Pain has a way of reshaping how we see the world—especially after divorce. In this episode, we explore how living from pain instead of God’s truth can quietly delay healing, purpose, and forward movement.

Using Matthew 28 and the story of the women at the tomb, we unpack how grief distorted their expectations—and how we often do the same thing when we’ve been wounded. They came prepared to bury what they believed was dead, unaware that resurrection had already happened.

If you’ve been navigating life with a broken compass—led by emotions, fear, or past experiences—this episode will help reorient you back to true north: the Word of God.

This is a call to stop carrying spices for what God has already promised to raise, to trust that the stone has already been rolled away, and to step into healing with faith instead of fear.

In This Episode, You’ll Hear:

• The difference between your truth and God’s truth
• Why pain can distort perspective and delay purpose
• How the women at the tomb forgot Jesus’ promise—and how we often do the same
• What it means to stop praying only from pain and start praying with expectation
• Why emotions make a terrible compass after divorce
• How God is already working on obstacles you’re still worrying about
• The danger of carrying “grave clothes” into your future
• How to leave the past at the foot of the cross and press forward

Key Scriptures Referenced:

• Matthew 28:1–8 – The women at the tomb and the rolled-away stone
• Hebrews 11:1 – Faith as the substance of things hoped for
• Isaiah 65:24 – God answering before we even call
• Philippians 3:13–14 – Forgetting what is behind and pressing forward
• Psalm 91:1 – Dwelling in the shelter of the Most High
• Psalm 34:18 – The Lord is near to the brokenhearted
• Hebrews 13:5 – God will never leave or forsake you

Reflection Questions:

• Are you living by God’s truth—or by pain-shaped emotions?
• What are you still carrying spices for that God has already promised to raise?
• Are you focused on past hurt so much that you’re missing future purpose?
• What truth will you take into your next season?

Call to Action: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may be stuck between pain and purpose. And remember—resurrection isn’t something you earn. It’s something you receive when you trust His truth over yours.

We are the fragrance of Christ,

Dana

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In Service,

Dana

Guest: Mrs. Janis (J.D.) Denis Book: Stories From the Heart, Vol. 1

Episode Overview

Have you ever been mad at God in the middle of—or after—your divorce? Have you wrestled with forgiveness and wondered why it feels so painfully hard?

If so, this episode is for you. ☕ Grab your favorite beverage and settle in for a raw, honest, and deeply healing conversation.

In Episode 76 of Rise & Reclaim After Divorce, Dana sits down with author, speaker, and worship leader Mrs. Janis Denis to talk about real faith for real pain. Janis doesn’t sugarcoat the journey—she shares honestly about anger toward God, feeling abandoned after divorce, and the long road toward forgiveness and freedom.

About Today’s Guest

Mrs. Janis Denis (often known as J.D. Denis) is the author of Stories From the Heart, Vol. 1. She is a powerful speaker, worship leader, and storyteller who uses real language to talk about real-life heartbreak—and the radical love of God that meets us right there.

Dana introduces Janis by reading the back of her book because, honestly, you can’t improve on perfection.

What We Cover in This Episode

Conversation Highlights

• Radically Loved by God Janis shares when she first truly “got it”—the moment she realized just how radically loved she is by God.
• The Story Behind the Words (Pages 8–9) Dana reads a powerful section from the book and Janis opens up about the deep, personal story behind those words.
  • A special focus on the closing paragraph of the chapter (page 11) and why it matters so much.
• “Sometimes I Get Mad at God” (Chapter 3, Page 13) Janis speaks candidly about the aftermath of her divorce—feeling abandoned, unattractive, useless, and worthless—and being angry with God.
  • How she rose above that season
  • What helped her rebuild her faith and identity
• Why Forgiveness Is So Freaking Hard (Chapter 12) Dana reads a powerful excerpt that many listeners will deeply relate to.
  • What prompted Janis to write this devotional
  • How forgiveness became a process—not a performance
  • Finding real freedom after deep betrayal

Key Takeaways

• God can handle your anger, questions, and tears
• Feeling broken doesn’t mean you’re faithless
• Forgiveness is hard—but freedom is possible
• Healing begins when we stop pretending and start telling the truth

Where you can connect with Janis and her book:

Website: https://linktr.ee/jdennis8?utm_source=linktree_profile_share

Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/hwmKXok

YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/kSwQFCNAfdE

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About the Podcast

Rise & Reclaim After Divorce helps you re-member who you are after divorce—faith, identity, healing, and hope included.

In His Service,

Dana

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