wraps up the show
    • Thanks for listening to another episode! If you’re loving the show and want to help grow the show, please head over to Itunes and leave a rating and review! How to Leave an Apple Podcast Review: First, Open the podcast app on your iPhone, Mac, or iPad. Then, hit the “Search” tab at the bottom right-hand corner of the page and search for MetFlex and Chill. Select the podcast, scroll down to find the subheading “Ratings & Reviews”. and select “Write a Review.” Next, select the number of stars you’d like to leave. Please choose 5 stars! Using the text box which says “Title,” write a title for your review. Then in the text box, write the review itself. The review can be up to 300 words long, but doesn’t need to be much more than: “Love the show! Thanks!” or Once you’re done select “Send” in the upper right-hand corner.


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    1 時間 12 分
  • Amber Heard's Private Investigator is the Respondent...
    2022/08/16

    Amber Heard Hired Paul Barresi, a professional Private Investigator, to find dirt on Johnny Depp. What did he find? What did he find on Amber? What is the truth? These are just some of the questions that are asked in this episode of the Respondent.


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    1 時間 25 分