Blending a family is never easy, but staying organised while juggling parenting, court hearings, and everyday life? That’s a whole other challenge. In this episode, I sit down with Ginger Dellaripa, co-founder of *The Family Core*, to talk about how she navigated the chaos of blended family life, gained full custody of her daughters, and found ways to create stability in the midst of uncertainty.

This episode was meant to be an interview, but from the moment Ginger and I started chatting, it felt more like catching up with an old friend. You know that feeling when you haven’t spoken in ages, but you pick up right where you left off? That was this conversation.

Ginger shares her experiences as both a stepmum and bio mum, how she handled co-parenting struggles, and the systems she used to keep everything from spiraling out of control. Whether you’re dealing with high-conflict co-parenting, feeling overwhelmed by schedules, or just looking for some practical advice, this episode is for you!

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Valentine’s Day can bring out the best—and the absolute worst—in relationships. In this episode, I’m joined once again by Kassandra from We Are Familyish as we dive into the epic Valentine’s Day fails from past relationships and the big wins we’ve experienced now that we’re in healthy, happy ones.

We’re sharing listener stories and our own personal experiences that highlight just how different love can feel when you’re with the right person. From absolute disasters and forgotten gifts to awkward arguments, sweet surprises, and thoughtful gestures, this episode is all about the contrast between toxic love and real, healthy connection.

If you’ve ever had a Valentine’s Day disaster—or finally experienced what it’s like to be truly appreciated—you’ll definitely relate to this one!

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This week’s episode is all about YOU! We’re diving into the stepmum anons you’ve sent in—real stories from stepmums navigating the ups and downs of blended family life. From hilarious moments to tough situations, we’re sharing it all and reacting to the experiences that make this rollercoaster so wild.

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In this episode, I’m catching up with my friend and author, Jyl Barlow, to talk about her latest book, Sparent (Spare Parent). Jyl shares what it means to be the "spare parent" in a blended family and how her personal experiences shaped this important work.

We also dive into the next chapter of her blended family journey following the sudden loss of her mother-in-law. Jyl opens up about navigating grief, the unexpected dynamics with her kids and their biological mother, and the challenges that have unfolded since her mother-in-law’s passing.

From the emotional fallout to her daughter Amelia taking a step back from the family, this episode offers a raw and real look at the ups and downs of blended family life. Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation as Jyl shares her insights on parenting, resilience, and the evolving dynamics of family.

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In this heartfelt and insightful episode, Toni and Lauren dive into a topic that resonates deeply with many blended families: how life in a blended household affects the 'ours' babies. These children, biologically shared by the couple, grow up in a unique dynamic filled with both blessings and challenges.

Toni opens up about her personal experience as an 'ours' baby, offering a raw and honest look at sibling dynamics, age gaps, and the emotional complexities of growing up in a blended family. Lauren adds her perspective, reflecting on her hopes and concerns about raising her daughter in a blended household.

Together, they tackle common struggles faced by 'ours' babies and their siblings—like sibling jealousy, time-sharing dynamics, and finding their place in a blended family. You’ll also hear moving listener stories that shed light on the realities of raising 'ours' babies in a blended world.

Tune in as Toni and Lauren share practical tips to support your 'ours' babies and ensure every family member feels loved, valued, and included. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting challenges, sibling rivalry, or simply trying to create harmony, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement.

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It’s a brand-new year and in this episode of Raising His Kids! Toni and Lauren tackle one of the most challenging aspects of stepparenting—resentment. Whether it’s feeling overshadowed by the biological mother, dealing with unmet expectations, or struggling with the emotional weight of being a stepmother, resentment is a feeling many of us know all too well.

Toni and Lauren share their personal experiences with resentment, unpack listener questions, and provide strategies to help stepmothers acknowledge and move past these feelings. From setting healthy boundaries and prioritising self-care to letting go of the “first place” mentality, this episode is packed with practical tips to help you navigate resentment and foster stronger relationships within your blended family.

This episode also includes some big news—Lauren shares a personal announcement, while Toni talks about the future of Raising His Kids and her vision for keeping it a safe, supportive space for blended families.

Grab your coffee or your wine, and join us for an honest, heartfelt discussion about one of the hardest parts on this Stepmother Rollercoaster.

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Happy New Year and welcome to the first episode of 2025! With Lauren away for this episode, Toni is joined by her good friend Bekks as they reflect on their Christmas and New Year celebrations with their families. In this heartfelt episode, they also share intentions for the year ahead and hear from listeners about their own holiday experiences.

⚠️ Trigger Warning: Toward the end of the episode, there is a sensitive discussion about miscarriage, as one listener shares the heartbreaking loss of their baby on the cusp of the new year.

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As we close out 2024, join us for our final episode of the year! This week, we’re reflecting on the challenges, wins, and lessons from the past 12 months, sharing what we’re leaving behind, and setting intentions for the new year.

We’ll dive into personal stories, listener reflections, and heartfelt goals for 2025. From letting go of resentment and grudges to prioritizing self-care and saying yes to new opportunities, this episode is packed with inspiration for stepping into the new year with purpose.

Whether you’re ringing in 2025 with champagne, coffee, or a cozy night at home, this episode is the perfect way to reflect, reset, and get ready for a fresh start.

Thank you for being part of our journey this year—we couldn’t do this without you! Here’s to a new year full of intention, positivity, and maybe just a little less chaos.

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