As a child, I counted the days until my next birthday. Most of us did, tired of hearing “you’re not old enough to do that.”

Then we hit a certain age, and all we want to do is roll back the clock. Pursue youth at all costs.

Why is that?

Who decided that young is good and old is bad? Why have we internalized it to our own detriment? And how do we reclaim aging as a positive force in our lives?

My guest this week answers those questions and more in her brilliant new book, Radiant Rebellion: Reclaim Aging, Practice Joy, and Raise a Little Hell.“ And she does it based on research.

A Familiar Voice

Karen Walrond is familiar to the Our Voices Matter community. The attorney turned leadership coach, turned activist and author has helped thousands around the world find purpose and meaning in their lives.

She has shared her insight and wisdom on Brené Brown’s Unlocking Us podcast, on the Oprah Winfrey Show , PBS, the Huffington Post and CNN.com.

And lucky us, she has graced Our Voices Matter with her penetrating perspective in previous episodes where we discussed her book, The Lightmaker’s Manifesto: How to Work for Change without Losing Your Joy.

And another episode when her daughter, Alex, joined us in conversation.

And now, this episode. Like a parent who is asked “which child is your favorite”, I’d give the safe answer – I love them all equally. But truth be told — this one is my favorite.

Liberating

I found this conversation — and her book — to be liberating.

When you listen, you’ll understand what I mean.

Ageism is real. It permeates every aspect of our lives, forcing others’s unwanted perspectives on our value as humans. And there’s a special brand of this reserved for women.

Well, I don’t know about you but I’ve had it. I’m done.

I am reclaiming my aging.

I urge you to do the same.

Because our broken world needs all that each of us has to give, and that capacity doesn’t end when we hit the arbitrary age of 65.

Indeed, for many of us, it’s just beginning.

Would love to know how you feel about this topic. Follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn and share your thoughts.

I can’t wait to continue this conversation with you.

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This podcast is devoted to empowering us all to better understand each other's differences...one story at a time. Emmy Award-winning journalist, Linda Lorelle, guides guests through insightful, unexpected conversations that reveal our common humanity. This show is not about politics per se; it is about finding a way to reclaim civility in the context of the contentious times in which we live, by sharing our personal and professional stories, in hopes that others might find a glimpse of themselves.

As American school children, we learned it by heart, and recited it every day.

"I pledge allegiance to the flag of the United States of America..."

But how often did we then, and do we now, think about the meaning behind the words? "...one nation. Under God. Indivisible, with liberty and justice for all."

Indivisible

What does it mean to be indivisible? It's a question Denise Hamilton explores with intelligence, empathy and disarming approachability in her groundbreaking debut as an author.

"Indivisible: How to Forge Our Differences into a Stronger Future" grabs you by the throat on page one of the Prologue, and doesn't let you go.

Through deft storytelling, research and personal reflection, Hamilton challenges us to re-think what it means to build diversity and inclusion in a polarized world where the words and the concepts are increasingly demonized.

It's Not About a Checklist

Hamilton is a nationally recognized workplace culture and DEI expert, and CEO of WatchHerWork, a digital learning platform for professional women.

She has helped hundreds of companies recognize that meeting their DEI goals, if they still have them, is not about a checklist.

It's about helping organizations figure out what their guiding principles are -- and whether they choose to act on them.

It's about maximizing the gifts of everyone involved so that they and the organization can thrive.

Beyond the Workplace

What's so powerful about Hamilton's approach is that it applies far beyond the workplace into every aspect of our relationships, both professional and personal.

The book is chock full of examples that allow you to see yourself in a given scenario, and then challenges you to re-examine your beliefs.

It reveals the power within each of us to enact positive change, and gives us the tools to do so.

Denise is a return guest who first shared her thoughtful perspective with the OVM community shortly after we launched.

We couldn't be more proud to have Denise back to share her powerful new book.

It's exactly what we need to help unify our fractured world.

What is driving the recent conflict on college campuses? One obvious factor is reaction to the Israel-Hamas War.

But my guest this week isn’t sure it’s quite that simple. 

As CEO of the non-profit, BridgeUSA, 25 year-old Manu Meel is in constant contact with students on more than 70 campuses across the country.

The organization helps facilitate conversations among college and high school students with idealogical differences.

In the days and weeks following the October 7th massacre of Israelis by Hamas, Bridge USA heard plenty from its student members.

“There was a lot of pain, there was a lot of confusion as to what to do on campus,” says Manu. “And then as the news cycle started going and as what I call the elite Twitter crowd went to play, and as people started to essentially lose sight of what had happened and focus on what’s the broader implication, what’s my tribe going to say and how do I make the most of this moment — I think then you saw that trickle down into campuses. “

Tribal Politics on Campus 
Political protest on campus is nothing new. 

But America’s tribal politics have reached a fever pitch, finding a fertile home where the freedom to explore and express, typically a welcome right of passage, is now emblazoned with an asterisk.

*Speak your mind at the risk of being demonized by “the other”.

*Explore divergent points of view at the risk of angering your tribe.

*Express your opinion at the risk of being cancelled, or worse..

Glimmer of Hope
It’s no surprise that the tension on college campuses is a microcosm of the tension in America.

But there is a glimmer of hope, Manu assures us, and it’s on these very college campuses.

It’s just that we don’t often hear about it in the media.

You’ll hear about it now as Manu helps unpack the nuances of this complex topic.

This remarkable young leader kicks off the 6th year of Our Voices Matter, sharing thoughtful insight on the generation tasked with leading us into the future.

One that will hopefully remind us how to have civil, constructive conversations with those who look and think differently than we do.

A future where we celebrate and embrace our common humanity rather than blind allegiance to our tribes.

www.ourvoicesmatterpodcast.com
www.lorellemedia.com


This podcast is devoted to empowering us all to better understand each other's differences...one story at a time. Emmy Award-winning journalist, Linda Lorelle, guides guests through insightful, unexpected conversations that reveal our common humanity. This show is not about politics per se; it is about finding a way to reclaim civility in the context of the contentious times in which we live, by sharing our personal and professional stories, in hopes that others might find a glimpse of themselves.