Both silent, both ignoring each other, both not willing to give a hand. Sounds familiar? A deadlock situation is not uncommon in a relationship - but how can you get out of it?

Evie and Ben figured out that they need to be friends in order to start resolving their conflict.

But it’s not only that. It also helps to them to remember that they support each other and that they want the best for each other.

AANNDD find out why Ben is the one that says No way more than Evie.… and why Evie asks more, although that’s not statistical relevant whatsoever.

This episodes take-away for #Sh*t-Free-Love

1. What being each others friend mean
2. How the simple question of asking whether you’re friends can open a conversation
3. Positive side effects of asking: Are you my friend?

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Have you ever found yourself jumping from relationship to relationship without ever figuring out what you actually want from it?

Have you ever lost yourself in a relationship? Realising that you never knew what you wanted in the first place.

How do you actually figure out what you want from a relationship? short answer: date yourself.

But what does that mean?

Evie and Ben talk in this episode on how Ben used to distract himself with countless situationships on the „seeing each other“ level that didn’t come to fruition and how Evie and her female friends thought that they would be the bad guys if the guy didn’t like them. ‚course you‘ll get tons of tips from pur fuck it toolkit - like deleting all your dating apps (obvs).

This episodes take-away for #Sh*t-Free-Love

1. Why self-reflection is an important part of it
2. What steps it takes to date yourself
3. How dating yourself ACTUALLY benefits your relationship

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If you ever thought; wow, I didn’t know who I was in that relationship. That wasn’t me - this episode is for you!

I didn’t know who I was in that relationship. Does this resonate with you? In this episode it’s all about identity in relationships. Not only what makes your identity, but rather how you ARE in a relationship and how you CHANGE.

Ben proposes 3 stages in a relationship: The pre, the during and the post relationship phase. So basically with which identity you went into the relationship, how you developed your identity during the relationship and how you reflect on your identity after the relationship, aka. which things on your identity have permanently changed.

This episodes take-away for #Sh*t-Free-Love

1. What the important factors are before entering a relationship
2. How you can actively check on if you feeling like yourself during the relationship
3. What to do after a relationship to get back on the ground and align you with yourself again

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