In this heartfelt and candid episode, Tanya and Dr. Aumatma dive deep into the nuances of motherhood, parenting styles, and navigating life as mothers. From the guilt of leaving kids behind for self-care trips to the societal pressures on working moms, this episode unpacks the realities of juggling career aspirations, parenting, and cultural expectations. With a mix of personal anecdotes and thought-provoking insights, they also explore the unspoken tensions in mother-child relationships, parenting guilt, and why women deserve more grace in their journey.

• Balancing career and motherhood as working moms in mixed-race families.
• Why self-care for mothers isn’t selfish—it’s essential.
• The emotional logistics of leaving kids for work or personal growth.
• Parenting styles: Finding what works for you and your child’s unique personality.
• Societal pressures on mothers vs. fathers: Why the expectations are so different.
• The unspoken dynamics of mother-child relationships and why they often feel more fraught than father-child dynamics.
• The evolving conversation around workplace support for mothers, including menstrual leave and breastfeeding spaces.

• “I’m a whole person, even outside of my children. Self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary.”
• “You can’t make your child into who you want them to be. They are who they are, and your job is to support that.”
• “Mothers juggle so much, and we’re still expected to show up at 150%. It’s time to change that narrative.”
• “It’s not about having the ‘right’ parenting style. It’s about finding what works for you and your family.”
• “Mothering is such a special role, and it’s not just for those who birth children. It’s about nurturing and showing up.”

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