In this empowering episode of Insights from the Couch, we continue our deep dive into women’s sexuality with the incredible Dr. Laurie Watson. Together, we tackle the complexities of sexual desire, intimacy, and pleasure as women navigate through midlife and beyond. Dr. Laurie shares her wisdom on how to maintain a vibrant sex life despite the challenges of menopause, societal pressures, and the inevitable changes in our bodies. Whether you’re in the midst of these changes or simply curious about what lies ahead, this conversation is packed with actionable insights that will leave you feeling inspired and more connected to your own erotic self.

Episode Highlights:
[00:18] - How virgins can ensure a positive first experience.
[01:17] - Reflecting on the challenges of staying embodied during intimacy.
[02:41] - Laurie explains why clitoral stimulation is key to most women’s orgasms.
[04:59] - Addressing the impact of menopause on sexual desire.
[11:22] - Colette questions whether men really crave variety.
[15:07] - Laurie debunks myths about menopause and sexuality.
[19:34] - The importance of developing an “erotic core” and how it can transform your sexual experience at any age.
[22:16] - Laurie shares how post-menopause sex can be the best of your life and invites listeners to her upcoming women’s retreat.

Resources:
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Hey everyone! In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most layered and intriguing topics: women’s sexuality at midlife. We’re joined by the incredible Dr. Lori Watson, a renowned sexologist and couples therapist, who brings her extensive expertise to help us unpack the complexities of sex and desire as we age. From dealing with low libido and the pressures of long-term relationships to navigating the challenges of erectile dysfunction and emotional disconnection, we explore it all. Whether you're grappling with the changes that come with midlife or looking to keep the spark alive in your relationship, this episode is packed with insights that you won’t want to miss!

Episode Highlights:
[01:24] - Colette and Laura introduce Dr. Watson and set the stage for a deep dive into midlife sexuality.
[03:02] - Exploring the common struggles of low desire in long-term relationships and the impact on self-esteem.
[05:46] - Discussion on the expectations and realities of sex frequency in marriage, touching on the societal norms and pressures.
[10:00] - Addressing the emotional and physical factors that affect sexual desire, including stress, body image, and the bristle effect.
[17:33] - Dr. Watson discusses what’s “normal” for sex in long-term marriages and how to maintain an erotic connection over the years.
[20:58] - Insight into how couples can tackle the issue of a partner losing sexual interest and the underlying causes like health issues and emotional withdrawal.
[36:43] - Understanding the life force of sexuality and how to reconnect with your own sensuality and desire for a fulfilling sex life.

Resources:

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In this heartfelt episode of Insights from the Couch, we’re diving into a topic that hits home for so many of us—coping with the empty nest. We get real about the grief, the unexpected feelings, and how to move from sadness to embracing this new chapter in life.

Join us as we share our own experiences of adjusting to an empty nest, the challenges that come with it, and the surprising positives that can emerge from this life phase. If you’re feeling lost, uncertain, or just a bit overwhelmed by the quiet, this episode is for you. Let’s navigate this journey together and find ways to make this time not just manageable, but truly fulfilling.

Episode Highlights:
[1:45] - Colette shares her summer of truly empty nesting, with both daughters away.
[3:21] - The three stages of the empty nest: Grief, Relief, and Joy.
[5:39] - The isolation of the empty nest and finding ways to fill the newfound free time.
[11:47] - Moving from grief to joy: Embracing the new reality.
[14:44] - The importance of allowing space for sadness.
[19:45] - The impact of enmeshment and control.
[27:36] - The freedom and personal development opportunities.
[30:55] - How to navigate the empty nest with grace.

Resources:

For more on this topic visit our website insightsfromthecouch.org If you have questions please email us at info@insightsfromthecouch.org we would love to hear from you!

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