Consciously or otherwise most of us choose models for living, for parenting, in our relationships and work. Who you choose says a great deal about your values and moral compass, but also defines the version of yourself you wish to show the world. In this episode, Alvean and Doug talk about how we model ourselves on others and why. A full transcript can be found here: LL02

Couples who have been in a long and loving relationship often say that their significant other is their best friend. in the age of social media, what does being a friend really mean? In this episode, Alvean and Doug take on that question and offer some thoughts about the value of friendship in our romantic and otherwise personal lives. For a transcript, click here: LL61-Are you a good friend?

Have you ever pictured the person that would be your ideal mate? What makes them ideal, and what does that reveal about you? If you are in a relationship now, how does this person compare? In this episode, Alvean and Doug tackle these and similar questions that probe the borders of our emotional landscape. For a full transcript, click here: LL62-Your ideal mate

Do you find yourself complicit in helping your loved ones engage in or continue to do things which you know are not in their best interests? If so, you may be an enabler. We may feel trapped into this behavior, or find that our desire to please takes us down a path where we are harming more than helping. In this episode, Alvean and Doug help listeners recognize the signs and discuss the ways in which one can help without hurting a loved one. For a full transcript, click here: 67-Are you an Enabler?

Do you show your love with physical affections, acts of service, gifts or in some other ways? These are different languages by which we express our love for another. There are no better or worse, right or wrong ways, but knowing how you and your mate express your feelings can be of enormous help in assuring you are communicating your feelings clearly. Alvean and Doug offer a primer on the love languages and how they affect relationships. For a full transcript, click here: 66-The Love Languages

It is a big step and it can lead to a stronger and more durable realtionship or reveal fundamental issues. In this episode, Alvean and Doug discuss the pitfalls and blessings of living together as a step in the progression of a loving relationship. Fora a complete transcript, click here: 63-Moving In Together

Somer see it as a blessing while others may be fearful or feel unprepared. Parenthood is in some ways the last of the unskilled occupations, one we are seldom prepared for but children are both more resilient and forgiving of our inevitable mistakes as long as we keep love at the forefront of all that we do. In this episode, Alvean and Doug help listeners find that path. For a full transcript, click here: 65-Parenthood

Hear how Alvean and Doug –a seemingly unlikelly pair found each other and began their partnership in LoveLife. LL01-