In this episode, I talk about the bad habit of being extra nice or giving star treatment to new women, just because they look good (i.e., simping). I also talk about some ways to beat this natural urge to put attractive women on pedestals (before they actually deserve it).

Why care about all of this? Because, with a new woman who is very attractive, you might be too “nice” to her or you might try being a total jerk (as a workaround for your niceness). Both approaches are bad. Listen now to learn more about the “right” moves with a woman who is extremely attractive.

Episode Notes:

RR44. Remember that no woman deserves to be put on a pedestal when she hasn’t really earned it.

• The Halo Effect = the behavior of automatically assigning positive values to someone, just because they look good.
• Good looks are not a reliable metric for guessing at intelligence, goodness, or personality in someone new.
• Putting a beautiful woman on a pedestal is something many guys do. If you do this, you may be lumped in with other unremarkable guys.
• When you talking to a woman who is beautiful, look for her imperfections and think about them.
• Don’t overcorrect your niceness tendency by being a mean jerk. Just be neutral and normal.

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Quote to Remember:

“Watch out for the Halo Effect because good looks don’t guarantee you’re getting quality or happiness over time.”

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