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#21: “I got a match on dating apps… how do I stand out?!”
- 2025/02/03
- 再生時間： 39 分
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Cam and Elle discuss what happens AFTER you match. This is the second episode in our dating series – if you haven’t listened to last week (Episode 20), go ahead and do that first! In this episode, we give you unconventional tips that made us very successful on the apps: voice notes, selfie videos, mentioning small details on their profile (or roasting when they give 0 info), and quick Facetime dates before meeting in person. I’ve never heard relationship coaches give these tips, but trust us on this one: authenticity saves time because people can FEEL you faster. Honestly, a lot of this advice can help you stand out in every area of life. Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off soon; sign ups found in the links below. Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀 Our communities: ✨ Elle’s dating community for women: https://stan.store/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s dating community for men: https://stan.store/thecameronhogan ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions: https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com More from us: ✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher ✨ Elle’s twitter: https://x.com/ellebeecher ✨ Cam’s twitter: https://x.com/thecameronhogan Who are these people? 👀 Cameron Hogan is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 newsletters in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called Great Morning. Elle Beecher helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle writes every day, hosts a weekly walk for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with The Board Walks. 💌 CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome Back & Let's Talk Messaging on Apps 1:37 Ask A Question & Chase The Chuckle 4:19 Strategy #1: The Art of Selfie Videos 7:52 Don't Get Stuck Texting 11:43 Authenticity Condenses Time 21:01 Strategy #2: Voice Notes 23:37 Create Story Moments 28:57 Strategy #3: Facetime Date 33:37 Don't Get Over-Give Your Time