What do car payments, surprise home repairs, and clashing love languages have in common? They’ve all put our marriage to the test—and taught us some unforgettable lessons.

In this episode, we’re spilling the tea (and maybe a few tears) about the current state of our consumer debt. From auto loans that have stretched our budget to gut-punch experiences like unexpected mold remediation, we’re diving into the realities of budgeting, debt, and finding financial harmony in marriage.

We’ll share what we’ve learned (shoutout to Dave Ramsey), why emergency funds are important, and how facing financial struggles together can actually bring you closer.

And because money isn’t the only thing that gets messy, we’re also talking about love languages—what happens when your “acts of service” don’t hit the same way for your spouse? We’ve been there.

Oh, and stick around for next week’s episode, where we’ll chat with a local small business owner about balancing relationships and running a biz. Let's figure this out together, one step (and laugh) at a time.

Episode Highlights:

• Get back on the bike.
• Let’s talk about our consumer debt.
• How did we get here?
• How money impacts our marriages.
• Love Languages and Relationship Dynamics.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How do you discern the voice of God when life feels overwhelming?

In today’s episode, we’re cutting through the noise to expose the lies of the enemy and uncover the truth about the spiritual battlefield we all face. From the very beginning—starting in the Garden of Eden—doubt and confusion have been tools of the enemy. But here’s the good news: God’s Word provides the clarity we need. We’ll dive into Proverbs 3:5-6 to explore how trusting Him can guide us through life’s toughest decisions and moments of uncertainty.

We’re unpacking the balance between faith and works and what it means to recognize and follow God’s voice in a world full of distractions. With personal stories, a little humor, and practical wisdom, we’ll dig into questions like: How do you know it’s God speaking? How can you trust His plan when it feels unclear? Whether it’s a relationship dilemma or a major career decision, this episode will encourage you to align your choices with biblical truth, find peace in the process, and stay strong in your faith when the enemy tries to shake it.

This one’s for anyone seeking clarity, confidence, and a deeper trust in God. Tune in—you don’t want to miss it!

Episode Highlights:

• We live in confusing times.
• Lies from the enemy.
• Discerning the voice of God.
• Battling doubt and confusion.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

How can we turn the twists and turns of last year into opportunities for growth?

As we step into 2025, we’re taking a moment to reflect on the past year—the resolutions that got derailed, the unexpected messes, and the lessons learned.

This year, we’re focusing on what matters: setting boundaries, unplugging from distractions, and reconnecting with creativity and family. A holiday screen time detox reminded us of the power of being present, and our “State of the Union” talks inspired fresh ideas for personal growth and the podcast.

Consistency is the goal for 2025—whether it’s sticking to themes, growing spiritually, or navigating finances with purpose. Join us as we plan, pivot, and embrace whatever surprises the year has in store.

Episode Highlights:

• Lessons from 2024
• Prioritizing family and screen-free time
• Monthly themed podcast structure
• Intentional family bonding
• Spiritual growth with shared Bible verses
• Focus on consistency, not resolutions
• Honest talks on financial health
• Building community with transparency and humor

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• Get your Bible verse printable here!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Ever feel like you're just stuck in a funk?

In this episode, we dive into finding peace in the middle of life’s chaos. If you’ve ever felt lost or uncertain about your path, you’re not alone. We chat about how doubt can sneak into our minds and how taking a step back to connect with God can help bring peace.

With the holidays fast approaching, we know the stress is real, especially with tricky family dynamics. We talk about how leaning on God can help carry those heavy loads, especially for guys who tend to keep it all inside. Sometimes, it's in those quiet moments with God that we find the clarity and peace we need to face the chaos.

It's easy to get caught up in the rush, but let's not forget the real reason we celebrate Christmas. So, take a step back, focus on what truly matters, and let His love be your peace this season. Merry Christmas, everyone. Love you all!

Episode Highlights:

• Ever feel like you’re lacking peace?
• Breaking the negativity loop.
• Fighting off distraction.
• God can turn anything for good.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!
• Good News: Peace - Pastor Alex North Canton Chapel

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Do you have family meetings at your house?

It might seem like a small thing, but these casual hangouts can actually be a game-changer when it comes to staying organized and keeping everyone connected. We chat about how weekly family meetings help us stay on top of schedules, responsibilities, and avoid those little misunderstandings that pop up.

In this episode, we share how we keep things running smoothly at home, from organizing kids’ stuff to setting up clear expectations and consequences. Plus, we dive into the real challenges of parenting in the digital age—especially when it comes to managing screen time and guiding our kids through the online world.

Join us for some real talk, practical tips, and some good old-fashioned family wisdom to help bring more balance and connection into your home.

Episode Highlights:

• Introducing Family Meetings.
• The flow of our family meetings.
• The importance of follow-through.
• Kids and devices.
• Bringing it all back to scripture.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Ever wondered what it truly means to be thankful without the pressure of perfection?

With a healthy dose of humor and a pinch of nostalgia, we’re hitting pause to reflect on what truly matters: family, home, and the incredible community that shapes our lives. Because sometimes, it’s the little things—like snuggling up under twinkling lights by a cozy Christmas tree—that help us slow down and savor the season.

We’re also getting real about the pressures of social media’s perfectly curated holiday moments. Spoiler alert: the magic isn’t in the picture-perfect decor or traditions; it’s in the laughter, the connection, and yes, even the chaos. We're here to embrace the imperfections and find joy in those unfiltered moments with the people we love most.

Drawing inspiration from the story of Samuel and David, we’ll talk about the beauty of being faithful in the small things and trusting in divine timing. It’s all about slowing down, soaking in the season, and choosing presence over pressure.

So grab a turkey leg, settle in, and let’s share some Thanksgiving gratitude together.

Episode Highlights:

• What we’re thankful for.
• Thanksgiving Traditions.
• It’s about heart posture.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever felt like you're doing lots of 'good things', but not doing any of them 'well'?

Join us for a candid discussion on the challenge of balancing multiple roles and commitments, especially when trying to uphold Christian values as parents. We talk about being intentional with our time, questioning the motivations behind the endless activities we sign up for. Together, we explore strategies for slowing down, prioritizing meaningful family interactions, and breaking free from the frantic pace of life.

With insights from our own journey, we hope to inspire you to embrace rest and cherish family time, promising a more balanced and fulfilling life. Let’s keep fighting the good fight together and reclaim our balance!

Episode Highlights:

• Is anyone else exhausted?
• Busyness vs. hurry.
• Stewarding what you’ve committed to.
• Finding time for rest.
• Coming back to the feet of Jesus.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.

Have you ever found yourself in a season that feels both exhausting and unexpectedly beautiful?

In our heartfelt reflections on fostering, we explore the emotional journey of welcoming two sweet little ones into our family. We share the joys and challenges of fostering, emphasizing how community support and a shift in perspective through prayer and gratitude have enriched our lives.

Fostering isn’t easy. It comes with lots of unknowns and emotional wrestling. But we’re also learning that the kind of peace that comes with saying “yes” is worth every second. We talk about challenges with mental health and why a shift in perspective can be such a powerful tool in helping us embrace each part of the journey.

Thank you to everyone who’s supported us along the way—whether you’re a foster parent or just curious, your messages mean so much. Join us for a journey packed with humor, inspiration, and a reminder of the profound difference that love and gratitude can make in navigating life’s changes.

Episode Highlights:

• Overcoming caffeine addiction.
• Kid count update.
• Allowing God to shift your perspective.
• The power of discipline.

Links Mentioned in Episode/Find More on A Force to Be Reckoned With:

• Jointheforce.us
• Follow us on Instagram @bethanyadkins
• Find us on Youtube!

This show has been produced by Adkins Media Co.