NewSong Foundations Episode 12 — Nuts and Bolts: This is our most practical vision-casting session, with Chris and Tiffany sharing hands-on pragmatic answers to such questions as:

• What is expected of you as a leader?
• What do our weekly gatherings look like?
• What are some of our critical priorities?
• What does our culture look like?

Speakers: Chris Nesbitt & Tiffany Nesbitt

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Tips, strategies and tools for discipline… that’s the focus of this final session in parenting 101, including topics such as evaluating the difference between childishness and foolishness, how and when to bring discipline, warnings vs threats vs grace, bribes vs goal incentives, and more. This final session is lengthy because it also includes a helpful Q&A session covering topics such as how to deal with friends who are not in agreement, and where Christians should or should not be raising their kids. (See comprehensive list of recommended resources below.)

Speakers: Chris Nesbitt & Tiffany Nesbitt

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Topics covered in this session:

-Wise in their own eyes

-Bringing both the rod AND reproof

-Never bring discipline is anger or with sarcasm

-Always bring discipline with love

-Natural vs structured consequences

-Repentance vs regret

-If true learning did not occur, the correction was not effective

-The discipline flow chart:

-Evaluating foolishness vs childishness in light of:

-Age appropriateness
-Warnings vs threats
-warnings vs grace
-frequency of the offense

-Loss of privilege

-Hard work

-Spankings

-The importance of humility

-5-min warning

-The interrupt rule

-Bribes vs goal incentives

-Repentance, restoration and forgiveness

-Q&A:

-What is repentance is not genuine?

-What if friends and even parents are against your decisions?

-What about manipulative children?

-What about extreme shyness or anxiety?

-How is it passable to make time for all this?

-What if you live in a terrible place to raise kids?

Parenting 101 Resources

All Ages:

Glow Kids by Nicholas Kardaras

The Five Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell

Raising Unselfish Children in a Self-Absorbed World by Jill Rigby

The Read-Aloud Family: Making Meaningful and Lasting Connections with Your Kids by Sarah Mackenzie

Family Night Tool Chest Series by Jim Weidmann and Kurt Bruner

Parenting: The 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family by Paul David Tripp

Ages 2-4:

On Becoming Toddler Wise by Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam Temper

Your Child’s Tantrums by Dr. James Dobson

The Mission of Motherhood by Sally Clarkson

The Ministry of Motherhood by Sally Clarkson

The “If/Then” chart & the “Blessing” chart by Pam Forster

Ages 4-10:

*The Children’s Book of Virtues by William J. Bennett

Shepherding a Child’s Heart by Tedd Tripp

Instructing a Child’s Heart by Tedd Tripp and Margy Tripp

Parenting isn’t for Cowards by Dr. James Dobson

Raising Giant Killers by Bill Johnson

On Becoming Child Wise by Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam

Parenting with Love and Logic by Foster Cline

For Instruction in Righteousness by Pam Forster

*PragerU for Kids Videos/Resources

Ages 10-13:

*The Fallacy Detective by Nathaniel Bluedorn

*The Thinking Toolbox by Nathaniel Bluedorn

*The Book of Virtues by William J. Bennett

*The Dangerous Book for Boys by Hal Iggulden

*Beautiful Girlhood by Karen Andreola

Preparing for Adolescence by Dr. James Dobson

On Becoming Pre-Teen Wise by Gary Ezzo and Robert Bucknam

Preparing Your Son for Every Man’s Battle by Steven Arterburn and Fred Stoeker

Ages 13-18:

**Do Hard Things: A Teenage Rebellion Against Low Expectations by Alex and Brett Harris

Parenting Teens with Love and Logic: Preparing Adolescents for Responsible Adulthood by Jim Fay and Foster Cline

On Becoming Teen Wise by Gary Bauer and Robert Bucknam

Keep Your Love On by Danny Silk

*Moral Revolution by Kris Valloton

*Every Young Man’s Battle by Steven Arterburn and Fred Stoeker

*Radical Together by David Platt

*For parents and child to read together

**For child to read alone

This third session is packed with conceptual and practical tools, as Chris and Tiffany Nesbitt discuss conflict resolution and introduce principles such as childishness vs foolishness, choices/rights/privileges, good/better/best and first time obedience. Resources cited include:

Parenting teens with Love and Logic, by Foster Cline and Jim Fay

On Becoming Teen Wise, Gary Ezzo

Speakers: Chris Nesbitt & Tiffany Nesbitt

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