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#19: “Is fighting a good thing for couples?”
- 2025/01/20
- 再生時間： 56 分
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Cam and Elle discuss fights. Are they a good sign? Are they necessary? How do we fight well? 👀 We go particularly hard about the role of growth vs fixed mindsets in romance… because The Growth Gap has ended many couples, usually years down the line. Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off in January 2025; sign ups found in the links below. Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀 Our communities: ✨ Elle’s dating community for women: https://stan.store/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s dating community for men: https://stan.store/thecameronhogan ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com More from us: ✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher ✨ Elle’s twitter: https://x.com/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan Who are these people? 👀 Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning. Elle Beecher helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (130 so far), hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Cam (115 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks. 💌 CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome Back & Let’s Talk About Fighting 02:18 Elle and Cam Hear A Fight 07:09 Our Relationship & Analyzing The Fight 11:51 Is Fighting Necessary? 13:09 Why Don’t We Fight? 18:27 Don’t Settle, Fight Less 21:47 Healthy Tension vs Incompatibility 25:59 Growth Mindset 29:47 Ways to Tell If Someone Is Growth Minded 34:42 The Growth Gap 38:57 Examples From Our Relationship 46:29 Tell The Truth 49:53 The Magic Bullet 54:00 New Goodies For You