Hey girl so good to see you! We're back. It's a short and sweet one!

This episode is all about ex's, tests, and disruptions. Quite fitting that Mercury is Retrograde while we record. Carrie and Miranda run into Aiden and Steve. Of course no one cares about Aidan because later that day Big calls and steals the show. Carrie agrees to meet him for lunch because he is sad boi after his divorce. When she tells Miranda they get into their first big fight, finally airing out a lot of their differences. Trey shows up to Charlotte's unannounced and they finally make love, probably for less than 5 minutes but a win is a win?

After a 10 minute catch up, we get into the episode. We discuss break ups, running into ex's, getting over relationships and how guys and girls differ, and the difference between feeling safe and being in love. A girl will settle for one, but we all deserve both! We talk about how to decipher what is a test and what is your intuition.

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Exciting times. Thanks for listening. We love you!

Time Stamps:
[00:06:22] Rediscovering love for reading.
[00:08:10] Carrie and Miranda's Exes
[00:11:07-00:11:17] "Aiden is so unhealed like the way he looks at Carrie is so just like it's like he's literally saying fuck you with his eyes and Steve is such a puppy dog"
[00:11:49] Seeing exes after breakup.
[00:13:59] Obsessing Over Unfinished Relationships
[00:14:14] Unfinished relationships and grieving.
[00:19:30] Love and growth in relationships.
[00:20:52-00:21:02] "you have to choose, what do you want for the rest of your life? Because you can be in love and safe, but some people will never let themselves get to the in love because they're staying in a safety that has love, but it's not in love."
[00:21:13] Safety vs. Being in Love
[00:24:32] Carrie and Miranda's Fight
[00:26:46] "Do you want to know who I am in this episode? I'm Samantha. I'm Samantha having a rage fit"
[00:27:02] Charlotte and Trey's Encounter
[00:29:47] Pings and tests.
[00:31:43] "Something happens that reminds you of that person and you start to think that you're missing them like crazy."
[00:32:56-00:33:07] "you will pass by letting it pass'

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