Hey friends! Are you a nice person, or are you kind? In today’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch, we explore the important difference between the two and how learning to set boundaries can turn people-pleasing into personal power.

Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, as we talk honestly about why boundaries aren’t selfish or mean. They help regulate our nervous system and create a sense of safety, both for us and for others. When boundaries are unclear or missing, relationships often feel less secure rather than more loving.

The paradox is this: not holding boundaries doesn’t make relationships better; it actually makes them harder. Your worth doesn’t come from being needed. It comes from being whole.

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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.

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#EmotionalSafety #NervousSystemRegulation #HealthyRelationships

Are you a parent whose child has shared that they are gay, lesbian, or trans? In today’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch, we talk about what it can feel like when a child comes out as LGBTQ and the things that can help or harm your relationship during this moment.

Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, as I share both clinical insight and my own personal experience as a mom to a trans son. We’ll walk through what LGBTQ means, explore the core elements of the Gender Unicorn, and talk about why moving away from rigid binaries matters. I’ll also share my own Gender Unicorn as part of the conversation.

Most importantly, this episode centers on safety. Our children need to know they are safe with us and that they can tell us their truth. Listening without judgment, allowing space for self-reflection, and validating their experience can make all the difference, for them and for us.

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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.

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Why does reassurance never seem to last when you have an anxious attachment style?

Hey friends! Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, your psychologist and mindfulness coach. In today’s episode, we explore what happens in the brain when attachment wounds get triggered and why reassurance can feel helpful in the moment but fade so quickly.

Anxious attachment is not a character flaw. It’s the brain’s attempt to stay safe and connected. We’ll unpack how reassurance-seeking can turn into a cycle of negative reinforcement, and I’ll share five bottom-up strategies you can use to calm your nervous system and create more lasting regulation.

Healing isn’t about needing less reassurance from others. It’s about learning how to build your own internal sense of safety and stability.

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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.

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#AnxiousAttachment #AttachmentHealing #NervousSystemRegulation

Hey friends! What evidence-based skills can help us change how we relate to ourselves when we’re hurting, struggling, or not at our best? In this episode, we’re diving into self-compassion, what the research actually says about it, and why it’s such a powerful foundation for mental health.

Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, as we walk through the 4 A’s you can start practicing today to strengthen your self-compassion muscle. We’ll also explore why self-compassion can feel so difficult, especially for caregivers, and how it’s different from self-confidence and self-esteem.

This isn’t about lowering your standards or letting yourself off the hook. It’s about replacing your inner critic with a wiser, kinder inner leader. Self-compassion supports healing, growth, and healthier relationships, and it begins right where you are.

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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.

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#SelfCompassion #EvidenceBasedTherapy #EmotionalHealing

What is — and isn’t — burnout according to research?

In today’s episode, we explore the clinical definition of burnout, why healthcare professionals are especially vulnerable to it, and the three dimensions of burnout as defined by Dr. Maslach.

Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, as we break down how to differentiate burnout from clinical depression, why chronic workplace stress slowly erodes well-being, and the key factors that increase the risk of burnout — along with what you can actually do about it.

Because burnout isn’t a personal failure. It’s a predictable response to prolonged stress, and understanding it clearly is the first step toward meaningful change.

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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.

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#BurnoutAwareness #HealthcareBurnout #WorkplaceStress

Hey friends! In this episode, we’re diving into the emotion of fear and why it shows up as a response to danger.

Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, as we explore why emotions are essential to the human experience, how we should put up boundaries as clinicians, and what happens in the body physiologically when fear is activated. We’ll also talk about the truth about panic attacks, why they happen, and how they can become agoraphobic when they go unsupported.

Fear isn’t always a bad thing. It’s one of the ways our body protects us and helps us survive. The key is becoming aware of what’s driving the fear and developing the self-awareness to understand whether it’s responding to real danger or something else.

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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.

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#UnderstandingFear #EmotionalAwareness #MindBodyConnection

Are you a therapist, coach, or teacher? This episode is for you. Today, we’re talking about regulating our own emotions, noticing our level of burnout, and staying steady and compassionate as we support emotionally intense or dysregulated clients.

Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, your clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach, as we explore why tending to our own emotional needs matters, what drives emotional intensity and behavioral reactions, and how those responses unfold when someone is overwhelmed.

And before you dive in, take a moment to honor yourself. Your work is hard and deeply human, and you show up anyway. Remember, their intensity isn’t personal — it’s a sign of how much they’re carrying.

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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.

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#TherapistLife #MindfulnessCoach #EmotionalRegulation

What are the ways you’re tending to your attachment wounds? Today, we continue our series on attachment styles by exploring how healing is possible and how we can move toward a more secure attachment.

Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, as we walk through five strategies you can begin practicing daily: attunement, nervous system soothing, imagery, co-regulation, and validation. Small, repeated steps that gently rewire us toward safety.

Because anxious attachment lives in the nervous system, and creating change takes time, patience, and compassionate work.

Listen to this episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: Healing Anxious Attachment: 5 Steps to Build a Secure Attachment Style

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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.

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#SecureAttachment #AnxiousAttachment #HealingAttachmentWounds