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  • S2 Ep115: Soul Ties and Seeking Sacred Love: B. Simone on Chastity and Demisexuality

    S2 Ep115: Soul Ties and Seeking Sacred Love: B. Simone on Chastity and Demisexuality
    2025/04/16
    Are you ready to dive deep into the complexities of love, faith, and identity? In this thought-provoking episode, Shan Boodram sits down with B. Simone to discuss the transformative journey of embracing chastity, understanding soul ties, and exploring the nuances of identity and connection.
    While B. Simone does not identify as demisexual, Shan suggests the possibility during their candid conversation, sparking an insightful dialogue about emotional intimacy and sexual attraction. This episode unpacks key topics like:
    ✨ What You’ll Learn:


    • Demisexuality: A sexual orientation where someone experiences sexual attraction only after forming a strong emotional bond.
    • Soul Ties: A deep, often spiritual connection that binds two people, sometimes through shared experiences or intimacy.
    • Chastity: A lifestyle or mindset of aligning one’s sexual behavior and thoughts with personal, moral, or spiritual values, which may or may not involve abstinence.


    Together, Shan and B. Simone explore how devotion to faith, self-love, and personal growth can shape intimate relationships and redefine what it means to truly connect with others.
    Whether you’re curious about demisexuality, seeking clarity on soul ties, or inspired by the intersection of spirituality and sexuality, this episode is packed with insights that will leave you reflecting on your own path to sacred love.
    🎧 Tune in now, and don’t forget to subscribe for more episodes on love, relationships, and self-discovery!


    Thank You B. Simone
    https://www.instagram.com/thebsimone
    Let’s Try This Again: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz67j2koC3urUkQirbvueCA
    https://www.officialbsimone.com/


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    54 分
  • S2 Ep114: What Happens to Old Love When You Have New Intimate Needs? Ft Karamo Brown

    S2 Ep114: What Happens to Old Love When You Have New Intimate Needs? Ft Karamo Brown
    2025/04/09
    Does a change in your intimate needs have to mean a change of heart? In this episode of Lovers Shan Boodram sits down with Karamo Brown, TV personality (Karama and Queer Eye), author, and culture expert, for a raw and revealing conversation about intimacy and growth. Karamo opens up about how his intimate needs evolved through his 20s, 30s, and 40s—both emotionally and in the bedroom. He shares how these changes led to the end of a past relationship, where his partner couldn’t accept his evolving needs without taking it personally.
    Now, in a thriving new relationship, Karamo reveals how he’s learned to bring his partner along as he navigates these changes, fostering a deeper connection and understanding. This episode is packed with wisdom on embracing growth, improving communication, and honoring your needs without guilt.


    Karamo Brown, Lovers and Friends Podcast, Lovers by Shan, Shan Boodram, intimacy in relationships, emotional intimacy, evolving needs in relationships, intimacy advice, relationship communication, breakups and growth, thriving relationships, intimacy in 20s 30s 40s, LGBTQ relationships, personal growth, gay relationship advice, sex and relationships

    Thank You Karamo Brown
    https://www.instagram.com/karamo
    Learn About His TV Show: https://karamoshow.com/
    Get His New Children’s Book: https://zandoprojects.com/books/i-am-okay-to-feel/

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    47 分
  • S2 Ep113: Partnership Over Pride: Khadeen and Devale Ellis on Defying Gender to Save Their Marriage

    S2 Ep113: Partnership Over Pride: Khadeen and Devale Ellis on Defying Gender to Save Their Marriage
    2025/04/02

    Are You Loyal to Your Gender or Your Relationship? Shan Boodram sits down with Khadeen and Devale Ellis, the dynamic married duo known for their raw honesty, humor, and insights on love and relationships. Together, they share how they saved their marriage by breaking free from traditional gender roles and prioritizing their partnership above all else.
    Khadeen and Devale Ellis are actors, content creators, and authors of the best-selling book We Over Me: The Counterintuitive Approach to Getting Everything You Want From Your Relationship. Known for their hit podcast Dead Ass and their viral YouTube channel chronicling their family life, the Ellises have inspired millions with their relatable and unfiltered take on marriage, parenting, and personal growth. In this episode the couple talks about the controversy over Devale’s vasectomy, being called a simp, making a plate for your husband, and putting your career on pause so the family can win.


    Thank You Khadeen and Devale
    https://www.instagram.com/khadeeniam/
    https://www.instagram.com/iamdevale/
    Read or listen to their book: https://www.amazon.com/We-Over-Counterintuitive-Everything-Relationship/dp/0593577604


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    44 分
  • S2 Ep112: They Liked You More When You Had No Boundaries ft Jessie Reyez

    S2 Ep112: They Liked You More When You Had No Boundaries ft Jessie Reyez
    2025/03/26
    Jessie Reyez joins the podcast to celebrate her new album, Paid in Memories and to dive into the complexities of boundaries and self-respect. Together, we unpack what it means to be labeled a "villain" (by both yourself and others) for setting boundaries and standing firm in your self-worth. Jessie shares her personal journey of choosing to stay single rather than settling for less in love, reflecting on the regret of taking too much accountability in her past relationship, and embracing her love language—having her alone time respected.

    We also talk about her upcoming album, Paid in Memories, which promises to be a raw and powerful exploration of love, loss, and acceptance. Don’t miss this candid and inspiring conversation that’s all about choosing yourself, even when it’s hard because self-respect is never up for negotiation.


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     This episode of Lovers and Friends is presented by Bumble, where dating your way is always the right way. There’s a world where you can find love that works for you. So date now, on Bumble.


    Thank You Jessie Reyez
    https://www.instagram.com/jessiereyez/
    Listen to Jessie’s latest music


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    45 分
  • S2 Ep111: For Women Terrified of Being 30+, Single, and Career-Driven featuring @Deepica

    S2 Ep111: For Women Terrified of Being 30+, Single, and Career-Driven featuring @Deepica
    2025/03/19
    In this episode of Lovers and Friends, Shan Boodram sits down with Deepica Mutyala, founder of Live Tinted and a trailblazing entrepreneur, for an honest and empowering conversation about being single, thriving in your 30s, and preparing for the love and family you deserve. Deepica shares her journey of building a successful career while staying true to her dreams of finding the right partner and creating a family. Together, Shan and Deepica discuss the challenges of dating when you’re successful, the importance of not settling, and how to embrace being single as a time to grow, reflect, and prepare for the life you truly want. Whether you’re navigating the dating world, focusing on self-growth, or manifesting your dream relationship, this episode will leave you inspired and ready to take on love and life with intention.

    Thank you Bumble
    This episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.

    Thank you Deepica
    https://www.instagram.com/deepica
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    42 分
  • S2 Ep110: Lena Waithe: Don’t Have Sex With Someone If You Both Can’t Do THIS

    S2 Ep110: Lena Waithe: Don’t Have Sex With Someone If You Both Can’t Do THIS
    2025/03/12

    Lena Waithe on Cuddling Over Climaxing
    In this episode of Lovers and Friends, Shan Boodram sits down with Emmy-winning writer, producer, and actress Lena Waithe (Queen & Slim, Master of None, The Chi) for an eye-opening conversation about intimacy, love, and meaningful connections. Lena shares why you should never have sex with someone unless you can imagine a positive aftermath for both of you. She dives into how cuddling can create a deeper emotional bond than sex, especially when the future of a relationship feels uncertain. Lena also opens up about the power of plutonic relationships, revealing why some of her most impactful connections today are non-romantic. With all of the rumors about her love life, Lena sets the record straight and shares what truly matters to her in building authentic connections. This episode will challenge your views on love, intimacy, and boundaries in ways you won’t want to miss!

    Thank you Bumble
    This episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.

    Thank you Lena
    https://www.instagram.com/lenawaithe/
    Legacy Talk Podcast
    https://lemonada.lnk.to/LegacyTalkWithLenaWaithehs?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaZR0rgZOhMXnR_1HkQjiKfKa5_UUPHcXYlKFCmzjhKgXdje2qDlp8lbhmg_aem_wULmegwSQB8ct8zEmMkQfg

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    52 分
  • S2 Ep109: Inner Child Meets Modern Parent: Tika Sumpter on Doing Sex Ed Different

    S2 Ep109: Inner Child Meets Modern Parent: Tika Sumpter on Doing Sex Ed Different
    2025/03/05
    What kind of relationship with sex do we want young people to have? In this episode myself and Tika Sumpter, known for her multifaceted career as an actor and creator, explore this question as parents and as people reparenting themselves. In this episode Tika shares her compelling personal story that shaped her approach to intimacy and education. Growing up in a Christian household, discussions about sex were often avoided or framed solely around negative consequences. This instilled fear and confusion about her own sexuality during her teenage years. In her twenties, Tika found herself navigating relationships without a clear understanding of her body or pleasure, often pretending to have a sexual IQ she hadn't yet developed. Therapy became a turning point, helping her reconnect with herself and embrace her sexual identity.

    Now, as a mother, Tika is determined to break this cycle for her daughter. On this episode, she opens up about her journey and shares how she is redefining sex and intimacy education in her household. Her goal is to raise her daughter to be a sexually and relationally competent individual, equipped with the tools and knowledge Tika wishes she had earlier in life.

    Tika is best known for her work on screen but did you know she also makes children’s content? She is the creator of The Adventures of Curious Cove, a podcast anchored by the beloved series Ella the Curious. This project reflects her passion for storytelling and education, making complex topics accessible and engaging for young audiences.

    Thank you Bumble
    This episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.

    Thank you Tika
    Preorder Tika's upcoming book!
    https://tinyurl.com/I-Got-It-From-My-Mama-Book
    https://www.instagram.com/tikasumpter
    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/adventures-of-curiosity-cove/id1760587303

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    45 分
  • S2 Ep108: Singer Mario: Mother Wounds, Healing His Feminine, and Apologizing to Women

    S2 Ep108: Singer Mario: Mother Wounds, Healing His Feminine, and Apologizing to Women
    2025/02/26
    In this deeply personal episode presented by Bumble, singer Mario opens up about the profound impact of unresolved trauma stemming from his relationship with his mother. He shares how this pain shaped his early behavior towards women, leading to manipulation and broken connections. Mario takes us on his journey of self-reflection, healing, and ultimately embracing his inner feminine energy—a process that not only reshaped his relationships but also elevated his personal growth and artistry.

    As Mario gets real about accountability, self-love, and the power of healing, he also introduces us to his latest album, "Glad You Came"—a soulful and vulnerable collection of music inspired by his life experiences and growth. Tune in for an honest, thought-provoking conversation that dives into the intersections of trauma, love, and creativity.

    Don't miss this inspiring episode and be sure to check out Mario's new album, "Glad You Came," now streaming on all platforms!

    Thank you Bumble
    This episode of Lovers is presented by Bumble who encourages you to date your way. There is a world where you can date exactly who you want, however you want. So date now, on Bumble.

    Thank you Mario
    Instagram.com/marioworldwide
    Glad You Came, streaming everywhere you listen to music

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    52 分