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For more information on the topics discussed in this episode, check out the supplemental materials provided in the article that accompanies this episode: Navigating Sexuality as a Single: Christian Thoughts.

Welcome to Episode 2 of the Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® Podcast, where we dive into the complexities of navigating sexuality as a single person through the lens of Neuroscience Informed Christian Counseling® (NICC). In this episode, Josh Spurlock and Cassie Spurlock explore how biblical wisdom and contemporary psychological insights can help singles understand and steward their sexual energy responsibly. Whether you're a young adult, older single, separated, divorced, widowed, celibate same-sex attracted, gender dysphoric, in a long-distance relationship, or living with disabilities, this episode offers valuable guidance to foster emotional and spiritual well-being.

Understanding Social and Erotic Sexuality

Josh and Cassie begin by defining social and erotic sexuality, explaining how these aspects influence individuals' interactions, behaviors, and relationships. Social sexuality pertains to gender identity and expression, relational dynamics, cultural norms, and interpersonal relationships. It encompasses the broader experience of our male and female identities and how these influence our engagement with the world and others.

Erotic sexuality, on the other hand, involves the romantic, genital, and sexual energy that motivates the pursuit of physical intimacy. It includes both the physiological and emotional processes related to sexual desire, arousal, and attraction. Josh and Cassie highlight the importance of understanding these distinct yet interconnected aspects of sexuality to navigate them effectively.

Righteous Flirting and Friendship Sexuality

Josh and Cassie introduce the concept of "righteous flirting," a healthy, respectful, and godly approach to affirming one another as men and women. They discuss how singles and married individuals can benefit from supportive male and female friendships, which help steward their sexual energy and create a sense of community.

Righteous flirting, rooted in biblical teachings, acknowledges the intrinsic value and dignity of each person, fostering interactions that honor God and build up the community. Josh and Cassie highlight the role of these friendships in alleviating loneliness and contributing to sexual wholeness. They also emphasize the importance of same-sex friendships for emotional support and personal growth.

Encouragement to Seek Professional Help

Navigating the complexities of sexuality as a single person can be daunting, but Josh and Cassie remind listeners that they don't have to do it alone. NICC offers a supportive and holistic approach to help singles understand and steward their sexual energy responsibly, fostering emotional and spiritual well-being.

If you or someone you know could benefit from professional guidance, consider reaching out to MyCounselor.Online for compassionate and faith-based counseling. Let us walk with you, providing the tools and support you need to thrive.

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