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In this episode, we explore the complex and often hidden roots of self-sabotage. Why do we sometimes act in ways that go against our own best interests? Through insights from Torah, we unpack the underlying fears and limiting beliefs that contribute to self-sabotaging patterns. From procrastination to negative self-talk, self-sabotage can appear in many forms, subtly hindering our progress in both personal and professional realms.

Self-sabotage can ultimately hold us back from our true potential. By identifying its roots, we can begin the journey toward self-acceptance, resilience, and freedom from these limiting patterns.

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In this episode, we dive into the core elements that shape the Jewish spiritual experience. We explore the "DNA of Judaism" through three foundational concepts: the fear of God, the pursuit of self-mastery, and the Jewish perspective on our relationship with God. These principles not only frame Jewish spirituality but also serve as a guide for leading a meaningful and purpose-driven life. By unpacking each of these elements, we uncover how they connect deeply to our daily lives and to the greater purpose of Jewish faith.

Key Themes and Takeaways:

1. Fear of God: Reverence and Awe

- What It Means: Fear of God is often misunderstood as fear of punishment, but in Judaism, it’s about cultivating awe and respect for the Divine. This reverence shapes how we conduct ourselves, make decisions, and approach the ethical dimensions of life.

2. Self-Mastery:

- What It Means: In Jewish thought, self-mastery isn’t about suppressing our desires but rather elevating them to serve a greater good. It’s about self-discipline, resilience, and aligning our behavior with our values.

3. Our Relationship with God: Connection and Partnership

- What It Means: The Jewish relationship with God is built on a foundation of connection and partnership. Rather than seeing God as distant, we view the Divine as an active presence in our lives, guiding, supporting, and challenging us.

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Closing Thoughts:

Together, the fear of God, self-mastery, and our relationship with the Divine form the "DNA of Judaism." These elements remind us that our lives are not random but meaningful, with opportunities for growth, connection, and service. By integrating these principles into our lives, we carry the torch of Jewish wisdom and share its light with the world.

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We have a mitzvah to be happy on sukkot 1. How can we be told to be happy?? 2. Wouldn't having to sit in an uncomfortable sukkah detract from our happiness? Let's discover what happiness is and how to achieve it

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In this episode, ahead of Yom Kippur we take a deep dive into what it really takes to make meaningful, lasting changes in our lives. We’ll explore how we deal with failure, the role of effort and resilience in creating change, and the problems with procrastination. More importantly, we’ll share strategies to help you push through setbacks and make your efforts stick for the long term.

Some themes:

- Understanding failure as an inevitable part of any change journey.

- How to reframe failure not as a dead end, but as a learning experience that helps refine your approach.

- The importance of a growth mindset: viewing setbacks as opportunities for growth rather than reasons to quit.

- Why procrastination is often a barrier to change, leading to delay and avoidance.

- Recognizing the small wins along the way and celebrating progress, even if it’s not perfect.

- How to foster self-compassion throughout the process and give yourself grace while striving for progress.

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Change is hard, but it’s also possible with the right mindset, effort, and tools. This episode is a reminder that failure doesn’t mean you’ve reached the end of the road—it’s just a bump along the way. By pushing through procrastination, building resilience, and focusing on consistent effort, you can turn your goals into reality and make lasting change stick.

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In this episode, we dive into one of the most powerful stories of personal transformation in the Bible: the journey of Rachav (Rahab). Once known as a harlot in the city of Jericho, Rachav made a bold decision that changed her life forever. Her story challenges us to think about the capacity for change, redemption, and how people can rise above their past to embrace a new identity and purpose.

Lessons for Today

- What we can learn from Rachav’s story about personal change and transformation in our own lives.

- How to apply Rachav’s journey to our own lives, whether it’s through forgiveness, starting fresh, or encouraging others on their path to change.

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Are you allowed to vent? What about whistle-blowing?

This episode focuses on understanding the concept of lashon hara (negative speech) in Jewish ethics and exploring the seven conditions that make it permissible to speak negatively about someone—but only for a constructive reason (to’elet). The intention is to clarify when it is allowed to share information that would otherwise be considered lashon hara, ensuring the speech is used to prevent harm and promote positive outcomes.

• Definition: Lashon hara refers to speaking negatively about another person, even if the information is true. In Jewish ethics, this kind of speech is prohibited because of the potential harm it can cause to individuals and communities.
• Constructive Purpose: There are rare cases where it is permissible to share negative information, but only if it is done with the goal of preventing harm or achieving a positive outcome.

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What's so wrong with saying telling other people the truth about themselves? Should we worry about triggering other people?

We look at the impact of our words on other people and the 5 categories of forbidden speech in Jewish law.

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