In this insightful conversation, we explore the deeper layers of relationships, attachment styles, and emotional healing. Key takeaways include:

Understanding anxious attachment styles and how they are shaped by childhood experiences.
Breaking free from repetition compulsion and the cycle of attracting similar partners.
Insights into perfectionism as a protector and its roots in childhood environments.
Recognizing patterns of people-pleasing and setting healthier boundaries.
The power of self-awareness in transforming relationship dynamics.
Whether you're navigating attachment issues or simply seeking to understand yourself better, this episode offers tools and perspectives to help you create healthier connections.


Chapters:

00:00 - Intro: Understanding perfectionism as a protector.
02:19 - Identifying attachment patterns in relationships.
05:00 - What is anxious attachment, and how does it form?
07:44 - The impact of absent fathers and seeking healthy masculinity.
12:00 - How trauma bonds and attachment styles affect relationships.
14:21 - The role of perfectionism in managing inner chaos.
18:02 - Rebellious behavior and seeking control in childhood.
22:54 - Breaking people-pleasing habits and setting boundaries.
25:39 - Changing patterns through awareness and self-regulation.
29:13 - The science of focus: How observation changes outcomes.


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Description
This episode of "Awake with Oliver"
Oliver and Steve dive deep into a thought-provoking conversation, exploring themes of vulnerability, relationships, and personal growth. They share personal anecdotes and insights on navigating life's challenges, overcoming adversity, and cultivating emotional awareness.

Tune in to this raw and inspiring discussion as they tackle topics such as:
- Seeking help and support
- Building meaningful connections
- Navigating love and relationships
- Overcoming financial struggles and personal doubts
- Breaking free from addiction and negative patterns
- Embracing self-awareness and emotional intelligence
Get ready for a powerful and relatable conversation that will leave you reflecting on your own life and relationships.


They Discuss:
1. Seeking help and vulnerability
2. Emotional and physical connections
3. Building relationships and love
4. Personal struggles (financial, social, honesty)
5. Self-discovery and desires
6. Overcoming addiction and negative patterns
7. Emotional awareness and focus
8. Dealing with judgment and adversity



Chapters:
00:00 intro
03:27 I need help
09:19 Body connection
12:08. Bond creation
13:43 love from afar
16:40 You have to pay
19:24 There is no time line
23:20 everything went wrong
25:55 lack of money, friends, honesty
32:27 what I really want
37:38 preference and want
39:40 what we focus on becomes a default feeling
49:20 Drugs, alcohol, you can quite
54:17 Judgement


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Check out my FREE course - take control! http://www.talkwitholiver.com

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motivation, personal development, mental health, personal growth, mindfulness, overcoming challenges, love, guided meditation, resilience, life lessons, clarity, inspiration, healing, transformation, relationships, positive mindset, positivity, connection

Description:

In this captivating episode with Oliver and Noel, we delve deep into the complexities of modern life and the search for fulfillment:

Breaking societal norms: Questioning marriage, kids, and the traditional path.
Purpose and wholeness: Exploring how to live authentically without societal pressures.
The importance of self-discovery: Spending time alone to uncover true desires.
Navigating the seasons of life: From childhood freedom to adult responsibilities.
The power of experiences: Saying yes to curiosity and adventure.
Join us as we challenge traditional expectations and explore what it truly means to live a purposeful life.

Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction: Finding purpose in modern life.
01:13 - The struggle between freedom and societal norms.
02:35 - From childhood freedom to adult responsibilities.
04:03 - Questioning life choices: Marriage, kids, and mortgages.
07:14 - Perspectives on family and personal purpose.
11:19 - Redefining purpose: Living intentionally and authentically.
13:27 - Creating a chosen family and the meaning of connection.
17:01 - The power of spending time alone for self-discovery.
20:02 - Spiritual awakening and choosing a path of wholeness.
26:09 - Embracing life’s seasons: Growth through discomfort.
29:11 - Choosing experiences that align with your authentic self.


Guest Bio:
Sex Coach Noël Bio

Sex Coach Noël is a leader in the Conscious Sex and Relationships space. His transformational CSR mastermind and Conscious Sex mastery course are a must for anyone who wants to take their sex life to the next level and become the best lover they can possibly become, to infinity ♾️

Sex Coach Noël is the author of 2 books titled “Energy Whore - How to be a multi-orgasmic man and How to be a multi-orgasmic woman” and Noël is the founder of the Conscious Sex and Relationships Community, a global community that offers exclusive online content, as well as international luxury retreats.

Sex Coach Noël and CSR is dedicated to uplifting the collective sex and relationships consciousness of the planet, and helping its members become World Class in this area of life.

Join Sex Coach Noël’s Mastermind and get Lifetime access to Conscious Sex Mastery Course

Connect With Sex Coach Noël - https://linktr.ee/scoachnoel


Stay Connected:
Follow Oliver on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yeskingoliver
Want to regain control of your life from modern-day stress, anxiety, and influence?
Check out my FREE course - take control! http://www.talkwitholiver.com