Life is filled with difficulties. If you’ve been living on this earth long enough and you’re a man then you know that challenges are everywhere. As men we experience difficulty in our jobs, our relationships, our finances, and the list goes on and on. But God who is rich in love and mercy has given us a framework for dealing with the challenges that life brings.

We believe that men are responsible for the people and the situations that God brings into our lives. And that by moving towards people and situations and depending on God… we win in all areas

The men at grace podcast is a resource for you who desire to pursue Authentic Manhood. In each episode

you'll hear from men who have faced challenges in their work, struggles in their marriage, trouble navigating midlife, questions about authority, and other relatable life issues.

Listeners will hear how God’s Word and the church shaped the decision-making of each of these men and allowed them to live victoriously as Christ intended.

I invite you to listen, subscribe, and share these episodes and episode resources with other men so that you can dialogue around what it looks like to be an authentic man.

You can learn more by visiting (https://gracechurchsc.org/MRT). See you on the next episode!

In this episode, Chris Rivers speaks with Kelly Hunt about the changing roles of parenthood and how to effectively engage teenagers and young adults. Using the analogy of a coach, Kelly encourages listeners to guide their adult children from the “sidelines” while allowing them to feel the weight of responsibility and build confidence.

APPLICATION:

1. Read Luke 15:11-24. Looking at this passage from the perspective of the father, what is one thing you notice or can apply to your role as a parent?
2. Are you currently operating as an authoritative parent or functioning more as a coach? Based on the stage of life your child is currently in, what shifts might you need to make?
3. Think about a coach who has been influential in your life. What parallels can you make between their role and the role you have as a parent?
4. How are you serving as an anchor in your children’s lives? What is one action step you can take to move towards your children and be available to them?

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

In this episode, Chris Rivers speaks with Matt Rogers, Lead Pastor of Christ Fellowship Cherrydale (https://www.cfcherrydale.com/staff), about the importance of reading the Bible and applying it to our daily lives. Utilizing a resource Matt developed called the Seven Arrows, listeners will learn how to observe, interpret, and apply what they are reading in the Scriptures through the use of seven strategic questions. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. Do you have a consistent pattern of reading God’s Word? What disciplines do you have in place to maintain a daily rhythm?
2. Do you feel equipped to study the Scriptures and apply them to your life? What challenges do you face when trying to study/understand the Bible?
3. How could you incorporate the Seven Arrows into your current reading/study plan? In what ways do you feel it would benefit or stretch you?
4. Of the seven questions, which question do you think would be most challenging to answer and why?

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Scofield Foster, explore sexual brokenness and how it can impact our ability to care for the people God has placed in our lives and push us towards independence from God. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. How would you articulate your sexual story? When did sexual sin start for you? What has your pattern of sexual sin looked like?
2. Where have you seen evidence of sexual brokenness leading to spiritual powerlessness? Where has it impacted your ability to be a source of love and strength to others?
3. What would it look like to develop momentum towards freedom from sexual sin? How can you proactively fight for freedom in this area of your life?
4. Scofield shared the question he was asked by his pastor: Do you want to be a good, remorseful guy who continues to live under this pattern or do you want to be a part of the things God has for you? Looking at your own life, how would you answer this question?

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Player Chappell, explore five pieces of advice every man needs. Adapted from a student ministry teaching Player shared with graduating seniors, these insights are applicable to men in all stages of life and offer practical takeaways for pursuing Christ and growing as believers. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. In what areas of your life are you relying on your own thinking rather than allowing the Lord to guide you?
2. Do you have people in your life who hold you accountable? Is it difficult for you to adopt a posture of humility and learn from others? Why or why not?
3. What influences in your life are grabbing your heart and your attention? What disciplines do you need to put in place to ensure these influences line up with God’s Word?
4. Are you serving in the local church? What have you learned through your experiences of serving and sacrifice? Where do you need to take a step of obedience in the area of serving?

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Matt Gaymon, take a deeper look at the question, “how should men think about participation in the local church?” Highlighting content from Episode 19 of the Men at Grace podcast (Spotify, iTunes, Google Podcasts), they explore how allowing Scripture to define and direct us, looking for opportunities to move into what God is doing, and surrounding ourselves with godly men are just a few of the ways the local church can help us grow in our relationship with Christ. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. Take some time to listen to Episode #19 of the Men at Grace podcast.  What are some insights that stood out to you?
2. In what ways do you allow Scripture to define and direct your life? How often do you spend time reading the Scriptures and routinely coming under the teaching of God’s Word?
3. Can you think of a time when you saw a need in the church, possibly out of your comfort zone or area of giftedness, and moved into it? How did God direct you after you chose to take that first step?
4. Do you have godly men who routinely pour into you and cast vision for your life? How are you looking for opportunities to be that voice in someone else’s life?

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES
One of the things I always pray for is the opportunity, God willing, to come at last to see you. For I long to visit you so I can bring you some spiritual gift that will help you grow strong in the Lord. When we get together, I want to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours. Romans 1:10-12

RESOURCES:
Books: Church Membership: How the World Knows Who Represents Jesus by Jonathan Leeaman - LINK
Teaching: Why is Local Church Important? With Matt Williams LINK
Story: Bending to the Authority of the Local Church VIDEO

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Scott Puckett, discuss why and how men should be prayerfully dependent. They explore the posture that makes prayer possible, the purpose of this most intimate spiritual discipline, and the daily practice that can help us stay connected to Christ and empowered to do the Father’s will. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION:

1. Christ modeled prayerful dependence and encouraged us to approach God as “Father.” How does this view of God differ or align with your own, and why?
2. What motivations often underlie your prayers and what posture do you take?
3. What is your current practice of prayer and what barriers may be keeping you from becoming prayerfully dependent?
4. What steps do you need to take to develop prayerful dependence? How will you move and to whom will you be accountable?

RESOURCES:

Books:

• A Praying Life: Paul Miller
• Prayer: Experiencing Awe and Intimacy with God
• The Valley of Vision: A Collection of Puritan

Teaching: Grace Church Core Value Prayerfully Dependent 

Story: Dave & Sue Hooker, Fasting and Prayer Brings Needed Renewal

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.

In this episode, Chris Rivers and Brad Walbridge, along with Blake Payne, tackle the question, “how should men think about participation in the local church?” They explore the role of the local church in building community, grounding us biblically, teaching us to come under authority, and maturing us as believers. Share, listen, and then discuss the application, key ideas, and Scripture references in a one-on-one conversation or with a group of men by visiting: https://resources.gracechurchsc.org/podcasts/men-at-grace

APPLICATION

1. Do you believe the church is God’s primary design for spiritual growth? Why or why not? In what ways has the local church impacted you personally?
2. Are you aware of your need for God and the church or have you become self-reliant and distracted? In what ways are you regularly pouring yourself out and creating a void?
3. Do you spend consistent time in Scripture? How have you seen this practice serve as a means for “transforming your mind?”
4. What does it look like to come under authority in the local church and in your relationship with God? Are you resistant to this type of authority in your life?

SCRIPTURE REFERENCES

Though he was God, he did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. Instead, he gave up his divine privileges; he took the humble position as a slave and was born as a human being. When he appeared in human form, he humbled himself in obedience to God and died a criminal’s death on a cross. Phillipians 2:6-8

But you must remain faithful to the things you have been taught. You know they are true, for you know you can trust those who taught you. You have been taught the holy Scriptures from childhood, and they have given you wisdom to receive the salvation that comes by trusting in Christ Jesus. All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right. God uses it to prepare and equip his people to do every good work. 2 Timothy 3:14-17

RESOURCES

Church Membership: How the World Knows Who Represents Jesus by Jonathan Leeaman

If you know a man who would benefit from hearing this episode, share it with him. Having intentional conversations around these principles is a great way to disciple and help others move towards Christ.

Have questions or want us to discuss a topic? Email us at: menatgrace@gracechurchsc.org.