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In this episode, I give some reflections on this Subscriber's Question: "Would you talk about if it makes sense to try to become a therapist if one is not healed herself, Is 'I can do this as a therapist because this helps me as a patient' realistic or delusional? Thanks!"

I talk about the complexities of being a therapist, focusing on the psychological state required to effectively support clients, revolving around the idea of whether therapists need to be fully healed themselves to offer meaningful therapy and how our personal development plays a crucial role in the therapeutic process.

Some areas I cover include:

1. The Therapist's Self as a Tool:

- The importance of the therapist's personal development and self-awareness in creating a therapeutic relationship.
- How the therapist's own journey and emotional regulation can influence the therapy process

2. Healing and Emotional Well-being:

- Exploration of what it means to be "healed" and how therapists can manage their own emotional challenges while supporting clients.
- The concept of healing as an ongoing process rather than a permanent state

3. Therapist's Emotional Regulation:

- The role of emotional regulation in therapy and how therapists can maintain a balanced emotional state to effectively support clients.
- Discussion on the unrealistic expectations placed on therapists to be emotionally perfect

4. Realistic vs. Delusional Expectations:

- Addressing the question of whether it is realistic for therapists to believe that helping others can also aid in their own healing.
- Insights into the mutual benefits of therapeutic relationships for both therapists and clients

5. Challenges and Responsibilities:

- The challenges therapists face in managing their own emotional triggers and the responsibility to provide a safe and supportive environment for clients.
- The importance of self-reflection and choosing the 'right' clients to work with

As ever, please do share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section!

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***Note: all therapy/counselling courses are different and it would be great to hear how yours is similar/different to Harry’s. Please do therefore feel free to comment on this below and on anything raised in the conversation generally***

Harry Japp is a trainee psychotherapist at CCPE in London, and YouTuber at https://youtube.com/@UC2H_W34ylBp3nPvv6orhG8w where he shares insights from his training journey.

In this episode, Harry and I discuss his experiences and insights gained from his foundation course psychotherapy training, including the potential costs of training. Key Points include:

- how the course includes lectures, experiential work, and personal therapy with an explanation and exploration of all these various elements,

- the financial aspects of training, including tuition and additional costs for personal therapy and resources. The need to be aware of potential 'hidden costs' other than just the course fees, with details of these potential costs,

- Harry shares some experiential exercises to give an idea of what to expect of this aspect of the course, including creating masks to symbolise persona and true self, highlighting the emotional differences when interacting as each,

- an explanation of the 'triad' work involving the roles of therapist, client, and observer that's a part of therapy training courses,

- great advice for anyone looking to begin a therapy course,

- Harry's personal experience of both the benefits and the challenges of undertaking a course such as this.

Overall, the episode provides really valuable insights into what to expect from therapy training and the journey of self-discovery within the context of the training.

Thank you for listening. If you do enjoy it, please feel free to SHARE it, don't forget to 'FOLLOW' to show your support, it would be much appreciated!

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Maria Parker - https://youtu.be/ajWo-N_PSRU
Lee Rasberry - https://youtu.be/04j8fVhTVTw
Richard Campbell - https://youtu.be/FuBe9lghF9w
Robert Cuming - https://youtu.be/KYaD6-ARSnA
Michael Toller - https://youtu.be/ZxDuaHRnFEY
Bob Heath - https://youtu.be/AjXbtGgTidE
Fahim Ahmed - https://youtu.be/bS05Lt2WfOg

Website at: https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk

***My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change is now available on this channel in a playlist you'll find on the channel homepage. Whether you're looking to move through anxiety, stress, depression, chronic anger, addictive behaviour, co-dependency, narcissism, low self-esteem/confidence, relationship problems, feeling stuck, lost or lacking in purpose – or simply want to experience more happiness, contentment and fulfilment in your life – see this free course and you'll discover it's carefully designed to help you to do this.***

'Life Unlimited' Course testimonials include:

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"The course is packed with valuable content, yet John-Paul's warm, non-judgemental style makes it feel more as if a friend is sharing some wonderful wisdom. 100% recommend."

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This podcast features my conversation with Lindsay Percival, focusing on the integration of spirituality and psychotherapy, along with talking about Lindsay's practice as a medium. Lindsay shares her journey from journalism to therapy, emphasising her spiritual awakening through experiences with healing energy.

Some of the many topics covered include:

- Lindsay discusses the intersection of psychotherapy and mediumship, highlighting how her mediumship work aims to provide comfort to those grieving and to help heal relationships that may have been strained before a loved one's passing. She expresses her belief in the continuity of the soul beyond a physical end.

- Lindsay introduces her program called "Soul Power," which aims to help individuals connect with their authentic selves and personal power. She discusses the importance of understanding one's soul's yearnings and the transformative journey involved.

- We cover various therapeutic techniques used in her practice, including visualisation, creative imagination, and the development of a "Soul Care Plan" to help clients manifest their desires and needs.

- A significant theme is the need for individuals to reconnect with themselves to gain clarity about their lives and desires. Lindsay emphasises the importance of intuition in therapy and the role of the therapist in facilitating this connection.

- The conversation touches on the importance of self-love and the ongoing journey of personal development, encouraging individuals to validate themselves and cultivate healthier relationships.

- Lindsay gives some great advice to therapists in training and also some very valuable general life advice.

Thank you for listening. If you do enjoy it, please feel free to SHARE it, don't forget to 'FOLLOW' to show your support, it would be much appreciated!

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Maria Parker - https://youtu.be/ajWo-N_PSRU
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Philippa Smethurst - https://youtu.be/Bm_0g6hfCCs
Michael Toller - https://youtu.be/ZxDuaHRnFEY
Bob Heath - https://youtu.be/AjXbtGgTidE
Fahim Ahmed - https://youtu.be/bS05Lt2WfOg

My podcast with the audio of this video is at: https//www.buzzsprout.com/2067601

Website at: https://www.thistrustedplace.co.uk

***My FREE personal development course 'Life Unlimited: 10 Steps to Real Change is now available on this channel in a playlist you'll find on the channel homepage. Whether you're looking to move through anxiety, stress, depression, chronic anger, addictive behaviour, co-dependency, narcissism, low self-esteem/confidence, relationship problems, feeling stuck, lost or lacking in purpose – or simply want to experience more happiness, contentment and fulfilment in your life – see this free course and you'll discover it's carefully designed to help you to do this.***

'Life Unlimited' Course testimonials include:

"John-Paul's course Life Unlimited more than lives up to its promise as a practical and accessible guide to making meaningful, positive changes in your life. He takes you on a clear path towards self-awareness and self-acceptance, helping you to set healthy boundaries in your relationships with others." and

"The course is packed with valuable content, yet John-Paul's warm, non-judgemental style makes it feel more as if a friend is sharing some wonderful wisdom. 100% r

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If there’s anything else you’d like to know about John-Paul and how he might be able to help you, please do contact him via his website www.thistrustedplace.co.uk