In this episode I bring awareness to this victim state that we can easily fall into where we can blame, and complain about the reason why things are the way we are based on external sources.

I talk about a different path that is a pattern interrupt into full responsibility and ownership where we do the inner work and healing so that we can experience a different reality, one that roots us in being the sovereign independent beings that we can be.

What You’ll Learn:

• How shifting from victimhood to empowerment changes everything
• Why radical responsibility is the key to healthier relationships
• How self-awareness and inner work reflect your outer reality
• The value of mentorship and meaningful conversations on this journey.

Takeaways:

• Shifting from victimhood to empowerment is key.
• Radical responsibility involves acknowledging your role in situations.
• Inner work is essential for changing your outer reality.
• Attracting similar partners often reflects unhealed aspects of yourself.
• Working with a mentor can enhance your healing journey.
• Blame is an easy way out; ownership is empowering.
• Self-awareness leads to healthier relationship patterns.
• Exploration of personal patterns can lead to transformation.
• Engaging in conversations about these topics can deepen understanding.
• Taking action towards change is always worth it.

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In this short solo episode, I share a mindset practice of asking the right questions to shift your perspective and support receiving more of what you want in your life.

If you've heard of affirmations, this is taking it up a few notches, because it creates an open loop in your mind that it wants to answer...

You'll learn:

• Why upgrading your mindset is like seeing life through a fresh lens
• How 'ask-firmations' help your subconscious mind to work for you
• Tips for integrating morning rituals, using neuroscience
• Other practices that can set a positive tone for the day.

Takeaways
Upgrading your mindset is like putting on new glasses.
Askfirmations create open loops in your mind.
The subconscious mind responds well to questions.
Practice askfirmations for at least 21 days.
Morning is the best time for mindset work.
Habit stacking can help integrate new practices.
Gratitude creates more positive experiences.
Curiosity leads to a playful approach to life.
Your thoughts can either uplift or spiral downwards.
Intention is key in your practice of personal growth.

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In this enlightening conversation, Xandrine Ayla and Ruxandra explore the transformative power of the Gene Keys and plant medicine. Ruxandra shares her journey as a steward of the Gene Keys, helping individuals shift from shadow states into their true power. The discussion delves into the alchemical process of meeting one's shadows, the role of plant medicine in healing, and the importance of community in this journey. They emphasize the significance of embracing both light and shadow as part of the flow state, and how personal transformation can lead to a more magnetic and authentic self. Ruxandra also offers insights into how to start working with the Gene Keys and shares her mentorship programs.

Takeaways

Ruxandra helps leaders shift from shadow states into power.

The Gene Keys unlock your genetics and reveal your life purpose.

Miracles can manifest with ease and grace when aligned with your true self.

Personal transformation often involves meeting and embracing one's shadows.

Plant medicine can facilitate deep healing and connection to the self.

Community and group ceremonies enhance the healing experience.

The flow state is accessible even in shadow experiences.

Life is a paradox; embracing playfulness can lead to deeper insights.

You are always on the right path, even in challenging times.

Embracing both light and shadow is essential for personal growth.

Ruxandra is a mentor and a steward of the gene keys. Her mission is to help highly sensitive leaders transform their shadows into leadership gifts so they build their legacy from a space of power & self-assurance. She is serving plant medicine in ceremonies so that people shift from lower vibrational states such as victimhood into accessing profound states of unity & love in their DNA. Contact her on Instagram @rux.i

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In this enlightening conversation, Xandrine Ayla and Indra delve into the profound themes of tantra, feminine embodiment, and the reclamation of women's sexuality. They explore the misconceptions surrounding tantra, emphasizing its depth beyond mere sexual connotations. The discussion highlights the importance of embracing all emotions, including the darker aspects, and how this can lead to empowerment and healing. Indra shares insights on sex magic, the sacred whore archetype, and the necessity of self-pleasure as a means of understanding one's desires. The conversation culminates in the significance of creating safety for women to express their audacious selves, ultimately leading to liberation and abundance.

Takeaways

Tantra is a way of living with the divine inside your body.

Embracing all emotions, including darkness, is essential for empowerment.

Self-pleasure is crucial for understanding one's desires.

The sacred whore embodies the power of sexuality and creation.

Creating safety is vital for women to express their true selves.

Liberation comes from freeing oneself from societal shackles.

Embodiment practices can enhance manifestation and personal power.

Sex magic combines sexual energy with intention for creation.

Women are reclaiming their bodies and sexuality in powerful ways.

The journey of self-exploration leads to deeper spiritual connections.

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Part 2 of my chat with Maya Lila di Vento dives deeper into topics like healing generations of sexual trauma, the collective healing we are all in that will lead us to deeper levels of love, intimacy and honesty with ourselves and with others.

Topics discussed include:

The work to heal sexual trauma

The energetic work to alchemize pain into power

The ripple effect that this can create

Preparing for your divine companion

Balancing the masculine and feminine energies in ourselves

Inner Child Healing that reparents ourselves from the toxic patterns we experienced

What it takes to have a raw, real, honest relationship with another person

Bringing your full shame to light

The power of forgiveness within the healing journey

How asking better questions can lead us to a better quality of life

A vulnerable share about my business that is leading me into an exciting new path

Micro-dosing Psilocybin (magic mushrooms) as a plant ally to support emotional release, and opening to creative solutions

And more!

Maya Lila’s Bio:

Maya Lila di Vento here to increase joy, beauty, connection and thriving on this planet by helping humans come home to their bodies and remember that we are all god playing human.

She’s currently living on the island of Crete in Greece with her two daughters, and is a spiritual mentor for those who are looking to get unstuck and live their dream life. Her toolkit includes Human Design, Intuitive Somatic Meditation, and Guided Inquiry, and 2+ decades of meditation and spiritual exploration.

You can find her swimming naked in the Mediterranean and having Conversations with Mystics on her YouTube channel “Mystics, Muses, & Sacred Sites”.

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I had the pleasure of being interviewed on Mystics, Muses and Sacred Sites, a Youtube Show of a dear sister Maya Lila Di Vento, and what came through was too good to not share on here.

She is a kindred soul who is on a similar path so you get to tune into this beautiful, raw and real conversation from 2 single moms, navigating a nomadic lifestyle with our daughters, while being on a soul mission to create a shift on the earth as healers and light workers while thriving in our lives.

We talk about navigating big transitions from business, love, sexuality, heartbreak and moving through challenging situations of our life.

We talk about:

-How I found my purpose

-The death portal that I was just in & how I navigated it

-The new path that I am slowly owning and embracing

-Sexual trauma of the collective and how we can start to see our bodies, yonis as sacred

-The path to own our worthiness so that we can set boundaries that are in alignment with our values

-Being single but yet still being a well fucked woman - on your own

-Heartbreak and navigating opening up to a relationship after

-The breakdown and the breakthrough that’s on the other side

-Tools and practices to get you through the challenging moments

-The transformation of being supported in a well held container with a mentor/healer/coach

And more!

Maya Lila’s Bio:

Maya Lila di Vento here to increase joy, beauty, connection and thriving on this planet by helping humans come home to their bodies and remember that we are all god playing human.

She’s currently living on the island of Crete in Greece with her two daughters, and is a spiritual mentor for those who are looking to get unstuck and live their dream life. Her toolkit includes Human Design, Intuitive Somatic Meditation, and Guided Inquiry, and 2+ decades of meditation and spiritual exploration.

You can find her swimming naked in the Mediterranean and having Conversations with Mystics on her YouTube channel “Mystics, Muses, & Sacred Sites”.

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My website: xandrine.com

In this episode of the Magnetic Self podcast, Xandrine Ayla interviews Indra, a Shakti Awakener and Tantra mentor, about the mindset and embodiment needed to activate magnetism and create a fulfilling love life. They discuss the misconceptions around Tantra and its true essence of living in unity with the divine. Indra shares her personal journey of using Tantra to attract emotionally available men and empower her sexuality. They also explore the power of feminine embodiment through dance and movement, and how it can support emotional release and manifestation. In this conversation, Xandrine Ayla and Indra discuss the importance of feminine embodiment practices and how they can enhance one's life. They share personal stories and experiences of how these practices have helped them navigate challenges and cultivate a lighter, more playful energy. They also explore the concept of receiving and the role it plays in manifestation and relationships. The conversation delves into the idea of being audacious in one's sexuality and the importance of embracing and expressing one's true desires. Indra shares her work with goddess archetypes and how they can support women in embodying their unique flavors of sexuality. They conclude by discussing Indra's offerings and how listeners can connect with her.

Takeaways

Tantra is often misunderstood and associated with sexual activities, but its true essence is living in unity with the divine.

Feminine embodiment through dance and movement can support emotional release and manifestation.

To attract emotionally available partners, it is important to work on personal availability, boundaries, self-love, and worthiness.

Dancing and embodying desires can be a powerful way to manifest a fulfilling love life.

Working with plant medicines like cacao can deepen the connection to the body and enhance the dance experience. Feminine embodiment practices can help navigate challenges and cultivate a lighter, more playful energy.

Receiving is an important aspect of manifestation and relationships.

Embracing and expressing one's true desires is key to being audacious in one's sexuality.

Working with goddess archetypes can support women in embodying their unique flavors of sexuality.

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Helen Plehn, an artist and spiritual teacher, shares her journey of self-discovery and channeling a system called the Aura Color Wheel. She explains how she creates paintings through her vivid visualization and automatic painting. Helen discusses the three types of auras: mood aura, personality aura, and soul aura. She emphasizes the importance of understanding your soul gifts, healing your soul wounds, and learning your soul lessons to become your most magnetic self. Helen also shares insights on meditation practices and how they can be tailored to different aura layers. In this conversation, Xandrine Ayla and Helen Plehn discuss the importance of tuning into your heart and embracing your soul aura color. They share their personal experiences with intuitive decision-making and how they have intuitively chosen their brand colors. They also discuss the significance of the soul aura color in understanding one's purpose and the importance of embodying one's gifts. They explore the role of meditation in connecting with the spirit team and receiving intuitive guidance. The conversation concludes with a discussion on the power of vulnerability and expressing one's true self.

Takeaways

Discovering and embracing your soul gifts can lead to a more fulfilling and purposeful life.

Healing your soul wounds is essential for personal growth and becoming your most magnetic self.

Understanding and learning from your soul lessons can help you break free from repetitive negative patterns.

Tailoring meditation practices to your aura layer can enhance the healing and transformation process.

Embracing your unique aura colors and energy can lead to greater self-awareness and alignment with your soul's purpose. Tuning into your heart and holding your heart is a natural practice for intuitive individuals.

Your soul aura color can guide your brand colors and resonate with your intuitive choices.

Embodying your gifts and purpose is essential for living a radiant and magnetic life.

Meditation is a powerful tool for connecting with your spirit team and receiving intuitive guidance.

Expressing your true self with courage and vulnerability allows you to attract opportunities and live in alignment with your purpose.

Titles

Embracing Your Unique Aura Colors and Energy

Meditation Practices for Different Aura Layers Embodying Your Gifts and Purpose

Tuning into Your Heart and Soul Aura Color

Learn more and register Helen's upcoming Free 4-day Live Experience: Flowing With Your Rainbow 🌈 here: https://www.auracolorwheel.com/live

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