Welcome you are about to enter the secret diary of a unicorn in the lifestyle. The  desires and stories of a world hidden and misunderstood by most.

We explore the lifestyle (swinging, kink, poly) through the eyes of Athena O, a unicorn who has been in the lifestyle for over 12 years. We delve into issues, controversies, and etiquette related to the lifestyle along with stories and erotic real life adventures from Athena and her friends.

Athena is a former monogamous lesbian turned non-monogamous bi-sexual who has explored the lifestyle both while a lesbian and shares her transition to full swinging, dating in the lifestyle and even encounters with polyamory.

The O LIfe is a lifestyle coaching, events company  The O Life is a lifestyle coaching and events company helping you explore your sacred sexuality and guide you to an orgasmic living. We would love to be your go-to for advice, healing and events to explore your deepest desires and feel welcome in this community.

Sexuality always came naturally to me. I wanted to explore but what would happen when that exploration involves your best friend and she's married.

Entry July 18, 2009

Dear Diary,

It's Athena's 32nd birthday and her heart is broken. Her first relationship with a woman has ended and she is devastated. Her friends try to cheer her up by throwing a scandalous birthday party. This becomes Athenas first experience in the world of BDSM and an eye opening experience. This party is her entry into a world that leads to alternative ways of living, thinking and being and her first introduction to swingers.