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あらすじ・解説
It is the worst thing. At a low moment in your life, you take that moment to hold yourself up to a group of people with one thing in common; they all are doing better in life at THAT ONE THING. Your response is immediate and equally debilitating. You feel awful. You want to throw in the towel. You are convinced you are just fundamentally not good at whatever it is, marriage, business, losing weight, parenthood. If you were so good, why would so many people around you be so successful?
Adults do this, when we are discouraged, for some reason we take that moment to compare ourselves to another person who many have a completely different story (we choose to ignore it in that moment) and but a better outcome. It makes us feel lost, stranded and compels us to think about throwing in the towel.
It’s not a good strategy, It might temporarily give you some inspiration but for most, it makes you feel like you just are the right fit for IT. Comparison is a trap that rarely leads to positive results.