GOALS - goal hierarchy

Maybe good & bad goals fit into this

Yes to ANYTHING but not EVERYTHING but what you truly want to say yes to which if we have goals that we arent even sure of…

Or if we have been ina restriction minmdset for so long

Or even live with our view of keeping face or wanting to look a certain waylike “im saying yes to a burger so i can prove i have balance” when really you wanted the salad sort of thing - there can be pressure there too. Ie going out to eat and knowing you want a healthier life but wanting to prove X or if you think “i don't even look fit so if i pick this ill be judged so ill get the crappy option so noone says anything” but really you DID want a grille dchicken and veg because

But then there are also those saying yes to the icecream but not the pizza and fries too bc you chose your indulgence.

values

Choice point & examples with it

Behaviour change

Fear of uncertainty

Lack of self belief

Fear of failure

Fear of success

Cognitive dissonance

We keep trying to solve for X that we arent doing…. But maybe we need to look upstream?

Slow down -

Irrational beliefs

Self compassion

Cognitive models

Mental models

Cognitive dissonance

Realities of change and relapse

How do you approach someone wanting X but not what it takes to get X because they w9nt admit to where they are

Or thinking they must fit a mould

Actually facing their shir and not shying away from hard weeks thinking there's something wrong

What typically stops people from changing

I know what to do but im just not doing it

Cravings & emotional eating

Shifting our eating identity

Getting clear on your plan of action not just saying i want to make healthier choices or i want more protein but making it really clear with the steps it requires, where they factor into your day etcetc

Do hard things…

DRIVE

The dopamine and addiction of external measures of success & progress at the cost of long term

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