Title: Kristen Kollgaard_When You Love Your Child But Regret Becoming A Mother

Host: Katie Elise

Guest: Kristen Kollgaard

Keywords

autism, parenting, neurodivergent, motherhood, support, mental health, expectations, diagnosis, community, parenting strategies, PDA, pathological demand avoidance, persistent drive for autonomy

Summary

In this conversation, Katie Elise and Kristen Kollgaard discuss their experiences as mothers of children with autism. They explore the challenges and realities of early motherhood, the expectations versus the actual experiences, and the journey of diagnosis. Kristen shares her personal story of navigating parenting with a neurodivergent child, including the emotional struggles and the importance of finding community and support. They emphasize the need for understanding and compassion in parenting, as well as the significance of advocating for one's child. The conversation concludes with valuable advice for new parents facing similar challenges.

Takeaways

Motherhood can be a complex journey with unexpected challenges.

It's important to grieve the expectations of parenting.

Finding a supportive community is crucial for parents of neurodivergent children.

Navigating a child's diagnosis can be a long and emotional process.

Parents should trust their instincts and advocate for their children.

It's okay to feel overwhelmed and seek help when needed.

Every child is unique, and parenting strategies should be tailored to them.

The journey of parenting is filled with phases of emotions and experiences.

Open communication with partners about parenting challenges is essential.

Self-care and mental health are important for parents.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

06:39 Expectations vs. Reality in Motherhood

17:25 Navigating Diagnosis and Support Needs

30:22 The Duality of Love and Frustration in Parenting

40:34 Finding Community and Support

51:13 Advice for New Moms of Neurodivergent Children

55:32 Podcast Outro Video.mp4

Links

Kristen’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kkollgaard?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==