Do you and your partner share values?

How do you support each other emotionally?

Today, Jay taps into the idea that love alone is not sufficient to sustain a healthy relationship. While love is important, other elements such as shared values, emotional maturity, consistent patterns of behavior, and trust are crucial for long-lasting partnerships. Societal norms often romanticize love, leading people to overlook these essential factors.

Jay discusses the significance of understanding and respecting each other's values, as well as recognizing and addressing patterns of behavior. Emotional maturity, which involves managing and expressing emotions healthily, is highlighted as a key component of a stable relationship. Support and partnership are deemed more critical than love alone.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to communicate your value to your partner

How to develop emotional maturity

How to support your partner's emotional growth

How to build trust in your relationship

Remember, love is important, but building a relationship on trust, values, and emotional maturity is key.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:07 Do They Love Me?

04:42 #1: Love Makes Us Forget the Importance of Values

08:56 #2: Love Makes You Forget Patterns of Behaviour

16:09 #3: Love Makes You Forget How They Treat You

19:29 #4: Love Versus Support

21:46 #5: You Forget the Importance of Trust

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How are smartphones linked to anxiety?

What mental health issues are linked to excessive social media use?

Today, let's welcome Jonathan Haidt is a renowned social psychologist, professor at New York University’s Stern School of Business, and a widely published author. He is known for his research on morality, culture, and the psychology of happiness. Jonathan's influential books include "The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion" and "The Coddling of the American Mind." His latest work, "The Anxious Generation," examines the profound impact of social media on young people's mental health.

Jonathan highlights the unprecedented global collapse of mental health among youth, describing it as more significant than the COVID-19 pandemic, with girls being particularly affected by anxiety and depression, and boys showing significant social development issues.

The conversation also addresses the academic debate regarding the root causes of this mental health crisis, with Jonathan presenting compelling data and experimental evidence to support his view that social media is a primary driver. He offers actionable solutions, including delaying smartphone and social media use until later ages, implementing phone-free school policies, increasing outdoor play, and advocating for collective action by parents and communities.

In this interview, you'll learn:

How to create a healthier digital environment for kids

How to implement age-appropriate tech usage

How to encourage outdoor play and physical activities

How to talk to children about the risks of social media

How to foster resilience and emotional strength in kids

How to create a supportive community for parents

Together, let's take a comprehensive look into the mental health crisis the youth is facing today and take note of the practical strategies for creating a healthier environment that supports their well-being.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 01:55 Global Synchronized Collapse of Mental Health
• 08:12 Social Media is for Adults to Network
• 10:20 The Science Behind Anxiety
• 14:51 Variation of Emotions is Necessary for Kids
• 17:45 Play Helps Kids Learn
• 19:12 How to Make Playtime More Effective?
• 22:59 The Effects of Technology on Different Genders
• 29:24 Going Through Puberty on Social Media
• 32:08 How Parenting Has Changed with Technology
• 34:27 Efforts to Regulate Smartphones Use for Children
• 44:21 Women Are Always Judged for Their Looks
• 49:26 Verified Social Media Account
• 56:58 Why Tap Into Our Spirituality
• 01:03:56 What is Happening to Us?
• 01:11:31 The Greatest Distraction of Human Value
• 01:16:23 Jonathan on Final Five

Episode Resources:

• Jonathan Haidt | Website
• Jonathan Haidt | Instagram
• Jonathan Haidt | Facebook
• Jonathan Haidt | X
• Jonathan Haidt | YouTube
• Jonathan Haidt | LinkedIn

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Do you often feel exhausted or burnt out?

Are you struggling to manage your stress levels?

Today, Jay talks about exhaustion, burnout, and stress, highlighting their prevalence with statistics showing that a significant portion of young adults and women report feeling drained. He introduces a practical approach to tackle these challenges, encapsulated in the "triple A" formula—Accept, Action, Attention—which encourages acknowledging negative feelings, taking actionable steps to address them, and paying mindful attention to one's mental state

Jay also introduces the concept of "reset periods," whether it's an hour, half-day, or full day, to allow for complete mental and physical rejuvenation. The importance of self-compassion is also emphasized, encouraging individuals to replace inner criticism with supportive self-talk, which can significantly improve overall well-being.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to break negative thought cycle

How to manage your energy levels

How to use stress strategically

How to practice self-compassion

How to get out of stressful situation

Don’t let exhaustion control your life—take action today and start feeling refreshed and empowered. Listen now and share with someone who needs a boost!

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

01:06 Do You Feel Drained?

03:10 #1: Learn to Break Repetitive Thoughts

06:27 #2: You Don’t Need to Be on Full Energy All the Time

10:20 #3: Learn to Say NO

14:05 #4: Be Strategic with Your Time

17:02 #5: Have a Reset Day

18:35 #6: Be Kind to Yourself

19:59 #7: Allow Yourself to Vent and Let It Out

21:24 #8: Get a Restful Sleep

23:00 #9: Wash Your Mind the Night Before

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