The parent-child relationship doesn’t end when you grow up—it evolves. But how? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron dive into the expectations that parents have for their adult children—and what adult children wish from their parents in return.Should parents still give advice (even when it’s not asked for)? How much involvement is too much? And how do you navigate setting boundaries while still maintaining respect and love? This fun and eye-opening conversation explores what it means to be parented as an adult and how expectations can shape or strain family relationships.Poll Question: Are you willing to set expectations with your parents? Vote and share your experience in the comments!Follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs this conversation!

“What do you want to be when you grow up?” It’s the question every child is asked—but how many of us actually become what we once dreamed of? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron take a trip down memory lane to see if their childhood ambitions lined up with their real-life careers.They also dive into the deeper conversation of when to start pursuing your dreams to avoid burnout and whether it’s okay not to have a job you’re passionate about. Is loving your career necessary for happiness, or can a job just be… a job?This episode is all about expectations, reality, and finding fulfillment—whether you’re chasing a childhood dream or carving a new path altogether.

Poll Question: Are you currently in the career you dreamed of as a child? Vote and tell us why in the comments!Follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who’s questioning their career path!

Heartbreak—it’s something we all experience, but how do we navigate it, heal from it, and come out stronger on the other side? In this special episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron are joined by two very special guests—Asasha and Jason Francis, the godparents of their children—to have a deep and honest conversation about love, loss, and resilience.Together, they share personal stories of heartbreak from past relationships, reflect on how those experiences shaped them, and discuss what lessons they wish they had known sooner. But most importantly, they ask themselves: What advice would we give our children if they ever had their hearts broken?From learning to let go, to recognizing self-worth, to embracing the lessons heartbreak teaches us, this episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and real talk. Because while heartbreak may be painful, it’s also an opportunity to grow and prepare for the love that’s meant to last.Have you ever had your heart broken? What’s the best advice you’ve received (or wish you had) about dealing with heartbreak? Drop your thoughts in the comments, and let’s keep the conversation going!Make sure to follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm, like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!

What do you do when you’ve hurt someone you love? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their heartfelt series of letters to their children—this time offering advice on how to make things right after you've wronged your partner.The conversation starts with the foundation of accountability—owning your mistake, seeking forgiveness, and reflecting on why it happened in the first place. Lindsey and Aaron share personal insights about learning from missteps and how true growth in a relationship comes from making sure the same mistake doesn’t happen twice.But then things get really interesting… In the second half of the episode, the couple is put in hypothetical situations where they have to win each other back after a major fallout. From heartfelt apologies to over-the-top romantic gestures, they challenge each other to come up with the grandest gesture that could make things right again. Would it be a private moment of sincere connection or a public declaration of love and regret?This episode is all about making amends and rebuilding trust. No relationship is perfect—but how you recover from mistakes can make or break your future together.We want to hear from you! If you were wronged by your partner, what would mean more to you: a private heartfelt apology or a grand public gesture? Answer in the poll and tell us why in the comments!As always, follow us on Instagram @firstcomeslovetcm and don’t forget to like, subscribe, share, and join the conversation. We love building this community with you!

Not every relationship is meant to last forever—but how do you know when it’s time to let go? In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron have an honest conversation with their future children about recognizing when a relationship—romantic, platonic, or even professional—has run its course.

They break down the signs that it’s time to walk away, the emotions that come with letting go, and the best ways to handle being on the other side—when you are the one who gets let go. Whether it’s a breakup, a friendship drifting apart, or outgrowing a situation, they discuss the importance of closure, healing, and moving forward with confidence.

If you've ever struggled with knowing when to hold on or when to walk away, this episode is for you. Share your thoughts in the comments—What’s the hardest part about letting go? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and join the conversation!

Friendship isn’t just about who you grew up with—it’s about who grows with you. In this episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their heartfelt series of letters to their children, reflecting on friendship in adulthood.

As they look back on a recent birthday party, they ask an important question: How do you make and maintain friendships as an adult, especially when you have kids? They dive into what makes a good friend, the qualities to look for, and how friendships shift over time. From balancing family, work, and personal life to finding new connections in unexpected places, this conversation is one that every adult can relate to.

Later in the episode, they explore a parent's role in guiding their children’s friendships. How much influence should a parent have? And what lessons can we pass down about building meaningful relationships?

Join the conversation and take our poll: How many real friends does an adult need? Five or more, or less than five?Comment below and let’s talk about it!

In this thought-provoking episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their conversation with their three children in the future, giving them the wisdom they wish they had when they were younger. This week, they tackle a deeply personal and often debated question—knowing what you know now, would you still wait until marriage to have sex?

With honesty and reflection, they discuss the expectations, pressures, and real-life experiences that shaped their perspective on waiting for marriage. Is it always the best choice? Would they do things differently if given the chance? And what advice do they have for their kids when it comes to love, intimacy, and making big decisions?

Plus, this episode comes with a special guest—Baby Liv! Recorded with their 1-year-old in attendance, expect some adorable baby sounds and commentary along the way.

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In this heartfelt episode of First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage, Lindsey and Aaron continue their conversation with their three children in the future, offering wisdom for when they reach adulthood. With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, they dive into one of the biggest relationship questions—when did you know it was real love?

Was it a single moment, a feeling that grew over time, or something unexpected? Lindsey and Aaron share their personal experiences of realizing they had found the one and reflect on what true love really means beyond just romance. They explore the difference between infatuation and lasting love, how to recognize a relationship worth investing in, and what advice they’d give their future children when it comes to matters of the heart.

Join the conversation and share your own “aha” moment in the comments. When did you know it was real love? Like, subscribe, and let’s talk about it!