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  • EP 31 Autism Diagnosis Grief: What Parents Need to Know
    2024/11/26
    Summary: Dr. Nikki and Jarrod get personal about their parenting journey, sharing raw and honest reflections on raising a neurodiverse child. They discuss the emotional challenges of parenting, insights from a recent couples therapy session where they opened up about their son Jake’s development, and the importance of understanding asynchronous growth in autism. Together, they explore themes of grief, the power of support networks, and the critical role of self-care in navigating life’s complexities. Whether you're parenting a neurodiverse child or navigating life’s ups and downs, this episode offers heartfelt takeaways and practical strategies. Key Topics Covered Navigating the Holiday Season: Why emotions feel amplified and how to find moments of calm amidst the chaos.Insights from Couples Therapy: How discussing Jake’s development deepened their connection as a couple and shaped their parenting perspective.Understanding Growth and Regression: The natural rhythms of development in children and how to stay grounded through the highs and lows.Asynchronous Development in Autism: Breaking down what it means and why it’s essential for parenting neurodiverse children.Grief and Parenting: How to process feelings of uncertainty, loss, and love when parenting feels overwhelming.The Importance of Self-Care: Practical ways to prioritize your well-being so you can show up fully for your family.Balancing Optimism and Reality: Staying hopeful while honoring the challenges of daily life. Takeaways for Listeners The holiday season can amplify parenting stress, but mindfulness and boundaries help create calm.Couples therapy is a powerful tool for navigating the emotional dynamics of parenting.Asynchronous development in children with autism presents unique challenges and opportunities.Grief is a natural part of parenting and deserves space for acknowledgment and processing.Building a reliable support network is essential for emotional and practical resilience.Self-care is non-negotiable for showing up as your best self in parenting and partnerships.Communication and vulnerability strengthen family relationships and help navigate challenges.Embracing neurodiversity fosters deeper connection, acceptance, and growth within families.Parenting requires balance—between addressing your needs, your child’s needs, and the family’s overall dynamics.Prioritizing your own growth equips you to lead and support others effectively. Chapters 00:00 - Navigating the Holiday Season 00:58 - Couples Therapy Insights 01:54 - Navigating Growth and Regression in Development 08:32 - Understanding Asynchronous Development in Autism 14:30 - Embracing Grief and Uncertainty 21:21 - Prioritizing Self-Care 30:03 - Balancing Hope and Reality 35:15 - Leading Yourself First Connect with Us Love this episode? Follow us on Instagram @overdinpodcast for more behind-the-scenes insights and meaningful discussions. Leave a review on your favorite podcast platform—your feedback helps us grow and create more episodes like this! Check out past episodes and related blog posts: Blog Post: Hi, I'm Nikki. I'm an Autism Mom.Blog Post: A Mother's Journey with Autism: Navigating Grief, Acceptance, and GrowthBlog Post: Parenting with Purpose: A Neurodiversity Affirming Approach To Advocacy, ABA therapy, and moreBlog Post: What Every Mom Needs To Hear After An Autism Diagnosis Episode 10 Season 1: Navigating Autism- Raising a Neurodiverse Child Episode 11 Season 1: Supporting Your Autisitc Child - Building a Strong Team
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    37 分
  • Unlocking Your Creative Potential: A 4-Step Process for Leaders and Growth Seekers with Jarrod Sammet
    2024/11/19

    In this episode, Jarrod Sammet delves into the significance of creativity in personal development and leadership. He emphasizes that everyone possesses inherent creativity and underscores the necessity of allocating time and space to nurture this potential. Jarrod introduces a four-step process to enhance creativity:

    1. Identify Your Optimal Thinking Time: Recognize when you're most mentally alert and creative.
    2. Protect That Time: Safeguard these periods from distractions to focus on creative endeavors.
    3. Run Experiments: Engage in trials to explore new ideas and approaches.
    4. Learn from Failures: View setbacks as opportunities for growth and refinement.

    He also discusses the role of emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and empathy in both personal and professional relationships. Jarrod advocates for a proactive approach to emotional experiences, encouraging listeners to learn from every experience and view challenges as opportunities for growth and connection.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Everyone is inherently creative, whether they realize it or not.
    • Intentionality and dedicated time are crucial for fostering creativity.
    • Leaders should prioritize reflection and creative thinking.
    • Identifying and protecting your prime creative time enhances productivity.
    • Documenting persistent thoughts can reveal underlying patterns.
    • Collaborating with others can enrich the creative process.
    • Experimentation is vital for learning and personal growth.
    • Embracing failure as a natural part of creativity leads to development.
    • Personal growth and effective leadership are deeply connected to creativity.

    For further insights, you can explore Jarrod Sammet's articles on LinkedIn and other episodes, where he discusses related topics:

    1. "Positivity is a Strategy": Jarrod explores the complexities of human emotions, focusing on the challenges of negative emotions and the concept of toxic positivity.

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    2. "The Journey of Personal Growth": He reflects on his personal journey of growth and the challenges of dealing with negative emotions.

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    3. "The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership": Jarrod discusses the importance of emotional intelligence for effective leadership and empathy.

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    24 分
  • EP 29 U.S. Election Aftermath: Trump vs. Harris, Cultivating Empathy, and Challenging Beliefs
    2024/11/12
    Episode Summary:

    In this candid conversation, Jarrod and Dr. Nikki reflect on their emotional journey following the 2024 U.S. Election. They dive into the complexities of navigating personal relationships amidst political turmoil, discussing how empathy, curiosity, and open communication play a crucial role. The discussion also touches on the transformative impact of therapy in helping understand differing political perspectives. Together, they explore how embracing confusion can lead to personal growth, especially in the face of a divided political landscape.

    Key Takeaways:
    • Nikki and Jarrod aren’t relationship or political experts; they’re simply sharing real, honest conversations based on personal experience.
    • The last two years, especially since the Midterms, have felt like an emotional roller coaster.
    • Everything in life is temporary; it’s an ever-flowing experience shaped by change.
    • Curiosity over judgment is the key to understanding others’ beliefs and viewpoints.
    • They ask themselves tough questions: “What are we missing that we’re not looking into?”
    • It’s possible to respect people with differing opinions without needing to spend time with them.
    • Confusion isn’t a bad thing; it’s actually a sign of growth and evolving perspectives.
    • Life is about continuing to grow through uncomfortable and challenging situations.
    • It’s possible to maintain strong relationships while respecting political differences.

    Resources from episode:

    The Trump agenda: Here’s what to expect from his second term politico article

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    Keywords Integrated: U.S. Election, political turmoil, empathy, curiosity, therapy, personal growth, political perspectives, Midterms, relationships, political differences.

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  • EP 28: Election 2024 Navigating Political Differences in Relationships
    2024/11/04

    Summary
    In this episode, Jarrod and Dr. Nikki engage in a candid conversation about the upcoming election, exploring themes of optimism, the impact of political decisions on personal relationships, and the importance of reproductive rights. They discuss the significance of basic human needs in political discourse and reflect on how their values and beliefs have evolved over time. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of respect and understanding in navigating political differences, particularly within relationships and families and concludes with a call to action for listeners to participate in the electoral process.

    Takeaways

    • Nauseating optimism reflects the anxiety surrounding elections.
    • The outcome of elections can significantly impact personal relationships.
    • Reproductive rights encompass a broader experience of womanhood.
    • Basic human needs should be prioritized in political discussions.
    • Understanding differing political views requires empathy and communication.
    • Pro-choice is about giving individuals the right to choose.
    • Respect and understanding are crucial for civil discourse.
    • Navigating political differences in relationships can be challenging but necessary.
    • It's important to engage in conversations about values and beliefs.
    • Voting is a fundamental right that should be exercised.

    Resources from epsiode:

    Jarrod's Solo Epsiode

    Can 1 Woke Teen Survive 20 Trump Supporters? | Surrounded

    1 Republican vs. 25 Kamala Harris Voters (Feat. Ben Shapiro) | Surrounded

    Chapters:

    Chapters
    00:00 Navigating Optimism and Anxiety in Politics
    01:03 The Role of Social Media in Shaping Perspectives
    04:14 The Importance of Choice and Agency in Democracy
    06:44 Personal Experiences and Political Engagement
    08:22 Reproductive Rights and Women's Healthcare
    10:00 Understanding Privilege in Political Discussions
    12:02 The Evolution of Political Views
    14:33 The Impact of Relationships on Political Perspectives
    16:11 Basic Human Needs and Political Choices
    17:55 The Complexity of Political Beliefs
    19:33 The Journey of Understanding Pro-Choice
    21:18 The Influence of Upbringing on Political Views
    22:23 Empathy and Understanding in Political Discourse
    24:34 The Current Political Climate and Unity
    27:19 Maintaining Relationships Amidst Political Differences
    28:38 Navigating Political Differences in Relationships
    29:18 The Impact of Family Dynamics on Political Views
    31:11 Strategies for Respectful Political Conversations
    32:04 The Challenge of Trust in Political Relationships
    35:30 Understanding Different Perspectives in Politics
    39:44 The Role of Empathy in Political Discourse
    42:55 Finding Common Ground Amidst Political Tensions

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    46 分
  • EP 27 Breaking Free from Toxic Positivity: Embracing Real Emotions for Growth
    2024/10/29

    Summary

    In this episode, Jarrod Sammet explores the complexities of human emotions, particularly focusing on the challenges of negative emotions and the concept of toxic positivity. He emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and empathy in both personal and professional relationships. Jarrod discusses the distinction between positivity as a strategy and optimism as mere hope, advocating for a proactive approach to emotional experiences. He encourages listeners to learn from every experience, viewing challenges as opportunities for growth and connection.

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    Takeaways

    • Jarrod emphasizes the importance of sharing human experiences to connect with others.

    • He reflects on his personal journey of growth and the challenges of dealing with negative emotions.

    • Toxic positivity can hinder relationships by invalidating others' feelings.

    • Creating a gap between stimulus and response is crucial for emotional processing.

    • Emotional intelligence is key for effective leadership and empathy.

    • Understanding and feeling emotions is essential for personal growth.

    • Every experience, good or bad, has a lesson to teach us.

    • Positivity should be viewed as a strategy rather than blind optimism.

    • Self-awareness allows for better emotional regulation and connection with others.

    • Learning from experiences can empower individuals to teach others.

    Resources

    Positivity is a Strategy Jarrod's Linkedin Article

    Chapters

    Chapters 00:00

    Introduction to the Human Experience 00:27

    The Journey of Personal Growth 01:43

    Understanding Toxic Positivity 05:15

    Distinguishing Positivity from Optimism 08:15

    Creating a Gap for Emotional Processing 09:57

    The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership 12:08

    The Challenge of Vulnerability in Men 13:01

    Positivity as a Strategy for Life 16:17

    Learning from Every Experience

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    20 分
  • EP 26 Personal Development: There's Not One Way To Achieve Growth with Dr. Nikki Sammet
    2024/10/22

    Summary

    In this episode of the Over Dinner Podcast, Dr. Nikki Sammet shares her personal journey of self-discovery and growth, highlighting three transformative tools: IFS therapy, human design, and writing. She discusses the importance of understanding oneself, embracing change, and the power of personal development. Through her experiences, she emphasizes the significance of self-acceptance and the unique paths individuals take in their growth journeys.

    Takeaways

    • Personal growth requires finding what works for you.

    • Self-acceptance is crucial for personal development.

    • IFS therapy helps in understanding and integrating different parts of oneself.

    • Human design provides a blueprint for how to operate in the world.

    • Writing serves as a powerful tool for reflection and emotional processing.

    • Embracing change can be uncomfortable but is essential for growth.

    • Each person's journey of growth is unique and personal.

    • Understanding ADHD can lead to better self-acceptance.

    • Creating a dedicated space for writing can enhance creativity and healing.

    • Symbols of transformation can guide personal development.

    Related Resources

    Unleashing Your Inner Self With IFS Therapy Blog Post

    Unlock Your True Self: A Beginners Guide To Human Design

    What Nik Knows Blog

    Dr. Nikki on Medium

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    29 分
  • EP 25 How To Take Control of Your Life with Jarrod Sammet
    2024/10/15

    Summary

    In this solo episode, Jarrod Sammet reflects on his personal growth journey, focusing on the impact of alcohol on his relationships, the importance of taking ownership of one's actions, and the transformative power of meditation. He discusses how blocking negative emotions can hinder the experience of joy and happiness, and emphasizes the need to challenge personal beliefs and narratives. Jarrod highlights the concept of agency, encouraging listeners to view life's challenges as opportunities for growth and learning.

    Takeaways

    • Jarrod emphasizes the importance of understanding the root causes of behaviors, such as alcohol use.
    • He reflects on how blocking negative emotions also blocks positive emotions.
    • Taking ownership of one's actions is crucial for personal growth.
    • Meditation has been a transformative practice for Jarrod, providing clarity and agency.
    • Challenging personal beliefs is essential for understanding one's perspective on life.
    • Jarrod encourages self-reflection to understand the stories we tell ourselves.
    • He highlights the importance of agency in navigating life's challenges.
    • Life's challenges can be viewed as opportunities for growth.
    • There is a balance between good and bad experiences in life.
    • Jarrod is committed to ongoing personal development and self-discovery.

    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to Personal Growth Journey

    01:16 Understanding the Impact of Alcohol on Relationships

    03:50 Taking Ownership and Responsibility

    06:09 The Role of Meditation in Personal Development

    08:44 Challenging Beliefs and Stories

    11:30 Agency and Perspective in Life

    14:13 Life's Dualities: Embracing Both Good and Bad

    Resources:

    EP 5 Season 1: How Your Beliefs About Yourself Hold You Back And What You Can Do About It

    EP 2 Season 1: It's Not Easy To Shift Your Mindset...Here's How You Can Start

    The Tim Ferriss Show: #767

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    19 分
  • EP 24 How Alcohol Affects Your Relationship Even After You Stop Drinking
    2024/10/08

    Summary

    In this episode, Jarrod and Dr. Nikki discuss their experiences in couples therapy, focusing on unresolved trauma from their early relationship and the impact of alcohol on their dynamics. They explore how past experiences resurface in their current lives, the importance of communication and trust, and the deep emotional work required to heal and grow together. Through their candid conversation, they highlight the challenges and breakthroughs that come with addressing long-standing issues in a relationship.

    Takeaways

    • Unresolved trauma can resurface even after years.
    • Emotional experiences often have physical manifestations.
    • Healing requires understanding and compassion from both partners.
    • Communication is key to navigating trust issues.
    • Past experiences shape current emotional responses.
    • Therapy can uncover deep-rooted feelings and traumas.
    • It's important to address the root causes of relationship problems.
    • Acknowledgment of feelings is crucial for healing.
    • Growth often comes from uncomfortable conversations.
    • Relationships require ongoing work and understanding.

    Mentioned on episode:

    Season 2 Opener

    EP 22 Jarrod's Birthday Episode

    How To Release Emotional Baggage

    Chapters:

    Chapters
    00:00
    Unresolved Trauma: A Journey Through Time
    04:49
    The Early Years: Love, Fun, and Alcohol
    09:36
    The Impact of Alcohol: A Deeper Understanding
    18:23
    The Shift: Moving to San Diego and New Beginnings
    25:59
    Therapy Insights: Acknowledgment and Communication
    36:19
    Takeaways: The Importance of Deep Work

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    42 分