Competition in relationships can build you up—or break you down. In this episode, Emilia and Alan unpack the hidden effects of competition in relationships. They share real stories, challenge the “zero-sum” mindset, and explore how healthy support and playful competition can make couples stronger. You'll learn how your self-belief influences how you show up for your partner—and what to do if you feel held back instead of lifted up.

Show notes:
(2:32) Childhood experiences with toxic competition
(4:46) Monopoly and the wake-up call
(6:49) Zero-sum thinking in relationships
(8:38) When support turns into control
(10:24) Building a growth mindset together
(13:54) Julie, a listener to The Conscious Couples podcast, shares why she subscribes and listens consistently.
(16:03) Abundance starts with self-belief
(20:24) Why do you struggle to celebrate your partner
(24:26) Outro

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