In this episode of My Mama Summer, I’m diving into the personal and powerful reasons behind our family’s big decision to relocate from Lake Chapala, a peaceful retirement hub, to the bustling, vibrant streets of San Miguel de Allende. This move is about so much more than a change of scenery—it’s a deep, intentional shift that reflects where we are in life and where we’re headed.

I’ll share how we came to this decision after years of unease, and why living in a city with more energy and opportunity feels aligned with our bigger life vision. From transportation woes to the challenges of being a purpose-driven family in a retirement community, I break down what we’ve been missing and how we plan to create a more fulfilling, balanced life in our new home.

As I unpack the details of this move, I talk about the practical reasons too, like the struggle to access healthy foods, the chaos of public transportation, and the desire for more activities to engage our growing, energetic daughter. But more than that, this episode is about pressing play on my life again. After years of focusing solely on motherhood and business, I’m ready to reconnect with my hobbies, my health, and my community.

Moving cities isn’t just a physical shift; it’s an emotional and mental one too. It’s about rediscovering who I am outside of my roles as a mother and entrepreneur, and about intentionally creating the life I want for myself and my family. There’s excitement, joy, and, of course, the typical stress that comes with such a big life change—but in the end, it’s about creating space for a richer, more meaningful life.

So grab a cuppa and join me as I reflect on this exciting new chapter. If you’ve ever found yourself at a crossroads or wondered how to make a big life change, this episode is for you. It’s about trusting your intuition, recalibrating when needed, and having the courage to step into the life you’re meant to live.

Warning: This podcast is not a highlight reel. (And I think that's a refreshing thing in a world of superficiality and false pretences.)

Go behind the scenes of my life as I build an online business, raise a family with intention, live abroad in a new country, and unpack trauma, programming, and reparent myself openly in the public realm.

In every episode, you’ll get insights into the depth of what it really takes to build a business, whilst being a present mama, living a life outside the box, and doing the work it takes to be who we’re meant to be.

My Mama Summer is my journey to becoming whole.

You can get the written version of this podcast in your inbox each Wednesday at ⁠⁠mymamasummer.com⁠⁠ and subscribe to the audio on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts.

Your Host

Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.

Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (⁠⁠https://truthiverse.com⁠⁠) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: ⁠⁠https://hub.onlinefreedomhackers.com/r/mymamasummer⁠⁠

In this episode, I'm diving into a topic that might ruffle some feathers—feminist anger and what it really means to express it. We've all heard the term “angry feminist,” but is there more to it than just the right to be mad? I believe so.

Join me as I share my thoughts on how modern feminist anger creates a barrier that deflects responsibility and blame the other, keeping women from real growth and connection.

I’ll talk about how getting caught up in our own righteousness isolates us, making it hard to see the bigger picture or even recognise the power of our own feminine energy.

How often do women find themselves so wrapped up in the fight against the "Patriarchy" that they lose sight of the need to self-reflect? What if the key to real strength isn’t to spend our lives in constant defiance?

Can woman harness anger in a way that is both transformative and healing? And could reconnecting with our true feminine nature actually lead us to a more authentic and impactful expression of that anger, leading to a more peaceful, yet powerful, way of being?

Can we find a way to be fierce and tender at the same time? In this episode, we'll find out.

Warning: This podcast is not a highlight reel. (And I think that's a refreshing thing in a world of superficiality and false pretences.)

Go behind the scenes of my life as I build an online business, raise a family with intention, live abroad in a new country, and unpack trauma, programming, and reparent myself openly in the public realm.

In every episode, you’ll get insights into the depth of what it really takes to build a business, whilst being a present mama, living a life outside the box, and doing the work it takes to be who we’re meant to be.

My Mama Summer is my journey to becoming whole.

You can get the written version of this podcast in your inbox each Wednesday at ⁠⁠mymamasummer.com⁠⁠ and subscribe to the audio on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts.

Your Host

Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.

Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (⁠⁠https://truthiverse.com⁠⁠) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: ⁠⁠https://hub.onlinefreedomhackers.com/r/mymamasummer⁠⁠

In this episode, I share the intimate story of how our family decided to leave the familiar comforts of our Australian home for the unknowns of Mexico. What started as a conversation around our kitchen table about feeling stuck and uninspired led to a life-changing decision that reshaped our lives forever.

Join me as I recount the emotional rollercoaster of moving our young family halfway across the world, navigating bureaucratic loopholes, dealing with cultural adjustments, and facing the inevitable doubts and fears that come with leaving everything behind. From the surreal experience of flying out of a nearly empty Australia to the chaos and beauty of adapting to a new country, this episode is a candid reflection on the courage it takes to pursue a life well-lived.

Whether you're dreaming of your own big move or simply curious about what it takes to start over in a new place, tune in for an honest, heartfelt look at what it truly means to choose freedom and forge your own path.

Warning: This podcast is not a highlight reel. (And I think that's a refreshing thing in a world of superficiality and false pretences.)

Go behind the scenes of my life as I build an online business, raise a family with intention, live abroad in a new country, and unpack trauma, programming, and reparent myself openly in the public realm.

In every episode, you’ll get insights into the depth of what it really takes to build a business, whilst being a present mama, living a life outside the box, and doing the work it takes to be who we’re meant to be.

My Mama Summer is my journey to becoming whole.

You can get the written version of this podcast in your inbox each Wednesday at ⁠⁠mymamasummer.com⁠⁠ and subscribe to the audio on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts.

Your Host

Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.

Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (⁠⁠https://truthiverse.com⁠⁠) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: ⁠⁠https://hub.onlinefreedomhackers.com/r/mymamasummer⁠⁠

Why does upgrading your life often come with stomach-churning fear? In this candid episode of ‘My Mama Summer,’ Aimee Q Devlin delves into the emotional rollercoaster of making major life changes, such as moving cities with her family.

She shares her internal struggle with balancing excitement and terror, the pain of disappointing loved ones, and her journey to overcome people-pleasing habits. Listeners get a raw, behind-the-scenes look at the realities of pursuing personal growth, coping with fear, and the importance of prioritising one’s own needs.

Aimee reflects on past traumas from previous moves, discusses the challenges of leaving people behind, and emphasises the necessity of following our dreams at the risk of others’ disappointment.

Her message is one of resilience, self-compassion, and the difficult yet rewarding path of stretching into a new identity.

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Warning: This podcast is not a highlight reel. (And I think that's a refreshing thing in a world of superficiality and false pretences.)

Go behind the scenes of my life as I build an online business, raise a family with intention, live abroad in a new country, and unpack trauma, programming, and reparent myself openly in the public realm.

In every episode, you’ll get insights into the depth of what it really takes to build a business, whilst being a present mama, living a life outside the box, and doing the work it takes to be who we’re meant to be.

My Mama Summer is my journey to becoming whole.

You can get the written version of this podcast in your inbox each Wednesday at ⁠⁠⁠mymamasummer.com⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe to the audio on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts.

Your Host

Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.

Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://truthiverse.com⁠⁠⁠) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://hub.onlinefreedomhackers.com/r/mymamasummer⁠

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Timestamps:

00:00 Facing the Fear of Life Upgrades

01:50 Announcing the Big Move

03:02 Coping with Change and Disappointment

03:57 Balancing Personal Growth and Relationships

04:33 Overcoming the Freeze Response

06:19 Embracing Imperfection and Moving Forward

07:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of 'My Mama Summer,' host Aimee Q Devlin takes listeners on a heartfelt and thought-provoking journey through her experiences in an online feminist community.

Aimee delves into her initial excitement about joining the community, the disillusionment she felt due to groupthink and hypocrisy, and the conflicts she faced when sharing her unique perspectives.

She discusses the intense feminist programming she encountered and reflects on the cultural shifts impacting society.

This episode also features Aimee's satirical poem 'Eye-Fucked,' which critiques the modern feminist narrative and explores how women's anger and dissatisfaction were often projected onto men.

Through these personal stories and reflections, Aimee reveals her growth and stance on feminism, providing a nuanced look at the complexities of gender dynamics.

This episode is a deep dive into challenging norms and finding one's voice amidst societal pressures.

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Warning: This podcast is not a highlight reel. (And I think that's a refreshing thing in a world of superficiality and false pretences.)

Go behind the scenes of my life as I build an online business, raise a family with intention, live abroad in a new country, and unpack trauma, programming, and reparent myself openly in the public realm.

In every episode, you’ll get insights into the depth of what it really takes to build a business, whilst being a present mama, living a life outside the box, and doing the work it takes to be who we’re meant to be.

My Mama Summer is my journey to becoming whole.

You can get the written version of this podcast in your inbox each Wednesday at ⁠⁠⁠mymamasummer.com⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe to the audio on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts.

Your Host

Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.

Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://truthiverse.com⁠⁠⁠) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://hub.onlinefreedomhackers.com/r/mymamasummer⁠

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Timestamps:

00:00 Welcome to My Mama Summer 00:45 The Search for Sisterhood 01:13 Joining the Online Community 02:06 Disillusionment and Writing 02:49 The Feminist Divide 03:46 Leaving the Community 04:35 Reflections on Feminism 07:44 The Poem: Eye-F*cked 12:39 Conclusion and Invitation

In this heartfelt episode, Aimee delves into the concept of "18 Summers," a powerful reminder of the limited time we have to spend with our children before they become adults. Reflecting on her own experiences, Aimee shares personal stories and insights about the importance of making the most out of these precious summers. From her Australian summers filled with barbecues and family visits to the deep bond she cherishes with her daughter, Aimee highlights the value of being present and creating meaningful connections.

As an Online Business Mentor, Aimee also explores how unconventional parents can build freedom-based businesses that allow them to both provide for their families and be present with them. Whether you're a freethinker, homeschooler, or gentle parent, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical advice on how to reclaim your time and live a life outside the system.

Tune in to learn how you can maximise those 18 Summers and build a business that aligns with your values and lifestyle. Don't miss this chance to join Aimee on a journey towards freedom, fulfilment, and family connection.

Join us for an episode that will make you rethink the way you spend your summers and inspire you to live a life of purpose and presence.

Episode Highlights:

• Understanding the "18 Summers" concept
• Personal stories from Aimee's Australian summers
• The importance of secure attachments and emotional availability for children
• Building freedom-based businesses for unconventional parents
• Practical tips on reclaiming your time and living outside the system

Listen now and start your journey towards a more connected and fulfilling family life.

Warning: This podcast is not a highlight reel. (And I think that's a refreshing thing in a world of superficiality and false pretences.)

Go behind the scenes of my life as I build an online business, raise a family with intention, live abroad in a new country, and unpack trauma, programming, and reparent myself openly in the public realm.

In every episode, you’ll get insights into the depth of what it really takes to build a business, whilst being a present mama, living a life outside the box, and doing the work it takes to be who we’re meant to be.

My Mama Summer is my journey to becoming whole.

You can get the written version of this podcast in your inbox each Wednesday at ⁠⁠mymamasummer.com⁠⁠ and subscribe to the audio on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts.

Your Host

Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.

Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (⁠⁠https://truthiverse.com⁠⁠) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: ⁠⁠https://hub.onlinefreedomhackers.com/r/mymamasummer

In this episode of My Mama Summer, I share a deeply personal poem I wrote back in February 2018, during a time when I felt lost and empty. The poem, titled "Shine," explores feelings of invisibility and the struggle to embrace one's true self.

As I revisit this piece, I reflect on the journey from that time to now, uncovering the layers of my chrysalis. Despite feeling stuck and hitting the same challenges repeatedly, I've come to understand these moments as part of a spiral of growth, each encountering a higher octave of self-discovery and transformation.

Join me as I dive into the concept of the babushka chrysalis, the endless layers of self-unveiling, and the realisation that it's my time to shine. I share the insights and breakthroughs I've had recently, particularly around childhood programming and self-perception, and how these realisations have shaped my journey.

This episode isn't just about sharing my story—it's about connecting with you, the listener, and encouraging you to find your path to shine. I invite you to reflect on your journey, to embrace your growth, and to join the conversation.

Thank you for being here and for allowing me to share this part of my life with you.

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Warning: This podcast is not a highlight reel. (And I think that's a refreshing thing in a world of superficiality and false pretences.)

Go behind the scenes of my life as I build an online business, raise a family with intention, live abroad in a new country, and unpack trauma, programming, and reparent myself openly in the public realm.

In every episode, you’ll get insights into the depth of what it really takes to build a business, whilst being a present mama, living a life outside the box, and doing the work it takes to be who we’re meant to be.

My Mama Summer is my journey to becoming whole.

You can get the written version of this podcast in your inbox each Wednesday at ⁠⁠mymamasummer.com⁠⁠ and subscribe to the audio on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts.

Your Host

Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.

Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (⁠⁠https://truthiverse.com⁠⁠) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: ⁠⁠https://hub.onlinefreedomhackers.com/r/mymamasummer

I wrote the following piece called "It's a Human Right back in July 2022 when the “Roe versus Wade” conversation was all over the internet.

The inspiration for writing it was the hypocrisy that I was seeing out there in the world in relation to feminists, "human rights", an increase in terms like toxic masculinity, misogyny, racism, cultural marxism, and the separation between men and women that was being engineered and had been engineered for a very long time.

In 2016, I’d joined a “Women’s Circle” based in the USA and started looking into the women's studies, gender studies, and feminism movement as I was noticing a division happening in my world. And specifically in the USA I noticed more and more people falling for this.

Fast forward 8 years and this has now transformed into something we call cancel culture. It's about stamping on the people who don't believe the same things that you believe. Whilst not realising how hypocritical your beliefs are.

So, this is just a two minute read, a two-minute listen.

And for me, it illustrates the hypocrisy that we see out there. Now I hope you enjoy it.

Listener Beware: It’s polarising. 👿 🌶️

Warning: This podcast is not a highlight reel. (And I think that's a refreshing thing in a world of superficiality and false pretences.)

Go behind the scenes of my life as I build an online business, raise a family with intention, live abroad in a new country, and unpack trauma, programming, and reparent myself openly in the public realm.

In every episode, you’ll get insights into the depth of what it really takes to build a business, whilst being a present mama, living a life outside the box, and doing the work it takes to be who we’re meant to be.

My Mama Summer is my journey to becoming whole.

You can get the written version of this podcast in your inbox each Wednesday at mymamasummer.com and subscribe to the audio on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts.

Your Host

Aimee Q Devlin is an Australian writer, online business owner, and mother currently living in Mexico, committed to personal growth and evolution, and uncovering how slow motherhood looks in a fast-paced world.

Aimee is the co-founder of the Online Freedom Hackers community where she and her husband Brendan Murphy (https://truthiverse.com) mentor unconventional parents to build freedom-based businesses that buy back their fun, family, and freedom in 5-10 hours a week. Get started here: https://hub.onlinefreedomhackers.com/r/mymamasummer