What happens when men drop the tough-guy act and actually show up for each other? In this eye-opening conversation with guest Ben, we dive deep into what authentic male friendship looks like beyond surface-level church groups.

Ben shares the moving origin story of his unusual men's group, which began in 2008 when he committed to weekly meetings with a friend whose wife had died by suicide. Dominoes and baseball games evolved into a brotherhood of five men who've carried each other through cancer diagnoses, deaths of spouses, raising children with special needs, and career struggles. Unlike typical men's ministry breakfasts, these guys embody what Scripture means by "a cord of three strands is not quickly broken" - becoming what Ben calls "the guys who would dig through the roof" to get their friend to Jesus.

Whether you're struggling to find meaningful male friendships, wondering how to support the men in your life, or simply curious about how faith communities can better serve men's emotional needs, this episode offers practical wisdom and heartfelt encouragement. As Ben powerfully asks: Who's going to dig through the roof for you when life falls apart?

Celebrating Women's History Month by honoring the remarkable women who've shaped both world history and our personal journeys. From Susan B. Anthony securing our right to vote to Rosa Parks standing firm for justice in 1955 to Amelia Earhart breaking aviation barriers in 1932, these historical trailblazers remind us of the relatively recent struggles women faced for basic rights and opportunities.

But perhaps more powerful than these renowned figures are the personal heroines who've shaped our individual stories. We share touching stories about women like "Miss Shirley," who despite tremendous hardship radiates joy and embodies the phrase "I don't look like what I've been through," and "Lisa," who became a crucial mentor during those difficult adolescent years when parental guidance was automatically rejected. These women—alongside the grandmothers who prayed for us, the mothers who supported us, and the friends who spoke truth to us—have formed the backbone of our faith journeys and personal development.

The devastating power of negative words can't be overstated, especially for young women navigating their identities. Childhood comments can leave wounds we carry for decades, which is precisely why strong female mentors who speak life and truth become so crucial. They help counter the destructive messages that bombard us daily. We explore how women can better support one another, particularly in divisive areas like politics, where women who've fought twice as hard to earn their positions sometimes resort to tearing each other down rather than modeling respectful disagreement.

Ecclesiastes reminds us that "Two are better than one; if either falls, one can help the other up." This Women's History Month, let's celebrate by intentionally supporting the women in our lives, creating space for meaningful connection, and speaking words that build up rather than tear down. Your encouragement might be someone's turning point.

Could your closet be the key to understanding your deeper emotional ties? Join Jess and Steph as we humorously unpack the sentimental attachments that make parting with personal belongings so challenging. From cherished band memorabilia to well-worn book collections, our conversation turns clutter into a canvas for storytelling and self-reflection. We'll share creative solutions like turning old t-shirts into quilts, offering a heartfelt way to preserve memories. Together, we confront the struggle of letting go and explore why our identities often get tangled in the fabric of our possessions.

What does the Bible say about balancing life's indulgences with spiritual priorities? As we shift our perspective toward materialism, we discuss the impact of our upbringing and financial circumstances on our attitudes toward accumulating stuff. Through candid stories, we reflect on the joys of a splurge-worthy dinner, all while pondering the difference between wants and needs. By challenging the notion of hoarding and trusting in God's provisions, we aim to inspire a mindset that prioritizes what truly matters. Join our heartfelt conversation, and discover the freedom that comes with focusing on eternal values over material goods.

What happens when love and faith intersect in a world that's often divided? Join us as we explore this profound intersection, sharing stories and insights that challenge the status quo. Through heartfelt discussions, we express our concerns about the growing negativity on social media and the struggle to maintain kindness and respect, even among believers. February, a month often associated with love, serves as a poignant reminder of the gap between our ideals and reality. We tackle how disagreements shouldn't equate to unkindness and how embodying the love of Jesus can create a more compassionate community around us.

Our journey doesn't stop there. We navigate the complex terrain of political differences, demonstrating that unity is possible without uniformity. Hear how a courageous couple from our church sustains their marriage amid opposing political views by grounding their relationship in shared faith and mutual respect. Our reflections extend beyond personal relationships to the broader human experience, where shared challenges and aspirations unite us. We express our hope for a more connected world, fueled by laughter and friendship, and invite you to join us in nurturing understanding and unity across generations.

Join us for a heartfelt and humorous episode of the Jesus Fix It podcast as we explore the insightful world of love languages. Jess and Steph share personal stories and insights into how understanding the five love languages can transform relationships and bring deeper meaning to self-love. From words of affirmation to acts of service, they delve into the power of small gestures and the importance of respecting each other's boundaries. They also take a closer look at the role of physical touch and quality time in expressing love, highlighting the challenges and rewards that come with these love languages.

Jess and Steph then broaden the perspective to consider love from a divine standpoint. They explore the unconditional and ever-present love of God, reassuring listeners that regardless of the month or personal circumstances, they are worthy of this steadfast love. With light-hearted examples, like the love languages of coffee and tacos, they highlight the multifaceted nature of love and how it can be expressed in delightful and unexpected ways. The episode concludes with a reflective and relatable discussion on personal growth and self-awareness, reminding listeners of the importance of adjusting attitudes with a little divine help.

Is it wrong to crave the allure of luxury, or can you satisfy your style desires without splurging your savings? On today's Jesus Fix It podcast, we dig deep into the heart of "dupe culture" and how it’s reshaping fashion and lifestyle choices. Remember when toting a Guess or Coach bag was the ultimate status flex? We share a nostalgic laugh over those days while exploring how today's savvy shoppers are replacing high-priced luxuries with budget-friendly alternatives. From "firkins" (the faux Birkin bag) to bargain beauty buys, we're spilling the tea on how to maintain a chic look without emptying your wallet. Join us as we share personal style confessions and strike a balance between loving luxury and being financially savvy.

Embracing a thoughtful approach to spending, we explore the intersection of faith, finances, and the natural desire for nice things. We question society's obsession with material wealth and consider how to respect both fashion and fiscal responsibility. Tithing, avoiding debt, and understanding the real value of possessions are part of our discussion, as we reflect on how our relationship with money and material goods evolves over time. With social media fueling consumer cravings, "dupe culture" emerges as a hero, offering affordable paths to high-end aesthetics. So grab your coffee and get ready for a candid chat filled with laughter, life lessons, and a fresh perspective on living bougie on a budget.

Join us for an engaging and heartfelt episode as we celebrate new beginnings and welcome Steph as a permanent co-host of the Jesus Fix It podcast! As we embrace the fresh start of a new year, we discuss our aspirations for 2025, focusing on personal goals and the universal longing for peace and harmony. We express our heartfelt gratitude to our listeners for their unwavering support through the podcast's changes and invite everyone to join us on this journey of faith, laughter, and genuine conversations.

Listen in as we explore the themes of personal growth and reflection, emphasizing the importance of setting authentic intentions for the new year. We share personal experiences of choosing guiding words like "peace" and "abundance" and discuss the influence of biblical teachings on self-improvement. Our conversation shifts to the power of prayer and divine timing, sharing a moving story about receiving a long-awaited answer to a prayer after 31 years. We encourage our listeners to remain steadfast in their faith, knowing that even in times of waiting, God is listening and working behind the scenes. This episode is a source of inspiration and encouragement, urging us all to embrace personal accountability and spiritual growth while trusting in God's perfect timing.

Growing up, the magic of waking up to a blanket of fresh snow was unbeatable, but the struggle of shoveling and navigating icy roads was a stark reality check. In this episode of the Jesus Fix It Podcast, we reflect on those mixed feelings about winter's wonderland. We embrace the enchantment of snow days, where warm drinks and beloved holiday movies provide the perfect cozy escape, while also acknowledging the practical challenges the season brings. The episode is filled with personal stories that reveal the delicate dance between cherishing the beauty of a snowy Christmas and the longing for clear roads when the festivities come to an end.

As we journey through the nostalgia of Christmas movie traditions and family meals, listeners are invited to share in our love for timeless classics like "Home Alone" and hidden treasures like "Emmett Otter's Jug Band Christmas." Alongside these cinematic gems, we share heartwarming family traditions ranging from traditional feasts to uniquely personal celebrations. Our conversation takes a meaningful turn as we discuss the importance of embracing hope in every season, drawing strength from faith amidst life's ups and downs. With deeply personal reflections, we offer a prayer for resilience and hope, inviting listeners to find their own strength in the face of life's challenges.