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How 2020 Forever Changed Dating with Dating Coach Kat Harris
- 2022/02/08
- 再生時間： 38 分
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Anyone else forget how to flirt in the pandemic? February is the month of love and we dig below the surface with Dating Coach, Author (“Sexless in the City”) and podcaster Kat Harris (“The Refined Woman”). Kat is all about real talk and straight wisdom about singleness, sex and desire. We talk about life, love, online dating, heartache and how being single in today’s dating culture as a woman of faith can be a real STRUGGLEFEST. Kat shares, “Valentines Day is coming and that can be very triggering. Some people think it’s a marketing scam or Singles Awareness Day, but I’ve always loved Valentine’s Day. I don’t think the timing has ever worked out that I’ve had a boyfriend on Valentine’s Day, but I love love! Sure, I want to be in a relationship right now, but so much of life is about how we choose to show up. What better day to look at what’s possible? Instead of saying as a single person, ‘I’m 36, another Valentine’s Day bites the dust, another year my ovaries are in overdrive,' I can choose to look at all of the love all around me and believe if God can do that for them, He can do that for me." On March 29, 2020, just after the world began to lockdown the popular dating app Tinder broke its record for the most activity in a single day, with more than 3 billion swipes. Online dating is on the rise and Kat talks about her 3 Month Online Dating Challenge, her go-to dating apps and her best advice to be successful with online dating. Kat also shares about her recent break up with complete transparency and vulnerability, and how going through the heartache that her clients experience ultimately made her a better dating coach. Kat reveals, “My biggest breakthrough was realizing that I was honest in my relationship, but I wasn't vulnerable. There’s a big difference. My only regret was that I didn’t love more fully. This break up cracked my heart open. I’m lonely right now. Sometimes I need other people to believe for me. But like scripture says, hope doesn’t put me to shame. Love is always worth the risk.