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  • You're Allowed To Disappear (The New Rules Of Friendship)

    You're Allowed To Disappear (The New Rules Of Friendship)
    2025/10/31

    "If you wouldn't let them through your front door, they're not getting in the community."


    In the final part of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, we completely redefine what friendship means in 2025, and why the old rules are making everyone miserable.


    Elle and Cam break down why feeling obligated to respond to every text, show up to every event, or maintain weekly check-ins is actually preventing real connection. They share why the best friendships operate on spontaneity and flow rather than rigid expectations.


    What we explore:

    • Why "I haven't posted since 2011" people don't understand the attention differential

    • The evolution of friendship from obligation-based to flow-based connection

    • Why real friends can disappear for 6 months and pick up where they left off

    • How we're building a community where healthy attachment is the default

    • The passive-aggressive friendship texts that signal unhealthy attachment ("Did you fall off the Earth?")

    • Why you don't owe anyone your time, energy, or immediate response

    • How redefining "friend" makes room for actual depth and presence


    This isn't about being a bad friend. It's about building friendships that don't drain you, where you show up because you genuinely want to, not because you're obligated to.


    If you've ever felt exhausted by friendship expectations, guilty for not texting back, or suffocated by people who need constant validation... this conversation will set you free.


    Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod.


    This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳


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    ✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations

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    About Your Hosts:

    Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.


    Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.
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    25 分
  • Why Conversations Drain You (And How To Find Your People)

    Why Conversations Drain You (And How To Find Your People)
    2025/10/29
    Have you ever left a conversation feeling completely drained... even though the other person thought it was amazing?Or walked into a room full of people and felt utterly alone?In Part 2 of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, Elle and Cam unpack why that happens, and what we're building to solve it.We dive deep into the energetic differential (why you end up coaching people without realizing it), the consciousness gap (why most relationships feel misaligned), and the philosophy behind The Board: a curated community for people who are tired of settling for surface-level connections.What we explore: • Why the person with more space always ends up giving in conversations • The "full cup" vs "empty cup" dynamic and how it affects all your relationships • Why over-inclusivity has made most communities mediocre (and how ruthless curation creates magic) • The consciousness differential: why conversations always center around the least free person • How we're building The Board for high-consciousness, high-competence people ready to rise together • Why feeling lonely in a crowd is actually a sign you're ready for the next level • The real reason you can't answer DMs (it's not what you think)This is about finding your frequency. Your people. Your home.If you've ever felt like you're walking through a dark hallway waiting to find the light, or if you're tired of being the one who always holds space while no one pours into you... this one's for you.Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Elle Beecher’s social media✨ Cam Hogan’s social media✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.
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  • The Final 5%: When Your Higher Self Becomes the Authority Figure

    The Final 5%: When Your Higher Self Becomes the Authority Figure
    2025/10/24

    In episode 3 of Hot Seat, Akaash explores his lifelong struggle with authority figures, and discovers his higher self has become the latest one he's rebelling against.


    Growing up with a commanding mother who dictated every decision and an absent father who prioritized career over family, Akaash learned early that complying meant survival. He never knew he could choose. Teachers, coaches, even white males in general, he felt himself shrink around anyone he perceived as having power over him. For years, alcohol was the only thing that let him feel "normal" around people.


    Fast forward to today: Akaash has transformed nearly every area of his life. He left toxic relationships, quit his corporate career, moved cities, built a spiritual practice. But there's still one domain where he feels paralyzed, approaching women when his heart tells him to. And in this conversation, the pattern becomes crystal clear.


    His higher self is giving him directions (intuitive hits to talk to someone), and he's treating those nudges like orders from an authority figure he doesn't want to obey. The same rebellion that protected him as a child is now the thing keeping him from his deepest desires. Cam breaks down how the final 5% of reclaiming your power isn't about healing wounds from external authority, it's about trusting yourself enough to follow your own inner knowing without resistance.


    This episode goes deep into compliance vs. choice, masculine devotion, leading with compassion, and why the same wound that made you empathetic might be the thing blocking you from stepping fully into your power.


    Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod.


    This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳


    Connect With Us:

    ✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations

    ✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE

    ✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE

    ✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HERE


    Explore Our World:

    ✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms

    ✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube

    ✨ Elle Beecher’s social media

    ✨ Cam Hogan’s social media

    ✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodes


    About Your Hosts:

    Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.


    Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.
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  • The Creative Block: When Your Nervous System Won't Let You Level Up

    The Creative Block: When Your Nervous System Won't Let You Level Up
    2025/10/22
    What happens when you try to force something that isn't ready yet?In Part 1 of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, Cam "cooks" on Elle about the block that's been keeping her from creating the final piece of our biggest project yet: The Board, a premium community for renaissance people who crave meaningful conversations and everyday magic.Everything is ready. The systems are built. The team is waiting. Dozens of people are signing up. But Elle can't seem to complete the one crucial piece that only she can create. And despite knowing logically that this will make her life easier, something in her body won't let her move forward.This isn't about procrastination. It's about what happens when your nervous system perceives the next level as a threat, even when your mind knows it's aligned.What we explore: • Why emotional readiness matters more than logical deadlines • The baby/pregnancy metaphor for creative projects (you can't force labor) • How past experiences of being "at capacity" create invisible blocks • Why "it's all downhill from here" is the best possible thing (momentum, not decline) • The difference between force and flow in creation • How the energy you create from gets imprinted into what you buildCam breaks down why Elle's been hesitant despite this being everything she's ever wanted, and what it means to build a business from pure alignment instead of deadlines and pressure.If you've ever felt stuck waiting for the "right time" or struggled to force yourself to do something you know is aligned, this conversation will give you permission to trust your own timing.Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Elle Beecher’s social media✨ Cam Hogan’s social media✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 - Introduction & Setup0:53 - The Download: "It's All Downhill From Here"10:37 - The Board: What We're Building27:52 - Cam's Surrender & Waiting28:31 - Elle Asks: What Has This Taught You?36:47 - Balancing Creative & Logical41:59 - The Pregnancy Metaphor57:23 - What Cam's Most Excited About
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    59 分
  • What’s Really Behind My Fear of Approaching Women

    What’s Really Behind My Fear of Approaching Women
    2025/10/17

    In episode 2 of Hot Seat, Akaash gets vulnerable about the one area of his life where he still feels completely stuck: approaching women.


    After years of self-improvement, meditation, and massive life changes, Akaash has transformed everything – except this. He's left toxic relationships, quit his corporate job, moved cities, and found his power in nearly every domain. But when it comes to talking to someone he's attracted to? Total paralysis.


    What makes this conversation different is that Akaash isn't avoiding it out of fear of rejection. He can literally feel his future partner's energy – recognizes shards of her in people he meets. The universe keeps sending him signs. So why can't he move? We explore the gap between logical knowing and emotional readiness, why "just getting reps" isn't always the answer, and how sometimes the resistance isn't about the action itself, it's about what comes after.


    By the end, Akaash walks away with permission to trust what he already knows.


    Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod.


    This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳


    Connect With Us:

    ✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations

    ✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE

    ✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE

    ✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HERE


    Explore Our World:

    ✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms

    ✨ Watch on Youtube

    ✨ Elle Beecher’s social media

    ✨ Cam Hogan’s social media

    ✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodes


    About Your Hosts:

    Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.


    Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.
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  • The Evolution of Our Show: Welcome to Whimsy World

    The Evolution of Our Show: Welcome to Whimsy World
    2025/10/15
    After a year of hosting Listen Before Love, we realized we'd put ourselves in a box. We were only talking about dating and relationships when 70% of our conversations were about everything else: consciousness, community building, business, Human Design, truth-seeking on a wide range of topics, and just being human on this floating rock.That’s why we’re thrilled to share: Listen Before Love is evolving into Whimsy World, a playground for curiosity, deep conversations, and exploring what lights us up.We're breaking all the rules we created for ourselves, consolidating our scattered energy into one giant container, and finally unleashing the 70% that didn’t quite “fit” into Listen Before Love.In this conversation, we dive into: what led to this evolution, the lesson of half-heartedness, and why we're choosing to follow our excitement and record all the REAL conversations we’re having offline.If you've ever felt stuck in a container you created, struggling with too many projects, or wondering when to pivot… this conversation is your permission slip.Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch on Youtube✨ Elle Beecher’s social media✨ Cam Hogan’s social media✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome to Whimsy World: Our New Era Begins1:45 Why We Felt Blocked Talking Only About Relationships4:14 The Pile of Conversations That Didn't Fit the Box7:12 The Lesson of Half-Heartedness and Pivoting8:20 Breaking All the Rules We Created for Ourselves11:50 Elle: The Next Generation's Oprah, Fully Unleashed13:54 Sharing from the Present Moment, Not Past Tense15:54 The Energy Equation: One Mile vs One Inch18:56 16,000 People at the Walks Without Marketing21:13 Following Sparks Within One Giant Container23:18 What Series Are We Most Excited About?27:14 Human Design as a Living Experiment31:36 Creating Tools for Our Younger Selves37:42 Hot Seat: A New Model for Public Coaching42:19 Hot Seat Topics: From Twitter Triggers to Approaching Women44:44 Why Authenticity is Magnetic (The Akaash Wife Theory)50:47 The Quality of People Who Listen to This Show54:32 Cam's Superpower: Radical Honesty Without People-Pleasing1:01:38 It's Gonna Feel Whimsical1:06:58 Gratitude for the Listen Before Love Chapter
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  • Getting Triggered on Social Media, High-Achiever Stress, And The “Should” Trap (Hot Seat #1 with Akaash Prasad)

    Getting Triggered on Social Media, High-Achiever Stress, And The “Should” Trap (Hot Seat #1 with Akaash Prasad)
    2025/10/06
    Welcome to Hot Seat – a new series where we invite friends, community members, and internet strangers to have honest conversations about what they’re dealing with right now.In this episode, Cam and our first series regular Akaash Prasad explore the gap between knowing how you “should” respond versus how you actually feel.Akaash posted something heartfelt on Twitter. Five minutes later, someone logically dismantled it. What followed was a spiral through anger, shame, and self-judgment that led to this honest conversation about seeking validation online. By the end, Akaash goes from "I want to deactivate everything" to "I feel like I'm gonna float away." Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to media@highvibe.ventures along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨Watch on Youtube✨Elle Beecher’s social media✨Cam Hogan’s social media✨Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.
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    1 時間 2 分
  • From Obligation to Alignment: Our Journey to Complete Freedom

    From Obligation to Alignment: Our Journey to Complete Freedom
    2025/10/01

    Ever notice how exhausting it is to do things out of obligation? We spent the last few months systematically removing every "should" from our lives, and it completely transformed everything.


    This conversation covers: why Elle got off social media and what happened to her anxiety, Cam's journey from OCD-level routines to intuitive living, how we handle relationships without obligation, the surprising reason most friendships fall apart, why being "selfish" is actually the most selfless thing you can do, and what happened when we started honoring only what feels genuinely exciting.


    We're not coaches telling you what to do, we're just two people experimenting with what it means to be completely free. Join us for this unscripted exploration of modern life, relationships, and finding your own path.


    Our communities:


    ✨ Join The Board - Your high-trust collective for meaningful connection: https://stan.store/ellebeecher/p/the-board


    ✨ Our free monthly workshop to kick off your month with intention:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1505242


    ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up): www.theboardwalks.com


    More from us:

    ✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/listenbeforelove/

    ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ListenBeforeLove

    ✨ Elle’s socials:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher

    ✨ Cam’s socials:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan


    Who are these people?

    👀Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠


    Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a monthly gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (230+ so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads multiple communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠


    .💌 CHAPTERS

    0:00 Introduction: Packers Blanket and Setting the Vibe

    1:17 Meeting With Psychic Susie and Following Intuition

    7:06 Living in Our Own World Without External Noise

    11:52 Elle Gets Off Social Media - The Immediate Difference Cam Noticed

    17:11 Social Media as "Clocking In" and Consuming Consciousness Soup

    27:29 Screen Time as the New Secret Life

    32:24 When Actions Come From Coping Mechanisms vs Pure Joy

    38:30 Where Does Your Energy Go? ChatGPT vs Creating for Others

    43:33 Our Next Level: Allowing Ourselves to Fully Express the Journey

    49:31 When You Literally Can't Find Energy for Anything Misaligned

    54:37 Cam's Lifelong Search for the Right Way to Live

    1:00:04 Rejecting All the Templates - "All You Motherfuckers Are Wrong"

    1:07:52 Creating a New Template for Modern Life and Relationships

    1:13:11 Being Proud of Yourself and Celebrating What You've Accomplished

    1:20:26 Letting Go of Lying and Exaggerating Completely

    1:29:42 Honoring Your Highest Preference in All Relationships

    1:45:00 The Honesty of "When It Feels Right" in Relationships

    1:52:56 Using This Space for Pride Infusion and Celebration

    1:55:00 Pause Here: What Are YOU Proud of Yourself For?

    1:57:21 New Style of Recording - Just Riffing and Talking
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