When we feel that we have been done wrong, we will try to even the score, make things right in our own eyes and seek justice. Feels good right? To make others feel the way that we do? Now take a pause - stop and consider what that is really accomplishing. Have we made things better, or started a cycle of vengeance? And is that even our place?

In this episode we are going to discuss how enacting justice is not our place, but God's, and what it says about the hurts and offenses we carry. Payback time is up to God.

Forgive and let go for God's role is to establish a payment plan of justice and judgment.

1. Can you think of an occasion when you unintentionally offended someone, and you were totally shocked when you heard how he or she perceived what you said or did?

2. Have you ever been offended by someone, only to find out later that the person never intended to offend you and was genuinely sorry when he or she found out how you felt about it?

3. What do you think is the most mature way a person can respond when he or she is tempted to get caught in the trap of offense? How do you think you should deal with a potential offense when someone hurts your feelings or lets you down?

You are not alone in this! Always make the choice to seek him and his guidance.

How about you? I’d love to hear what you think about this topic and how you are choosing to be unoffendable in your own life. Please feel free to leave a comment below, or to contact me directly.

Do you remember being little and when you did something wrong, an adult would tell you to say "Im sorry"and the issue was resolved pretty quickly? What has happened as we have gotten older we will decide not to forgive someone? Then as we are holding on to the unforgiveness we cannot walk where God is taking us and we are constantly offended.

In this episode we are talking about what it takes to forgive -

how we can choose to Bring…it…back…to…God!

Keep our emotional wellness healthy, and realize the freedom that we have access to.

"God has called us all to live a life of forgiveness and living unoffended."

In this last episode of being unoffended we are asking the question: what is your offended heart really doing? We make the choice every day to participate in a cancel culture society that teaches us to be easily offended with no love or humbleness in our hearts or live a life knowing that we are a part of Gods story. The principal error of cancel culture is that it lacks mercy. No apology is good enough for those who are "offended."

So here is another question: where do you fall? or can you cancel someone and love them at the same time?

Quotable-The principal error of cancel culture is that it lacks mercy. No apology is good enough for those who are "offended."

So, why not start today?
Allow God's amazing grace to start a revolution inside your heart, overflowing into your life and into the lives of those around you.
Our world, this cancel culture in which we live, needs the message of grace now more than ever before.

Blessings

Candis and Theresa

When God calls, don't make excuses!

Have you ever wondered if God could use someone like you? When I first became a Christian, it was overwhelming for me to think that God would allow someone like me to come into a relationship with Him. It was more than enough. But God wants us to serve Him and He's given us spiritual gifts to do so.

What a privilege!

So why are we sitting on the sidelines instead of being used by God?

Lord, I am available to you.

https://open.spotify.com/track/2lWFN5HviKVkFtybv85FaU?si=edcd0d02e08a435c

https://youtu.be/OX2uOBMYBR8?si=nI8yWJ7eUM5oSltU - Who's daddy?

This is Season 4 and we are back! Our sabbatical is officially over and we are ready to get back sharing and speaking the Word of God!

This week we are hitting the ground running.

Think about this... Is there something in your life that you want to change?

We are sure that the answer is yes.

But do you know that when you pull up to the table, that God has set for you, His power will change your life?

Get your pen,and piece of paper and let's talk about it

Reflection questions-

1. Think about what it means not only to forgive but also to forget?
2. Identity a problem you have been procrastinating about and what your first step should be in dealing with it.

Send us an email and share it because we want to pray for you and with you. We will be adding it to our pray journal.

Imagine for a moment that God is not all-powerful in a traditional sense, but that God is instead all-partnerable. God's Part and My part changes me. Life change happens best in the context of relationships. We all have a part- God has a part; we have a part; teachers have a part; and fellow believers have a part. God works in; we work out; teachers work with; and the believers work together.

To know that with God it's not just about sitting back waiting for Him to do everything, but engaging - reading, praying, worshiping - doing our part as well. It's time we have work to do!

Challenge- come join us in the Sisterfriend Village- message me for more information.

Talk It Over

• Is your relationship with God the most important one in your life? What evidence in your life shows that this is true?
• What do you need to change about your schedule so that you can be more consistent in having a daily quiet time with God?
• Think of two practical ways you can increase or improve your conversations with God. How can you put those ideas into practice today?

God proved his goodness through his Son, Jesus Christ.

Scripture References:

Galatians 5:22-23

Philippians 2:12-13

Daniel 11:32

Deuteronomy 34

2 Timothy 3:17

Ephesians 3:16

"We are born to manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us. It's in everyone."

-- Nelson Mandela

In this episode we are continuing the conversation from last week -

pulling up closer to the table for our partnership with God. But this week, we are digging in deep and stopping to ask ourselves "Are we doing our part?"

In scripture God tells us exactly who He is and in doing that we are to understand that we are made in HIS image. As His children we do not have to worry about what is happening around us because God has said we are free, healed and whole.

Now all of this sounds wonderful, but if we are not doing our part - reading the word, praying, sharing, fellowshipping and to be obedient to His prompting.- then we have not even sat down at the table yet.

Get a pen and journal - it's going to get good!