Is your relationship struggling—or are you tired of dating the wrong people? The answer could be hidden in your Enneagram type. In today’s episode, Coach Mel introduces the Enneagram—a psychological tool more powerful than astrology, Myers-Briggs, or any other personality test. Discover how your ego structure and attachment style shape your relationships, and how knowing your type can lead you to a more fulfilling love life.

🔹 What You’ll Learn:

• What the Enneagram is and why it’s more profound than other personality tools.
• The nine Enneagram types—their strengths, weaknesses, and motivations.
• How your Ego Ideal affects your thoughts, reactions, and relationship dynamics.
• Why the Enneagram is the key to understanding your patterns and finding a compatible partner.
• Practical steps for using the Enneagram to improve your relationship or attract the right person.
• 💡 “The Enneagram doesn’t put you in a box. It shows you the box you’re already in, and helps you find your way out.”

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, understanding your Enneagram type can change everything.

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Why do good girls fall for bad guys? It’s deeper than you think. In today’s episode, Coach Mel reveals the truth about the Anxious-Avoidant Trap—why so many relationships feel like an emotional roller coaster and how to break free from toxic cycles.

🔹 What You’ll Learn:

• The three attachment styles: Secure, Anxious, and Avoidant.
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• Why Anxiously attached people crave closeness and approval.
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• Why Avoidantly attached people run from commitment and intimacy.
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• How these two attachment styles are magnetically drawn to each other—but for all the wrong reasons.
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• Why the drama and emotional highs of these relationships can feel more addictive than drugs.
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• How your childhood patterns may be influencing who you’re attracted to—and why.
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• Steps to break free from toxic, unhealthy dynamics.
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• 💡 "Opposites attract, then they attack."

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, understanding your attachment style can completely change how you approach love.

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🔹 Singles: Get your Marriage Plan Workbook to start dating intentionally and prepare for lasting love.

🔸 Couples: Download the “Why Love Alone Isn’t Enough” eBook to discover what it really takes to build a relationship that thrives.

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Have you ever believed something about dating, attraction, or your worth—without ever questioning if it’s actually true?

In this powerful episode, Coach Melissa Rochelle breaks down the real reasons why so many men and women struggle with insecurity, self-worth, and unrealistic dating standards. From body image and “ideal” partner myths to the way our belief systems are programmed by culture, Melissa unpacks it all.

• The 3 hidden truths behind why we chase certain ideals in relationships
• Why false beliefs (even about ourselves) feel safer than the truth
• The shocking science behind the Illusory Truth Effect
• Why the ideas that “size matters” or “men only want hourglass bodies” are deeply flawed
• How to challenge your internal beliefs and reclaim your self-esteem
• The connection between capitalism, insecurity, and perfectionism
• Why some of the most common dating “rules” are just recycled lies

💡 "The more your self-esteem dies, the more the economy thrives."

This is the episode that will help you break the cycle of feeling “not good enough” and finally take your power back.

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