“Most people try to impress others and they fail. They become unhappy because impressing others is not a rightful thing. Being YOU, without changing for others and impressing yourself is the rightful thing you have to do, to find long-lasting happiness in life.”

Three simple steps to impress yourself.

1. Don’t impress others: Most people live all their lives to impress others who even they don’t know. This is how they fail in their lives and live a desperate life. Don’t impress others. Don’t dress so well to impress others. Don’t buy expensive things to impress others. In simple words, don’t live just for impressing others who even don’t care. Instead, you can live your life on your own terms. Impress yourself. Buy things that are useful. Dress in comfortable wear. In simple words, live your life in the way you love to.
2. Do new things: Don’t limit yourself to a boring life. There are many things in human life you need to experience. New experiences add valuable lessons to life. Your right perception and the right mindset are built on new experiences and adventures that you take in life. It may be risky. But take it. It may be frightening. Do it. Face challenges. Learn better. Grow faster. This makes living interesting and you can feel proud of your life.
3. Help others: If someone is in need, help them. Doing a favor to others will make you feel good. Don’t wait for someone to ask you for help. If you know someone needs help. Help them unconditionally, expecting nothing in return. Give a little to charity. Give some food to the people living on the footpath. It may be any little help you can afford to do. Do it immediately. Helping others will make you feel great, and it adds a lot of value to your life.

Follow these simple steps and impress yourself every day and live a life that is beyond false limits built in your mind by you, family or society.

People who understand you and love you will stay in your life even though you don’t impress them. People who don’t love you or understand you well may not stay in your life and it’s okay.

But remember: BE YOURSELF and don’t lose yourself in any situation of life. Stand strong and live better.

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