Hey Family, do you know the most common problems that cause a marriage to fall apart? Have you ever wondered about the root causes of these problems that so many couples face? More importantly, do you want to learn how to avoid or fix these problems?

Tune in to this episode to find the answers to these questions with Derrick as he has an enlightening conversation with the one and only Ludmila Woodruff! Ludmila is an expert Life and Relationship coach who works with high-achieving clients who want to feel as successful in their relationships as they do in their careers or businesses - so she definitely knows what Marriage and Money are all about. 

Listen closely as Derrick shares pearls of wisdom from his experiences in his marriage while Ludmila breaks down key issues which affect marriages as attachment styles and childhood trauma. Together, they also emphasize the importance of talking about money in your marriage. 

KEY POINTS:

- What kind of problems do women and men face in a failing relationship? 

- Women can be strong and independent while still being in touch with their femininity 

- Attachment styles and how they affect personal relationships

- Learning lessons from the first 4 years of Derrick’s relationship with his wife 

- How can we address personal traumas that end up affecting our relationships?

QUOTABLES:

“Men and women should have the same rights but men and women are not the same”

   “if I'm holding on to trauma and pain, how do I get that stuff off of me? So I can go and be happy in my relationship?”

“If I hear somebody say  “I don't need a man”, well, I already know you're in your protective behaviors. And I understand that, and I can see that you’re protecting yourself because you don't want to be hurt again. But until you heal, it's not the man's problem.”

GUEST INFORMATION:

Ludmila Woodruff

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