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Family devotions serve as both a source of laughter and a foundation for spiritual growth in our household of six kids. We share the humorous moments, the chaos, and the importance of creating a rule of life that prioritizes intentional living and meaningful connections during our family time.

• The hilarity of navigating sensitive topics during devotions
• Introducing the concept of a rule of life for intentional living
• Importance of dedicating time for family devotions every morning
• Kids affirming each other's character traits reflecting God’s attributes
• Implementing a weekly screen-free day to balance family activities
• A touching story about trusting God during a hurricane
• Embracing the messiness of family life while fostering spiritual growth

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This episode deepens the exploration of marriage dynamics through humor and personal stories while contrasting egalitarian and complementarian views. We advocate for a "servitarian" mindset, emphasizing love as mutual service and commitment over rigid roles, encouraging listeners to view their relationships through this lens of selflessness.

• Reflecting on early memories of dancing and humorous moments
• Exploring and defining egalitarianism and complementarianism
• Introducing the concept of “servitarian” as a new perspective
• Sharing personal anecdotes highlighting transformative moments in marriage
• Emphasizing the importance of serving one another
• Encouraging couples to embrace love in all its messiness
• Promoting a resource for deeper exploration of scripture

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Through a joyful recap of their experiences at the Creative Legacy Conference, we explore the themes of creativity and calling. With insights from engaging speakers, personal stories, and valuable reflections, we encourage listeners to step out of their comfort zones and embrace their creative potential while fostering community among fellow artists.

• Key highlights from various speakers and their inspiring messages
• Importance of planning and creating intentional spaces for creativity
• Liz's talk about transition and trading comfort for calling
• Emphasizing the need to overcome fear in creative expression
• Creating space for "Boredom" to fuel family creativity
• The significance of community and collaboration in creative endeavors

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Who knew a rubber rat could spark such hilarity in our household? Join us as we share the chaos of losing Mama Jean, our beloved chicken, to a fox, and the unexpected levity that followed when Liz stumbled upon what she thought was a real rat during a cleaning spree. The ensuing family prank involving the rubber rodent added a much-needed dose of humor and surprise to our bustling lives, filled with homeschooling, running two businesses, and caring for our farm. Every day is an adventure, and these moments remind us of the vibrant tapestry of family life.

Beyond the laughter, we explore meaningful discussions on unoffendability and cultural redemption. Inspired by the humorous yet profound writings of an extraordinary individual on the autism spectrum, we reflect on the modern epidemic of taking offense and how letting go of righteous anger can be liberating. Unpack the societal implications of holding grudges and learn from personal anecdotes like our "furniture story," which highlights how offense can seep into everyday relationships. Join us on this journey of humor, healing, and heartfelt conversations, and discover how embracing forgiveness can transform not just our own lives but the broader culture too.

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Have you ever found yourself face-to-face with a snake in your chicken coop, and wondered what parenting and farming have in common? Get ready for a rollercoaster ride as we recount our snake saga—complete with startled kids and a paper-bagged snake in our living room. This amusing adventure is just one colorful page in our family's story of homeschooling six kids while juggling two businesses. Listen in as we tackle the chaos of homestead life and ponder whether we’re truly cut out for the farming world.

Looking to reignite the spark in your relationship? Discover how our "we Retreat" concept can help you and your partner reconnect and realign your future goals. We share how stepping away from the daily grind for some intentional couple time has transformed our marriage. From long car rides to structured retreats, find out how carving out these moments has enhanced our clarity and connection amidst life's whirlwind, offering insights that could enrich your own partnership.

On a mission for shared success, we delve into the art of setting "we goals" and aligning them with our financial plans for the future. Learn how regular check-ins and a sprinkle of faith have kept our family vision on track. As we share our journey, we encourage you to embrace your own beautiful mess alongside us—and maybe even find a little blessing in the chaos.

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Can a single strategy like teaching first-time obedience make parenting smoother? On "One Blessed Mess," we navigate the whirlwind of raising six kids, managing businesses, homeschooling, and dealing with a house full of pets. We relive a delightful holiday mishap with a niece’s creative spin on a nativity decal, underscoring how lively and unpredictable family life can be. We focus on how instilling first-time obedience in our children has laid a strong foundation of respect and understanding of authority, making teenage transitions less tumultuous and freeing up energy for other parenting challenges.

Our anniversary trip to Southern Ireland offers a scenic backdrop to discuss universal parenting challenges, such as handling public tantrums, inspired by our encounter with the charming yet tantrum-prone four-year-old Ezra. As we explore themes of obedience, authority, and masculinity, insights from Brant Hanson's "The Men We Need" (paid link) emphasize the role of fathers as protectors. We aim to change societal perceptions about family life by welcoming single individuals to experience the joys and chaos of our home. Through personal stories, like crisis schooling during COVID, we illustrate how deliberate parenting strategies enhance family harmony and deepen relationships.

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(Welcome to our new podcast! We are dropping 4 episodes initial but stay tuned for a weekly release every Friday.)

What if the secret to a harmonious household with six kids lies in the seemingly old-fashioned concept of first-time obedience? Discover how our chaotic, stressed-filled home turned into a place of peace and respect as we share our transformative journey with this strategy. Join us as we recount the vibrant, sometimes overwhelming, atmosphere of raising children close in age and how we stumbled upon the parenting technique that changed everything.

Learn the ins and outs of implementing first-time obedience without turning your kids into robots. We'll tackle the potential pitfalls of this approach, sharing personal anecdotes and practical tips to maintain authority while nurturing independent thinking. We highlight the importance of swift responses, especially in safety situations, and offer humorous tales, including one about our daughter's theatrical defiance over a mundane task.

Embrace life's beautiful messiness with us as we explore the blessings hidden in imperfections. Our tales of Sunday brunches and cherished family traditions reveal how consistent routines can reinforce positive behavior and prepare kids for public settings. By the end of this episode, we hope to inspire you to see challenges as growth opportunities and encourage you to connect with us on Instagram at @our1blessedmess for more updates and inspiration. Let's find the beauty in our unique and blessed mess together!

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(Welcome to our new podcast! We are dropping 4 episodes initial but stay tuned for a weekly release every Friday.)

Can you imagine balancing the chaos of nearly five teenagers, homeschooling, and a flock of chickens, all while unraveling the mystery of a genetic mutation within your family? Join us on a rollercoaster adventure through our lively household, where towering laundry piles and staggering grocery bills are just the beginning. We take you on a journey of unexpected discoveries, sharing the moment we learned about Ben's unique genetic makeup and the peculiar hospital call that sparked our curiosity. Prepare for laughter, surprises, and a peek into the whirlwind that is our daily life.

Ever wondered how a single diagnosis can shift your entire perspective on parenting? We candidly recount our emotional experiences navigating our son's autism diagnosis, transforming what initially felt like an insurmountable challenge into a celebration of his unique gifts, like his perfect pitch. Our stories include heartwarming and humorous insights into therapies that helped us embrace our son's individuality. This episode is a testament to finding joy in the unexpected and appreciating the quirks that make our family truly special.

To find out more about the "Son‑Rise Program" mentioned in this episode, see https://autismtreatmentcenter.org/what-is-the-son-rise-program/

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