Parenting in the 21st century is like juggling flaming swords on a unicycle—challenging enough, but now toss in cultural bias, generational guilt, and the legendary *“What will people say?”* Sprinkle in some *“back in my day”* nostalgia, and you’ve got a recipe for chaos with a side of guilt trips.

This episode dives headfirst into the messy, spicy, and often hilarious clash between tradition and progress. Is tough love *really* love? Are we raising kids or mini versions of our parents' expectations? Maryam Javaid isn’t holding back, and her insights might just have you rethinking your childhood—or calling your mom to say, “Fine, you were right.”

**This episode is proudly brought to you by Hands That Care, an international charity transforming lives, one hand, one heart, and one community at a time. Together, we’re rewriting the story of hope.**

Maryam Javaid is a homeschooling mother of three, a certified Muslim parenting coach, and a history expert on a mission to help Black and Brown communities break oppressive cycles and embrace healthier parenting practices.

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"Time to talk about *halal intimacy*... yes, we're going there! 😳✨ On this episode of Mindscaped Podcast, we’re cracking open the 'unspoken truths' treasure chest and answering the questions you’re too shy to ask Auntie about. Ever wonder what Quran and Sunnah have to say about keeping things blessed but, you know... *not boring*? 🧕💍💫 Join us for myth-busting, humor, and a fresh look at what it really takes to build a connected, spiritually rich partnership! Tune in for the laughs, stay for the knowledge. Let's get *halal-iday vibes* going! Habeeb AkandeA British-Nigerian writer, sex expert, and historian. He is the author of seven published books on race and sex in African and Muslim cultures. He featured in the BBC documentary, He is a chartered accountant by profession and former student of Islamic law at al-Azhar University in Egypt. #mindscapedpodcast

Ready to dive into the deep end?

On the Down The Rabbit Hole series of the Mindscaped Podcast, we’re tackling everything from EFF's downfall? To figuring out what really makes someone South African—hint: it might not be what you think!

We’re also untangling the messy web of fake news and UK riots, and getting into the nitty-gritty of sex, marriage, and intimacy in Islam.

Buckle up for a rollercoaster of laughs, insights, and head-scratching moments. Tune in and let’s go down that rabbit hole.