The privilege of enjoying deep, meaningful friendships is one of the best things about life. Oftentimes, friends seem closer to us than our actual family members. We all desire purposeful connections with people who have our back. This episode I have my partner in podcast crime Candis with me and I invite two more sisterfriends to join us. So come listen to a great year recap and an amazing start of the year.
There are ‘friends’ who destroy each other, but a real friend sticks closer than a brother.” – Proverbs 18:24 (NLT)
Consider this story… During WWI, a soldier saw his best buddy get hit by enemy gunfire. Calling out to his commander, he asked: “Sir, my friend has been shot! Can I carry him back here?” His commander said, “No, it won’t do any good to lose you both.” The soldier disregarded his commander’s words and bolted out of the trenches to try and save his friend. He was able to retrieve him; however, in the process, they were both mortally wounded. When they got to safety, the commander was furious, shouting, “Now I lost both of you! It wasn’t worth it!” Yet, with his dying breath the young soldier whispered, “But it was worth it, sir, because when I got to my friend, he said, ‘Jim, I knew you would come.’”
That’s a beautiful picture of what sacrificial friendship, comunitas, looks like. I don’t know about you, but I want to cultivate friendships that are forged in the fire. For it’s in the fire where we find true friends who will stick closer than a brother.
Digging Deeper
- Do you have a friendship in your life that exemplifies comunitas?
- Today, set aside time to pray for your closest friends, the friends that stick closer than a brother.
- What do you think a love jug is?
- Have you ever taking a day and did something fun with a sisterfriend, spouse or child? What did you do?
When Jesus is the Source of Life around your table, you will pour into each other out of the overflow. Unplugged from each other and pouring into each other, your table will be forever changed.