The holidays can stir up all kinds of emotions after divorce — loneliness, pressure, old memories, and moments that hit way harder than expected. In this episode, Dana gets real about what this season can feel like… and how God meets us right in the middle of it.

She walks you through the “rebuilding bricks” God gave her over the last few years, how those words held her steady when circumstances didn’t, and why intentionally redirecting the mind is a powerful part of healing. You’ll also hear how the valley of dry bones in Ezekiel isn’t just a dramatic Bible moment — it’s a picture of what happens when we speak God’s truth over situations that look completely lifeless.

Dana also shares new research on gratitude and how it literally transforms the brain — from boosting dopamine and serotonin to calming emotional triggers and helping you shift your perspective. It’s wild how God designed us to heal from the inside out.

If you remember Episode 33, this episode builds on that foundation of praying Scripture out loud and watching the atmosphere change. Dana ties it all together for this holiday season, reminding you that you don’t have to pretend things aren’t hard — but you can choose what you cling to.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why redirecting your thoughts is both simple and hard — and why it matters
• How gratitude rewires your brain (yes, literally)
• What Ezekiel’s dry bones teach us about speaking life over impossible situations
• How the Word of God becomes your anchor when emotions try to run the show
• Ways to prepare your heart for the holidays after divorce without shutting down emotionally

Listen in if you need:

• Hope for the holiday season
• A reminder of God’s faithfulness
• Practical tools to calm your mind and emotions
• A nudge to speak life over the places that feel dry or heavy
• Encouragement to believe again — even in a tough season

Resources Mentioned:

• Episode 33: How Praying the Word Shifts Your Atmosphere
• Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce — available on Dana’s website

Scriptures: Ezekiel 37:4–5, Hebrews 4:12

If this episode encourages you, share it with a friend who’s navigating a hard holiday season. You never know who needs a reminder that God rebuilds, restores, and breathes life into what feels lost.

In Service to Him,

Dana

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In today’s episode, we’re talking about something simple, steady, and powerful: how to build a prayer focus after divorce, one word at a time—just like laying bricks on a wall.

For years, the Lord has given me one or two “focus words” each year, along with scriptures that anchor my prayers. What I didn’t realize until recently was how each word built on the last… and how God was quietly rebuilding my life brick by brick.

In this episode, I’m walking you through my yearly “bricks” from 2020 to now—Hope, Endurance, Rebuilding, Transition, Focus, Shepherding, Obedience, and more—and showing you how this simple practice became a blueprint for healing after divorce.

Inside this episode:

• Why we’re seeing so much shaking in the world—and why righteousness comes before revival
• How yearly “focus words” create a stable prayer foundation
• The scriptures God used to rebuild me over the last five years
• How to receive your own word for the coming year
• A prayer over your healing and your future

In His Service,

Dana

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Have you ever realized that the pain you carry might be protecting you—but also holding you back? In this episode, Dana dives into how unresolved hurt can become armor, keeping us from fully embracing God’s love and grace. Drawing from personal experiences with judgment, gossip, and navigating post-divorce relationships, Dana shares how the Lord revealed hidden wounds, guided her to Isaiah 50:4-7, and showed her how to replace painful armor with a banner of His love.

Learn practical ways to:

• Recognize where pain has become a defense mechanism in your life.
• Release offense and judgment from others.
• Stand strong in God’s grace and truth, even when others’ words sting.
• Cover yourself and others with God’s love instead of armor.

If you’ve been carrying pain as a shield, this episode is a gentle, powerful reminder that God’s love heals, restores, and transforms.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

Scriptures Referenced:

• Isaiah 50:4-7
• 2 Timothy 2
• Song of Solomon 2:4
• Psalm 139:23-24
• 1 Peter 4:8

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Amazon:

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Healing After Divorce ebook

https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

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