Summary: In this conversation, Dr. Kim explores the concepts of gender affirmation, the importance of using correct gender pronouns, and the psychological impact of misgendering. The discussion emphasizes the need for respect and understanding in conversations about gender identity, highlighting the distinction between curiosity and nosiness. Dr. Kim also shares insights from her research on how misgendering can affect relationships, particularly within family units, and encourages listeners to engage in respectful dialogue and self-education.

Takeaways:

• Gender affirmation involves social, legal, and medical aspects.
• Neo pronouns are evolving and important for non-binary individuals.
• Misgendering disrupts social identity and can be psychologically damaging.
• It's crucial to ask about pronouns respectfully and avoid assumptions.
• Curiosity about gender identity should not cross into nosiness.
• Family units often struggle with misgendering their loved ones.
• Grace and understanding are essential in conversations about gender.
• People's medical backgrounds are private unless care is being provided.
• Correcting someone gently is a part of respectful communication.
• Researching uncommon gender pronouns can enhance understanding.

Sources:

Gender pronouns: https://lgbtqia.ucdavis.edu/educated/pronouns-inclusive-language

Neopronouns: https://www.mykidisgay.com/blog/defining-neopronouns

Misgendering: McLemore, K. A. (2015). Experiences with misgendering: Identity misclassification of trans spectrum individuals. Self and Identity, 14(1), 51–74. Retrieved from https://doi-org.lopes.idm.oclc.org/10.1080/15298868.2014.950691
Misgendering: McLemore, K. A. (2018). A minority stress perspective on trans individuals’ experiences with misgendering. Stigma and Health, 3(1), 53–64. Retrieved from https://doi-org.lopes.idm.oclc.org/10.1037/sah0000070

Bible verse: 2 Corinthians 5:17

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