In this episode of the Full of Words podcast, Sue and CJ chat with co-parenting coach JP Marsh about the ups and downs of co-parenting. JP shares that challenges can arise not just for divorced or separated parents, but also for married couples who have different parenting styles. He highlights how important it is to communicate well, show empathy, and maintain a positive attitude to reduce conflict.

They focus on the need for respectful communication and open discussions to help co-parents work together. JP emphasizes letting go of past grievances for a healthier relationship that benefits the kids. He also discusses how parents’ words and actions can deeply affect their children's emotional well-being, making mindful co-parenting a must.

They also touch on the special challenges that blended families face and the importance of setting boundaries to create a supportive atmosphere. By prioritizing respect and teamwork, parents can navigate co-parenting more smoothly, which helps everyone involved.

Tune in now!

Highlights:

• (02:34) The complexities of co-parenting, even in intact families.
• (03:45) JP's personal journey with co-parenting, highlighting the transition from conflict to collaboration.
• (09:23) The influence of other parents in the community on co-parenting decisions.
• (10:26) Importance of open communication and empathy in co-parenting relationships.
• (13:51) Starting conversations with positive language can change the dynamics significantly.
• (15:59) The importance of letting go of self-pity to move forward in co-parenting.
• (18:28) Importance of not responding immediately to potentially triggering messages.
• (20:45) Being more mindful of actions and less worried about others' words, especially in co-parenting scenarios.
• (23:48) The importance of being a good role model and moving forward in a positive way post-relationship.
• (25:07) Children see themselves as a mix of both parents, and negative talk about one parent can harm a child's self-image.
• (26:27) Stresses that children learn how to treat others based on how their parents interact.
• (29:35) The value of reflection and how it can lead to improved co-parenting.
• (31:22) How boundaries and communication helped resolve issues in co-parenting arrangement without court involvement.
• (37:35) Act with intention and be mindful of how behavior around the other parent affects children.

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